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URGENT! PLEASE I NEED ADVICE! :(
Please help. I love this girl, and I know "love" is used in many ways, but I just feel it, that once in a life time love. I truly love her! She said she liked me but she needed time to decide. Over the past few months, we've gone on a few I guess you could say dates, but still no answer. Then tonight, after I left her house she left her Instagram on my iPod. I didn't know at the time, so when I opened it up I realized it was her account. She sent a direct to a guy saying " you are my one and only forever" and calls him bae, vise versa. Please help! I love her so much!!! Please...
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To be honest, I found it really weird that she didn´t answer right away; if you love someone you just KNOW.
So maybe the girl likes you, but she is playing a little bit. Maybe she doesn´t know what she wants yet.
I think you must give her a little space for her to clear her mind. Maybe you should leave some time for her to realize what/ who she really needs.
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Ok, well since you guys aren't exclusive, it's fine to date other people.
But it is weird that she was saying, "You are my one and only forever", because that makes it more serious. Clearly, she has feelings for someone else more strongly and it sounds more serious.
If she does have a boyfriend or is exclusive with someone, then you shouldn't date a girl like that. It seems that you "love" a girl who doesn't have strong morals. I don't know all the details so I can't say for sure.
And like the others said, you may just really, really like her. Love is a strong word, and to be able to really be truly in love with someone, you need to really know them and know how they act around their friends and family, how she treats them. How she acts when she's angry or upset.
I don't know how close you are to her so I can't say for sure.
But I'd back off of her. Because you don't want to get involved with someone who has another guy that she's exclusively seeing.
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I would say she already likes somebody. If she wants to date you as well as him it's not worth it. Also, there is probably more than one person out there for you and you really need to think is she the one?
Here are some things to think about....
1. How old are you? Love can come at any time, but if you are young you have your whole life ahead of you.
2.Do you like her personality? Have you ever seen her when she was mad, stressed, or upset? If you haven't, do you really know her?
3. Is she really worth waiting for? If you could, would you wait a millenium for her?
4. Are you sure this isn't some sort of temporary crush you imaginined just so that you could have some drama in your life? Sometimes we all need a little drama to feel somewhat normal.
If you are pretty much like yes i love her and everything about her then just wait till she realizes that you are her match.
If you are like I don't know, maybe not then you should find somebody else or keep an out out for someone.
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It sounds like she is dating someone else as well. As you are not in an exclusive relationship with this girl, you are both free to date other people.
And that's OK.
On the other hand, her message ("you are my one and only forever") leads me to believe that she is in a serious relationship with this guy. That's not something you'd say to just anyone. Though I don't know how old you both are, so I can't be sure.
Tell her to be honest with you and ask her if she is seeing someone else. It's really not fair on you if she already has a boyfriend. You have the right to know!
Also, if she lies to you and says she's not seeing anyone else then she's obviously playing with you.
Don't let her lead you on forever.
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