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shy
well this kinda of goes along with the first question i asked..anyways im really super shy and my bf is like nothing close to it and he like always wants me to be doing stuff with him especially kissing but like i think thats most of my problem im so shy and im like afraid of being a bad kisser ..how can i be more out there and just go for it..HELP me please..any advice will give ideas anyways
shy girl
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Well, WHY NOT just jump out theRe??? I mean, you can't spend youR life wondeRing what OTHERS may think of you. And especially with youR boyfRiend.. if you'Re afRaid he'll leave you if you act like youR complete self, then it can only be a good thing, because what's the point in staying in a Relationship when one paRtneR is no longeR 100% committed and is wanting out, ya know? And kissing isn't as haRd as you might think. And don't woRRie about being 'bad' at it. Honestly, theRe isn't Really a Right oR wRong way to kiss; eveRyone's kiss is unique. And if youR boyfRiend is even a QUARTER of a human being he isn't going to leave you just because you'Re a 'bad kisseR'. Now, it's difficult to tell you HOW to kiss, but I found a website that thinks it's capable of doing JUST that: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) Goodluck!! Hope this helps!! :P
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hey..okay i went through the same thing as you....i sat down with my boyfriend and told him about my shyness when he wants me to do these things...he understood...if yours doesnt he isnt a true boyfriend...we started out with little pecks on the lips then things got passionate ..soon enough we were making out....u dont have to do anything you dont want to do...soo go slow if if thts what you need to do....you need to spend alot of yime alone with him soo you can over come your shyness then maybe take the kissing to the movies are out side under the moon for a night of passionate kissing...hope i helped!
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well, first of all you dont have 2 do anything you don't want 2 but if you do and your shyness is keepin you back then kiss him and pretend hes some1 famous, then you wont care whether your a bad kisser or not
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i went through the EXACT same thing you are going through right now with my boyfriend. but i finally just sat down and talked with him about me being insecure about kissing him or anything else. luckily my boyfriend understood what i was saying and said he'd take it a step at a time .. first just little kisses here and there like on the cheek. then finally moved to just kissing on the lips ; making out; etc. he helped me really get through the shy stage i was going through and now me and him are INSEPERABLE! sit down with your boyfriend and talk with him like i did with mine .. if he's a really good boyfriend i'm pretty sure he'd understand what you are going through and don't worry about being a bad kisser .. kiss him and then later ask what he thought of it or if he had fun or whatever comes to your head to make it seem like you're not wondering if you are or not but really trying to find the answer. Good Luck ((i hope i helped you))
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Everyone gets shy around the person they like, its thoes stupid hormones kicking in again! Just think about it, he is a person too. Don't you like when guys compliment you, talk to you, pay you any attention? Well, you have heared of the cleched tearm, "treat others how you would like to be treated", right? Well, finally use that quote.
To be outgoing, you first need to be secure with yourself. The best way to do that is to love yourself, if you do, so will everyone else.
As for the kissing part, practice on the back of your had (its kind of like reading the summary of the book before you acctually read it)And don't worry, you will know what to do when the time comes! Good luck!
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Well first you have to want to. When you really wanna stop being shy. Join a club, try and make new friends. Don't be afraid. Then when your ready kiss him. Don't worry about what he will think! Hope I helped!
~*Brianna*~
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