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Kisses
I am 13 and I have never kissed anyone. I know that I want too, but I want it to be sweet and romantic. I have thought about this for a LONG time (ever since I turned 11) I want a romantic first kiss, like a walk in the park or something and then we just kiss. I need to know about 5 things though. (1) I have braces, will our lips get hung together or something? (2) I ALSO have a herpz appliance in my mouth!!! Will THAT get our lips caught together? (3) How do you kiss? I mean whats the most sweetest way to kiss without making out? (4) Where is a romantic date? I can go to the movies or somewhere like that? I don't have any parks where I live. (5) Whats a good type of clothing, earrings, etc. to where? I REALLY NEED A GIRL'S ADVICE!
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aww..this is so cute..well its cool that you want to wait and save your first kiss for a romantic night!!well (1)the thing with your braces...you dont jab your teeth with his gums or moth, sweetie when you kiss all you need is your tounge!!!
(2)what the hell is a herpz appliace!!!(sorry)
(3)the sweetest way is to always close your eyes..youll ,look like a fool if you dont...lol..and just go with the motion..and youll ctach on to the kissing part!!!
(4)well maybe you guys can go grab some dinner and then you can head to the movies..and thats romantic enough!!come on your 13..your not going o go to no fancy resturant..but you can go to like fast food or like something quick and the go to the movies..then hel take you home..and hell kiss you proably before you leave..hopefully!!!
(5)well the thing that is in now are the mini skirts..you no since now its summer..and make sure you do shave your legs..lol..n-ewayz..you can wear a mini skirt with a cute shirt..and you were some sandals..and were cute necklace and earrings..go to claires..they have the best teen jewlery..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
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1) I have braces and I have made out with ppl. It's not a big thing.
2) idk about that
3) Kissing comes to you natrually. Thats how it came about for me. If you dont wanna make out than pull away when it gets intense.
4) I love just going to a playground and swinging on the swings.
5)I wear tite jeans and a tite shirt. I wear studs in my ears because that way the hoops dont break or get in the way. For shoes I wear flip flops. I try to look casual so he doesnt think its this huge deal.
Well Hope I helped and good luck.
PS my friends are 13 and havent kissed ne one either its not a big deal.
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hey,
Well you dont need to be stressing it to much. I understand that yu want your first kiss to be romantic (what girl doesnt). But your are only 13. I had my 1st kiss when i was 14 and it wasnt romantic.....i had snuk out of my house wit my friend and i was dared by my friend to kiss the guy i liked at that time. But guys will come and go. But you are 13 and you know what you want...
(1)i'v never had braces but i doont think your lips will get in the way.
(2)I dont know what a herpz appliance is but if your lips get stuck together then that'll be a good thing.
(3)to kiss you need to open you mouth and just flow with a rythm....open and close it. you also move your head around.
(4)a romantic date would be a the beach somewhere were its both of you together.
(5)Well for a kiss you dont need tog o all out on your dressing but on a date you will have to dress nicely. You could wear some heals that are appropiate for you, that you may walk in. You could wear a nice dress shirt with jeans or brazilian pants, or a nice skirt. try to match you r outfit.
Hope i have helped.
*Gorda*
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Okay, well fiRst of all you'Re only 13, and I have many fRiends who aRe 16 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't kissed anyone!!! Honestly, if you'Re woRRied you'Re that you may be "behind" oR something theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because SOMEONE else has done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You have PLENTY of time still. But be it 13, 17, oR 20... it's not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone.
OF COURSE you want youR fiRst kiss to be Romantic!! :D A fiRst kiss is something you will RemembeR foR the REST OF YOUR LIFE, and it's only natuRal to want it to be a peRfect moment.
So getting THAT out of the way..
1--- YouR bRaces should NOT get stuck togetheR; in kissing.. youR teeth don't even make contact. That's just something you heaR about in movies, because the chaRacteR was thinking of the impossible 'What Ifs', ya know? So yeah, you should have NO pRoblem theRe.
2--- To be peRfectly honest.. I do not know what a HeRps Appliance is. I tRied ReseaRching it online to get a betteR undeRstanding, but I came up with nothing useful. My GUESS is that if it caused pRoblems while kissing.. they would have fixed it befoRe Releasing it to the public - howeveR, this is only my GUESS.. soRRie.
