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how to get him to like you?
Hi, so for a while, I've been noticing this guy (we're in highschool) looking at me, like a lot. like he'll literally stare at me. And whenever I talk to him, he acts different around me and I'm not sure if it's because I piss him off or if it's because he likes me. Anyways, today I told my friends who are good friends with him (because one of them has an older brother who is his bestfriend) that I like him (I have spoken to him before, we've already had conversations) and they told me that he hooks up with people and all which I guess is normal... idk. It sort of hurt when I found out about this because I've never hooked up and I don't want to ever hook up and I really like this guy, so how could I make him only attracted to me? I mean I guess he already likes me face or something since he's always looking at it. How can I be even more conspicuous to him? I want him to only want me, how do I do that?
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I agree with the other adviser.
You can't make him only attracted to you. Obviously, no one will only be attracted to one person. You may only have feelings for one person but you'll always be attracted to more than one person.
So if you actually want a relationship with him, you'll have to get to know him more. You don't know him very well right now so you have to see if both personalities click, if he's even interested in a relationship, or if he's just looking to hook up.
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Unfortunately, there is no magic formula that will make him only attracted to you. He may find you attractive but if you want a relationship with him that is going to take you getting to know each other a little more.
You also have to consider whether this person wants a relationship at all, since he is sleeping around. If what you are looking for is a relationship than you will have to set aside your feelings and determine if he is willing and able to be in a relationship with you.
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