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Should I approach him, or wait for him?
Hi. I'm 18, currently at college. There's a boy named Alex in my Sociology 101 class. I decided last week to introduce myself to him. I walked up to him, introduced myself, told him he was cute and asked if he wanted to study for sociology sometime. The only reason I asked him about the studying thing was to have a reason to get his number. Sadly I didn't get his number, but he said if he falls behind in class he would let me know. He also smiled when I said he was cute and he said he would talk to me after we took our test on friday. He was finished with his test before me so he left and I didn't have the chance to talk to him again. I need help, should I talk to him next class, or should I wait for him to approach me? I really want to get to know him and I'm just scared to approach him again. Please give me advice :)
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Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
This sounds exactly like a problem i had before. You want to really get to know this boy you like, but you don't know how, and you don't want to be pushy or a stalker, right? lol thats how i felt too. Heres what you can do:
1.) Wait and see if HE comes and talks to YOU
2.) Approach him (In a non-stalker creepy way) and just say "hey" and ask if he wants to hang out at lunch or sometime, anytime.
I hope this helps. Please feel free to contact me on my gmail: madamefrappeadvice
All one word, no capitals, no space. If you need anything else, any advice PLEASE contact me. I assure you i am NOT a weirdo. Im a teen like most people seeking my advice, and i just want to help people. :) So feel free to contact me anytime for help and advice.
Love, MadameFrappe
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Life is short and it's for living! You like him so tell him - that would be my advice. Be more upfront rather than trying to make it seem like it's about sociology class. He may not want to get together to study sociology but that's not to say he won't want to get together for a date or to hang out. Just say it how it is. What's the worst that can happen? Fortune favours the brave as the saying goes.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams and live the life you imagined,
Ashok
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It can't hurt to be honest, tell him why you talked about studying together, it was supposed to be an excuse to get his number and didn't work out quite as you'd hoped. Would he be willing to trade numbers and chat sometimes? It should work. Good luck
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