I've decided flat out that I'm going to surprise my guy friend with a kiss, to show my feelings for him. However, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. It would be my first.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Monday June 13 2005, 3:19 pm: well its good thats your going to do it that way. it will be really sweet. just try and catch him when hes on his own, suggest going out or something, maybe to the cinema. then when your on your own just take hold of his hand and just lean in and give him a little kiss. just a little one on the lipsand kind of let it linger and see how he reacts. if he starts kissing you back then thats all sorted and if when you pull away he leans in and kisses you then that all sorted too. but dont worry if he doesnt straight away, because he may be a little shocked. and if he doesnt then its was only a little kiss and so wont have ruined your friendship.
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lilly_pads79 answered Monday June 13 2005, 1:24 pm: This is hard but just find some time alone walk up to him, and just kiss him. Do what ever comes naturally.
maygenx3 answered Monday June 13 2005, 1:22 pm: I'm glad you decided you want to kiss him atleast you know you aren't shy. But also you should think about is he worth it? Yes, he is your friend and are you willing to ruin your friendship if he doesnt feel the same way you do? Also, what if the kiss isnt what you wanted its something youll have to live with for the rest of your life. Not that a kiss is live changing but your first time is esp. important. But to answer your question. Try leaning over him to get something or when you talk to him talk closer to him than normal. Sometimes hugs can help you kiss a guy. But before you do this see if he is given off the same vibes as you.
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