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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
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i want to go on a diet. every is like "no you are so skinny!" which is true, but i want to stay skinny! im not trying to loose weight, im trying to maintain it! so please help me out on ways to do that!

well obviously you dont need to go on a diet if your skinny..diets are for people who WANT to loose weight..well maybe you shouild just eat littler portions of food..well maybe you skinny now..and just keep doing what your doing to be skinny..and dont try to get to skinny..and rember your not on a diet..lol..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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ok me & my gf has beenin planing to go out for a long time now. i was wondering where a good place to take her would be?


-thanks

maybe to go to a resturant..and maybe you guys can go to a little park at night and just hang out and talk..take her to a really nice resturant ..but tell her where ever your going is a surprise..and just take her out to dinner and maybe something else..but then you take her home and do what you boys do!!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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I'm not sure what to think. This guy that I'm kinda friends with imed me a little while ago and said that he was taking a survey, so I was like..ok.. then he goes, it's just one question. so, I was like, ok, go ahead. he said what would you do if i asked you out? (and he said he already got 2 other girls to take it)and so I go maybe..maybe not.. lol. I don't know if he was really doing a survey or not though, cause he wentaway after I said that. What do ya'll think? Should I im him back and say something else?
Thanks for your help! I rate 5's for nice answers!
*confused*

well you no how boys are..they just dont want to say "will you go wit me"
they halft to make up like something..like that little survey..lol...well he was so asking you out..and girl you shouild of answerd his question witha yes..and you shouild i.m. him today,...and say, you no that survey question you asked me???(and hell be all like yeah!!!)then you say yeah i wouild say yes if you asked me out..then you go on from there..but you no if you dont like him then you do what you want to do!!
hope i helped.
love always,
ilovepink101

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one of my really good friends is anorexic... she just admitted to us ((me n my friends)). We really want her to stop but don't know how, she said she'll talk to us, but i don't know *exactly* what to say to make her realize she needs to stop... now... what should we say???

thx - *troubled friend*

well you shouid tell her that she is not fat..and she looks good the way she is now..and maybe you shouild help her start eating more.. i no it sounds mean but you might halft to get her parents involved..or you shouild say that if you dont stop ill tell your parents or an adult..i no it sounds mean..but this is really serious...you hear about mary-kate olsen???she was anorexic!!but she had to go rehab..so just try to do the best you can and helping!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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hey my mom wants to go to see moster in law but i have all ready seen it what should i do

well did you like it???maybe you shouild go see it again..you shouild go!!and if you dont want to see it then you shouild tell your mom and maybe shell understand..but if you liked the movie then go see it and have a good time with your mom..and maybe you can get her to seeing a diffrent movie..there are plenty of movies in theratres..maybe theres atleast 1 diffrent one you guys can see!!
hope i helped..
love always.
ilovepink101

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ok this is deff a question for the girls. its kinda stupid but wutever.. lets say your period starts on the 1st day of the month and lasts till like the 6th. the next month wuld your period most likely come towards the 1st or the 6th? thnx in advance

well yuo gotta count your 28 days and kinda guess when it wil l come..i got my period on the 19 of may.. and i got it back today!!the 20th of june..so maybe it will come around the 4th..but dont be surprised if your periods a little late..becasue mine was..and that does not mean theres something wrong with you..its normal!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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Hey, I want to get my lip pierced. The lebrae (sp?) kind. (You know how it's in the middle and what not) But my fear is that it will hurt extreamly bad. If anyone has gotten theirs pierced could you tell me how bad it hurt? Or any other information I need to know? THANKS!

well i have never goten my lip pierced..but you no it might hurt..but you might think its worth it..and maybe it is..well you no if you ever get in a physical fight that your going to have a jacked up lip..no iffence...and im not trying to be mean ,just honest...well maybe your not the trouble maker type but you do what you want to do..and maybe youll like the lip pierce..just take good care of it and wash it and clean whenn needed..you dont want to get an infecttion!!!ewwweyy!!!lol..
hope i helped..
love always.
ilovepink101

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today my boyfriend fingered me when he did there was a white discharge on his fingers afterward he said that happend once before but this is freaking me out is this at all normal,if so what is it?

your fine..you no how guys cum??all that semien comes out...well you have some to..so when you come you got all that white stff all over him..so dont be al freaked out over nothing..its normal..nothings wrong with you!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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16/f
i have lived in my current house for almost two years. the place that i moved from i had lived there for 8 years. i have just recently gone back to where i came from and i visited my friends and met some new ones.
the question i have is: is it possible to fall for someone that you have just met and are almost completely alike in every way (we have the same interest, tastes, etc.)?
i like him and he seems to like me, if we pursue this possoble relationship, would it be smart to do it at long distance? (i live in montana, he lives in kansas).
thanks in advance.

