Ok so i met this girl at the airport and asked for her phone number and after that we kept on msging for months... I recently moved to boarding school and the same week i moved she said she loved me and we started this long distance relationship.. But a few days before she told me i got a blow job from another girl and i hid this from her till now... I felt really guilty not telling her and today i told her .. She says i lie too much and that she doesn't want to talk to me, but i really wont be able to get over her cause shes better than perfect! Id literally so anything for her and to find a way to make her forgive me.. This is all my fault i know but i just love her so much and i actually thought about suicide because without her in nothing... Shes really mad and doesn't trust me.. I need as much help as possible ASAP please! Thanks..
P.S sorry if its a bit rushed but in freaking out
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? ksca answered Saturday October 25 2014, 6:52 pm: alright calm down I know its hard ive been there so firstly you have to calmly tell her how you feel and then you have to say how stupid and weak you were she'll give in probably hiding it but she will and then send her flowers or some chocolates through a friend who youm trust. tell her about the way you act and how it affects you but don't make her feel guilty she will also need some space but is probably dy6ing for you to fight for her. this obviously depends on the girl but if you truly love her make a grand romantic gesture for her [ ksca's advice column | Ask ksca A Question ]
MadameFrappe answered Thursday October 23 2014, 6:57 pm: Hi, I'm MadameFrappe.
I totally get what your going through and I', gonna try to help you best i can.
okay, it sounds like this IS your fault but it was total mistake. If you haven't already tried this, just assure her that you will NEVER do anything to hurt her ever again. Something like cheating on someone can be hard to forgive, but if you just tell her in a calm, compassionate way that is believable I'm sure she will understand that what you did was a mistake and you won't do it again.
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PS: Please don't do anything that you will regret doing. don't do anything crazy like suicide. I know times can be tough. Believe me I've thought about it too. But then i thought of all the people who CARE and how much it would hurt them if i did that to myself. Email me if you need advice about suicide. [ MadameFrappe's advice column | Ask MadameFrappe A Question ]
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