Once in a while while having sex my boyfriend will get a thick, white substance on his penis and ive noticed same substance after I have had an orgasm. Is this normal or should I be worried? It doesn't happen all the time and sometimes has an odor and sometimes not. Need a reasonable answer because we are in a female/male monogamous relationship.
There is such a thing as precum, when a man is excited sexually, and it doesn't not show up every time on the tip on the penis. It's for help lubricating for intercourse.
Females also get a thick whitish liquid before sex, while aroused that is to help with lubrication for intercourse. These are normal and because in lots of people it's doesnt always show up regularly, or not enough lubrication, thats why there's such a great market for KY Jelly or other personal lubricants.
Men and Women both have their own musk scent in that region, and perhaps that is what you smell. I really can't detect much odor of any kind from my or hubbys fluids. It's very light and not offensive. If anything smells like rotten garbage, it may be an indication of an infection which you must see a doctor to get antibiotics prescribed for.
If you have a white substance after orgasm, some women, not all, are able to do the female version of ejaculation. In all women, a fluid is released with orgasm just as in men. However in utero, a tiny little duct that carries this orgasm fluid through, connecting to your tube where you pee through to exit, was never developed and so the fluid released goes straight into your bladder instead of bypassing and coming out the urethra. Thats why some women think they are peeing when its actually their cum fluid being released. You can also have more of the lubricating fluid of your own created in the vaginal area. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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