well sure..it might not be love but you no that you like him..well why dont you go for it and give it a try..if he likes you and you like him it sounds like a perfect couple..so make it happen...but the whole long distance thing!!well there is such thing as internet..but you do what you feel is right for you ok..and have fun at it..and i hope you get the boy you want !!!
hope i helped

love always,
ilovepink101

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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem.

well umm.. sweetie you are kinda obessed..and she may not even like you..but you shouild tell her about your feelings and just tell her everything that you just told us on advicenators..well you need to give that girl some space..and she doesnt no that you like her so thats why she acts like that around you becssue she thinks that you dont care..which you do..so you need to tell her and get every thing straight with her..and maybe she will feel the same about you..you never no until you give it a try..well try to give bobby joe some space of her own..she doesnt no how you feel so its kinda weird for you to be acting like that..just tell her and try to give her some space.. good luck!!!TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL...!!!
hope i helped
love always,
ilovepink101

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?

omg!!sweetie you need help!!umm.. you shouild try to go to someboy...and tell your firnds.and show their parents the bruises..and dont you ever be sucidal..god wanted you hear for a reason..at advicenators you can look under miscalounus..on the home page..look on the left bottom..all the way to the bottom..it says report abuse..you report your abuse you there..im so sorry for you..were all here and thinking of you ok..now you try to get to an adult and tell them and show them the bruises..please get help as soon as possible ok..were here for you..and go report the abuse on advicenators..go to the home page..on the left..scrool to the bottom..under miscellaneous, report abuse is the 5th thing there...do it as soon as possible!!!sorry !!!
hope i helped!!!
love always,
ilovepink101

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I am 13 and I have never kissed anyone. I know that I want too, but I want it to be sweet and romantic. I have thought about this for a LONG time (ever since I turned 11) I want a romantic first kiss, like a walk in the park or something and then we just kiss. I need to know about 5 things though. (1) I have braces, will our lips get hung together or something? (2) I ALSO have a herpz appliance in my mouth!!! Will THAT get our lips caught together? (3) How do you kiss? I mean whats the most sweetest way to kiss without making out? (4) Where is a romantic date? I can go to the movies or somewhere like that? I don't have any parks where I live. (5) Whats a good type of clothing, earrings, etc. to where? I REALLY NEED A GIRL'S ADVICE!

aww..this is so cute..well its cool that you want to wait and save your first kiss for a romantic night!!well (1)the thing with your braces...you dont jab your teeth with his gums or moth, sweetie when you kiss all you need is your tounge!!!
(2)what the hell is a herpz appliace!!!(sorry)
(3)the sweetest way is to always close your eyes..youll ,look like a fool if you dont...lol..and just go with the motion..and youll ctach on to the kissing part!!!
(4)well maybe you guys can go grab some dinner and then you can head to the movies..and thats romantic enough!!come on your 13..your not going o go to no fancy resturant..but you can go to like fast food or like something quick and the go to the movies..then hel take you home..and hell kiss you proably before you leave..hopefully!!!
(5)well the thing that is in now are the mini skirts..you no since now its summer..and make sure you do shave your legs..lol..n-ewayz..you can wear a mini skirt with a cute shirt..and you were some sandals..and were cute necklace and earrings..go to claires..they have the best teen jewlery..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom.

wow..umm ou ever meat his mom in person??maybe she those kind of moms that dont wont him to grow up you no...well you shouild talk to him and tell him that his mom yells or you shouild tell him to pick up the phone..or atleast try to!!!or you shouild call him and if his mom yells then say mam i reall dont appresiate when you yell at me may you please stop..but then she might think that your like crazy,talking to her like that..well maybe you shouild ask your mom what to do!!and maybe she will give you something to say...maybe you shouild also trying meeting this evel lady..and maybe shell like you then...hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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i used to like this guy a long time ago and i got over him. but now i think hes hitting on me. he slaps my butt and hugs me all the time. i've never had a boyfiend before so i dont feelcomfortable when he touches me. he acts all pervertive and stuf and wherever i go he goes and its annoying!hes had many girlfriends in the past and i dont know if hes doing this to other girls and not just me. please help. i dont know what to do anymore. he wont give me space to breathe! Help!

girl you need to go talk to some body about this..he slaps your butt..o pleassse...you dont ever let anyone do that to you!!you respect your body..dont let boys hit on ir like that..he is such a frako..those are the kinda ones who are going to beacome rapers..so you better solve it now before it gets real serious..and no im not trying to scare you..but next time anyone does that yuo comfront themm and tell them whos boss...because i no its not them..and you better start respecting your body more..sorry so harsh....it just disgustie me how boys out there can do that..you no why hes doing it right??because he wonts you to like him again..so you dont fall in his traps you satnd up for you self!!hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

well you no that he is so flirting with you..well it sounds to me like he is..and its so cute how he "saved" you from running in to a wall..lol..well you no what!!if you think he likes you then go for it..y shouild you wait around for people when you have a perfect chance right in the palm of your hand..and this couild be your 1st boyfriend you no..and i dont want you to change a bit..obviously he likes you the way you are right now..so you dont change from him or nobody else..well you go for it and try to flirt with him a little more.like ask him if he wouild want to hang out with you 1 day!!i no hes supost to be doing the asking out..but obviously hes not..and unless you want to no if he likes you you gotta do the asking..well then you give him friendly hugs and flirt with him while yall are out and you do your thing girl..e-mail me when you csn and tell me how it goes!!dont forget to e-mail me, you better!!
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101

