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Likes me or is he just using me
18/f
okay so I met this guy a few weeks ago and we talked ALL the time and we ended up messing around a bit but we didn't have sex, and weve done that about 3 times now and he tells me he likes me but whenever I message him about 50% of the time it takes him FOREVER to read them or open them, but like the last time we hungout he wanted me to take a picture with him to snapschat his mom so im soooooooooo confused!! I really like this guy and I just don't want to get hurt again,......
Thanks!
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Hi I'm MadameFrappe and I'm going to answer your question in an honest, empathetic way.
I totally get what you're going thru girl! I was afraid to get hurt by a guynp that I really liked too. Like you, we would talk, hang out and all that. But sometimes I felt like he was leading me on. I felt like somedays he seemed like he really likes me... and other days I feel like he just wants to be friends.
Here are 3 things you can try:
1.) ask him if he really likes you. For real. Tell him he's been giving you mixed signals and you don't want to get hurt.
2.) Pay attention to that way he acts around you. If he acts all sweet and funny and nice to you in a way he doesn't act around other girls... maybe he really does like you. :)
3.) Just act normal. Hang out and be YOURSELF! :) NEVER ACT LIKE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT TO IMPRESS A GUY.
Hope this helps!!! Please ask me anything else you might need and I will SURELY be more than happy to help you.
Love, MadameFrappe
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Some guys just aren't that into texting.
If you don't know for a fact that he texts people back right away, don't read into that. If you do for some reason know that he texts people back fast, then he's just probably not that into you.
Most of the time, when you're messing around with a guy, they won't want to take it any further because they're already getting that out of you. That's not all guys, but the majority won't date you when you're messing around with them.
If you want to know how he feels, ask him. It's either that or guessing how he feels or waiting around for him to say it..if he ever does.
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I would try to determine just how much he is into mobile communication devices. Is he always carrying and consulting his phone, forever tapping away either reading or sending messages? Does he have a reputation for being a little late to respond and reply to everyone? It would be a shame to think he is not keen on YOU when he may just not be as keen on the whole messaging/social networking scene as you and/or some people are. I am known to be a late responder myself so it causes no offence. Friends and relatives don't expect an instant response every time. Have a chat with him. A real chat, face to face. Does he actually know his often-late replies are causing you concern? Really, people did fall in love and commit to each other just fine before texts and social networking websites!
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He's not in love with you and you two shouldn't be having sex.
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When he's around you does he text a lot if he does text a lot and doesn't text you... He has someone else on his mind
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Ask him if he likes texting or not. Some guys hate typing. Some do better with actual phone calls. Lastly, others prefer face to face talk. Just ask him, dont assume its bad news if you dont hear back all the time.
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