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hey, my names megan im pretty outgoing i like to just hang out with friends and be myself. ive been dancing for about 11 years.. so i guess u could say its my passion. i play varsity tennis for my school and i loovvee it. im going to be a sophmore this year at acadiana high. if you need to know anything else just ASK. thats what im here for haha.
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Ok I like this guy , but he can't date outside of his relligion. What should I do???

convert...

ha yeh im kidding. you cant do anything about that and dont pressure him to be with you if its agaisnt his religion there are plenty of other guys.

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?

This is a very difficult question to answer so ill answer it as best I can. Your father and no one else has the right to invade your privacy and abuse you AND your self esteem this way. Does your mom know about this? It could help to talk to her or someone else you trust. Also as stupid as it sounds school counselors can REALLY help you out with these kinds of things, they keep things confidential and can get you the help you need without your father knowing. Becoming suicidal is NOT the answer believe me you havent done anything to deserve what your father is doing to you and you shouldnt have to pay for his sick actions. All i can say is talk to the police, is there bruises on your arms or anywheres else something that is proof, police aer VERY concerned with these types of things and youll gain a lot more than you think if you talk to them. Stop letting him treat you this way do something about it.

I hope everything works out for you. If you ever need to talk send me a message to my inbox and ill help in ANY way i possibly can.

Good Luck.

♥maygen

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I have weight issues somedays i feel like a cow and can it a whole buffet and i gain about 5 10 lbs. and other days i can barely eat anything i get sickto my stomach and lose bout 5 ilbs. how can i control this.

the only way to control is it to go to your physician. Ask him/her some healthy eating habits. Perhaps he can give you a eating plan, like certain ideas for eating at each meal. Another thing you can do is write down everything you ate each day, even if it's small or a snack. It helps to see what your eating to control yourself. Also, i know that when im upset or depressed ill eat more than normal this could be another factor. Sometimes a physciatrist or shrink can help you with this or give you depression medicine, not to say that you are depressed.

hope my answer helped and good luck.

♥maygen

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I've decided flat out that I'm going to surprise my guy friend with a kiss, to show my feelings for him. However, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. It would be my first.

I'm glad you decided you want to kiss him atleast you know you aren't shy. But also you should think about is he worth it? Yes, he is your friend and are you willing to ruin your friendship if he doesnt feel the same way you do? Also, what if the kiss isnt what you wanted its something youll have to live with for the rest of your life. Not that a kiss is live changing but your first time is esp. important. But to answer your question. Try leaning over him to get something or when you talk to him talk closer to him than normal. Sometimes hugs can help you kiss a guy. But before you do this see if he is given off the same vibes as you.

good luck and hope everything works out.

♥ maygen

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