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are there any foods or types of foods that would help me lose some wieght?

a yeah theres actually alot of foods!!!you can choose fruits veggies low fat splenda sugar!!you have so many diffrent choices..you no that fruit helps you loose weight..or you can eat smaller portionsn of food..not syaing that you eat large ones..just saying IF you do..well theres many ways you can loose weight..and theres many food types that will help you loose that weight..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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Okay, there is this guy (his name is Gage Tyler) that I am like crazy for. He always tells his friends that he doesn't like me, but yet when one of my friends asks him if he does like me he doesn't answer them. Or like if I come around him, he always leaves, but sometimes comes back around me. It's really weird and all of my friends say that I am too good for him, or he isn't good enough for me. And one of my friend's thinks that he is mentally abusing me?!?!?! Well, please help!! lol.

umm...sorry to burst your bubble sweetie but your friend is right!!!only because he s ounds like he is embaressed to be around you..and thats why he tells people he doesnt like you..trust me you deserve alot better than that..and he is menttally abusing you..because he might not even like you..so he just pays with your head becaus e he nos that you like him..so hes like well if i trase her a bit it will get her hopes ujp..well dont waste your time with pigs like him..there called jerks for a reason!!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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Ok There is this boy Zac and I Like him A LOT! And my friend Emmie thinks he likes me. I'm just going to say what happened to me when I hung out with him last( I haven't before this was the first time ). Well I was just standing in a corner at a basketball game and he came up to me and said, " Who are you? " and I simply replied my name and then he said " Oh okay I know you " and he walked away to play his basketball game( it was at half time ). When it was over he came over to me and said "Is your screen name g-o-i-n space.." and I just said yeah. Then he kept like sitting next to me. It was really funny watching him though because he was like kind of dancing lol. But anyways he kept coming over and sitting next to me and I was talking to him and he was looking at me this whole time. And whenever I looked over he didn't look away he just smilied. Well then I went outside and he I guess was talking about me because he pointed to me and said something to one of his friends. Well then he couldn't find me I guess but he came outside and started talking to me. I was acting stupid...for some reason I do that around cute guys lol...Anyways he was making fun of me for being stupid. And then he went inside the gym and so did I and he was just looking at me the whole time. < Thats what happened...he goes to a different school soo I don't know if his personality is just like that or anything. But I talk to him on AOL and stuff soo yeah. Well I asked a few people if he was really flirtish and they all said yeah...but thats A LOT of flirting he did right? Okay Well I need your opinions does he like me? I rate high and give comments! ^_^

ahhh.... dud he likes you..any body wouild no that by the way he was smiling at you,..and everything..lets just hope he didnt have a girlfriend..well maybee you guys shouild hook up one time..well thats so cool how he new your screen name ???any wayz how id he no that??well i can tell he likes you because of they way he was flirting..lol..anyways his firnds told you he was a big flirt right.. and you shouild of already known that he likes you..lol..well i hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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i am 14F and i want to get a belly button ring. what do you think of a belly button ring? and how do i convince my mom to let me get one because she keep thinking of the future and saying when you get old and decide to have a baby.. it will get all streched out or it will get infected

well you shouild get one if you feel like it...and i am dieing to get my belly button done and i am when im 15..and i always thought of that!!ehat do you do when you have a baby????you can take it out, but then it might close up..and i dont no where your moms gegting that it might get inffected when your pregant..and thats not true..just another excyse not to get it..lol...well if you do decide to get it rember to be responsible and clean it with salt...my friend says that all you gotta do is take good care of it and clean it all the time and always be responsible...
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101

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my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?

wow thats prety scary..well why do you think hell rape you..well i see why never mind..this boi sounds like a perverted horny freank..and its actually brave of you to break up with someone like that..and its good that you did it now so nothing serieous will happen in the realtion ship..well what you shouild do is tell your friends about the whole story and always be by your friends at all times or alleast try to be by your firends at all times..well if he trys to get lose to you or if you see him stocking you then you go see an adult or go tell the cops..but dont you ever be scared of him..i mean dont ever be scared to tell on him or any thing that..i asure you that he will not do anything if your by a big crowd..only because that big crowd can be a big help as wittness if he trys to do anything..
hope i helped...
hope i helped,
ilovepink101

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