3--- And it's difficult to tell someone HOW to kiss. TheRe isn't Really a 'wRong' way to kiss.. just as long as you'Re not like sucking all oveR his nose, ya know?? THEN ya know you'Re scRewin' up SOMEHOW. ;D It's just pRettie simple.. but foR some tips and techniques, check out:
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) And also, this may seems like a Really lame and typical answeR.. but when the 'time is Right' foR a kiss... you'll know. I mean, I'm shoRe that seems stupid to you since you've neveR been theRe and FELT that.. but I felt the SAME way about that statement.... UNTIL I GOT *MY* fiRst kiss -- and I KNEW what they weRe talking about. TRust me.. you will feel it in the aiR... you will feel it in youR heaRt.... feels like a split second of heaRtache. I'm soRRie that's a lame answeR, but TRUST ME.. YOU'LL KNOW. :)
4--- As foR a Romantic date.. theRe aRe lots of good places if you Really think about it. Yeah, the movies aRe nice.. not veRy Romantic though, but fun.. and GOOD.. alweays a good choice!! You could see and movie and then do something else. And I know you said you don't have any paRks neaRby, but can youR paRent's take you?? OR can y'all take the city bus oR something?? PaRks aRe ALWAYS Romantic!!! If theRe *IS* someway you can get theRe... bRing a blanket and some music! And pack a picnic lunch, which doesn't have to be difficult: tuRkey sandwiches on slice bRead, gRapes, pRetzels, twinkies etc. And make shoRe you bRing a cRap load of bRead to feed the duckies!! -OR- anotheR suggestion... MAKE him something to eat, if you'Re up to the challenge. You could tRy stuffed chicken bReasts with potatoes of some soRt with a fResh gaRden salad and sundaes foR desseRt! Also, a simple dinneR out would be veRy classy. OR how 'bout hitting the aRt musuem and then getting some coffee and going foR as stRoll in youR downtown aRea [if you have one???] And you may not see this as 'Romantic', but just the puRe innocence of it all will spaRk some magic... tRy mini golfing, ice skating, hitting the beach, and going to a neaRby town faiR.
5--- And and foR clothing, honestly.. just go in pRettie much whateveR you find comfoRtable. If the guy disappRoves, then you KNOW you'Re OBVIOUSLY out with the WRONG MAN. But yes, theRe ARE occassions when dRessing up would be nice, so RemembeR that a simple calf-length flowing black dRess with some simple silveR eaRRings would be absolutely dazzling. And jeans!! I know you'Re pRobably thinking tha jeans seem so unoRiginal, but with a cute little top... you'll look bReathtaking, I'm shoRe of it!! And mini skiRts aRe always good too.
Hopefully this is of SOME use to you!! I wish you the best! I Really do hope you get that miRaculous fiRst kiss you've been dReaming of. :D
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I wrote this before and this mostly explains how a french kiss should work out...but if you just want to stick with a simple kiss, just stop before it explains about the french kissing.
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And if you want to see "how to get someone to kiss you" read up on this answer I wrote:
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Braces won't really affect anything. In some cases, they might be a problem. If you french kiss, your braces might cut his lip or smash into his teeth.
I have no idea what a herpz appliance is. Do you mean herpes appliance, 'cause that's what it sounds like? uh... hehe.
Movies are fine, but be sure to go somewhere else if you want to have a chance to talk...since movies just allow you to watch the movie in silence.
Clothing and accessories will not matter. Wear what is you because you want the guy to like you for who you are. If he has a problem with something about you, you don't need him anyway. But if you want to know if you should be dressy or not, I'd say dress casually, or maybe a little something special. But not like a wedding dress with tons of diamonds. Ha. Just dress however you're comfortable with.
Good luck!
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humm.. well if you have braces your lips shouldnt get stuck to your partners, and ther herpz thing i dont know. The kissing will come naturally and to make it not making out just dont go crazy on the kiss lol. Romantic date? maybe go out to eat at a nice resurant or even eat at the house and set something nice up and ask your parents to leave for a while. Clothes, well just be your self on that one. Im sure he/she will love what ever your wearing if your being your self.good luck and hope i helped! <3 simone
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(1)/(2) neither will get in the way as long as you aren't like knocking teeth... (3)without getting too technical..there are just a few key points..close your eyes! either focus on putting your partner's either top or bottom lip in between yours (4) hmmm toughie...fourth of july is coming up! any fireworks show would be great...if not, anytime outdoors at night, with stars (5) try wearing your hair down...and wear whatever makes you feel beautiful and makes you confident, guys like confident girls
Good Luck!
Jersey
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Okay well these days the first kiss isnt all that romantic anymore. But here are your answers.
1. No your braces won't get caught on their lips. Your mouth is closed and your teeth are not no wide almost sticking out grin type anyways.
2. Okay I have no idea what a herpz appliance is..but I don't think it would be a problem.
3. For a sweet kiss but not a make out. Just lightly peck(long but not to long) him, Hold he's face with your left hand-gently..like a caress..and tilt your head to the right so your noses dont smush.
4. Lately a movie isn't a romantic date these days. Everyone goes to them so it's a normal routine, I think a romantic date is just sitting at home eating on a couch or you could go for the spender and just go out to a nice restaurant you and him have never tried before so then when you guys go to look at orders you can look stupid together..There has to be a good laugh at the beginning of your date so it don't go crappy.
5. A good type of clothing? Nothing-lol jp. Just jeans and a nice t-shirt..not to nice of an out-fit. you don't want to look helpless(unless you've been dating for awhile..so then you can surprise him) Earing..Go for SMALL hoops or just plain colored diamonds.
-I have had the same guy for 10 months now. I started out seeing him in just a long t-shit and jeans and regualar shoes. Lately to surprise him and get him excited to take me out I wear skirts and cute tops..Theres always time for a picker upper for your man...Just don't try to hard-i learned that mistake with my ex.
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