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What are we??
So I've been talking to this guy for over a month now and he's sending me mixed signals. He keeps asking me to send him "pics" and I tell him that I don't send them to anyone else I'm in a relationship with them. But we flirt and everything. I just can't figure out if we have a thing going or if he's just a normal guy being a friend.
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I think you should ask him.
LOL sorry it was a short answer but i think its most subtle and good.
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What is it you are looking for in a guy? When you have a list and have memorized it, you will know whether this guy is going to be someone to spend time getting to know or not.
You can always ask him what his interest and intentions are but that's not totally helpful unless you know what it is you want.
If a guy asks for pictures without asking to date you, it's more likely he wants a collection of photo's of females he finds sexually attractive to jerk off to. I've actually had grown men ask me for pics and admit that's why they wanted them, figuring maybe being honest was more likely to get them photos.
It isn't odd to have two people flirt who aren't serious about dating each other and being a couple. I've encountered flirting from those interested in dating, and then there is light-hearted, innocent flirting that even married folks will do in the company of their close friends simply because flirting is fun to do, makes you feel good as well as the other person too and I cant tell you if his is flirting just for the fun of flirting's sake or if he is interested. So you will have to ask him. If he says he wants to date you, finds you interesting, likes you, loves you....in all of those ask why, and ask for examples. If you still get mixed signals, it could be he has no particular type of girl he likes in mind and will just pay attention to whoever will pay attention back or perhaps he has no clue at all what he is looking for and just practicing how to flirt using you to practice on.
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So ask him! Yeah it takes some courage but aren't you tired of being uncertain? If he wants a relationship, great! If he doesn't, tell him he shouldn't be sending mixed signals and be glad you didn't send him any pictures ;)
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