Okay, there is this guy (his name is Gage Tyler) that I am like crazy for. He always tells his friends that he doesn't like me, but yet when one of my friends asks him if he does like me he doesn't answer them. Or like if I come around him, he always leaves, but sometimes comes back around me. It's really weird and all of my friends say that I am too good for him, or he isn't good enough for me. And one of my friend's thinks that he is mentally abusing me?!?!?! Well, please help!! lol.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Gorda1224 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:24 pm: Hey, Well he might be mentalyy abusing you.....if you notice you are crazy over him. By him ignoring you it makes you want him even more. If you say that he leaves when you come around him. It might be that he doesnt like you or that he gets really nervouse when you come near him and he doesnt want you to notice. What i suggest you do is go up to him and ask him if he likes you. If he says yes take it from there......But if he says no, just keep doin ur thing....and he wasnt worth it. Find another person and ignore him. That should piss him off. Hope i have helped. [ Gorda1224's advice column | Ask Gorda1224 A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 9:23 am: umm...sorry to burst your bubble sweetie but your friend is right!!!only because he s ounds like he is embaressed to be around you..and thats why he tells people he doesnt like you..trust me you deserve alot better than that..and he is menttally abusing you..because he might not even like you..so he just pays with your head becaus e he nos that you like him..so hes like well if i trase her a bit it will get her hopes ujp..well dont waste your time with pigs like him..there called jerks for a reason!!!
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101 [ ilovepink101's advice column | Ask ilovepink101 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:12 pm: Haha.. foRm what I know of the situation.. I don't see how his behavioR is "mental abuse". :) Also, THIS ISN'T YOUR FRIEND'S DECISION TO MAKE!! THEY'RE not the ones that would be intimately involved with him.. YOU ARE!!! If *YOU* like this guy, then stRaight up tell him!!! I know it's easieR said than done, but you just have to be bold and give it all ya got!! PeRhaps once you've bRoken the ice, he may come clean to you and dish out the REAL scoop. Only HE knows EXACTLY what he's feeling.. no one else, and NO ONE ELSE CAN OR SHOULD EVEN TRY TO DECIDE FOR YOU!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hopefully eveRything woRks out!! :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
dearuncle answered Monday June 13 2005, 6:29 pm: The friend that thinks hes mentally abusing you is probably mental herself .
He is probably a bit shy and not sure what to do.
You know,if you want him so bad ,why not let him know .What you got to lose but do it when his frieds arnt around .You just might be surprised. [ dearuncle's advice column | Ask dearuncle A Question ]
shake answered Monday June 13 2005, 5:20 pm: Are you going to let your friends lead your life and hwo you got out with?
StarBabe72 answered Monday June 13 2005, 5:04 pm: Here's my advice: Get one of your guyfriends who's friends with Gage to tell him you need to talk to him. Tell Gage what's going on and if he says that he doesn't like you, then move on. If he doesn't like you, then he's not worth it. If you ask me, your too good for him. Don't ever put yourself or let someone else put you down by sayin he's too good for you. Hope I helped!
~Erika~ [ StarBabe72's advice column | Ask StarBabe72 A Question ]
karenR answered Monday June 13 2005, 3:39 pm: In order to mentally abuse you you'd have to at least be having a relationship. I think if he says he doesn't like you then he doesn't. The more you bug him (or have friends ask) about it, the more he is going to dislike you. My advice is leave him alone for awhile and see what happens. You'll probably be better off looking for someone else. :( [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
lilly_pads79 answered Monday June 13 2005, 1:40 pm: Well tell him you like him maybe he will tell you he likes you. No he isn't mentally abusing you. Hope for the best!
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