about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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do girls like it when guys write poetry for them? cuz i wanted to do something different this time and iono if she will liek it, i really try, but its really cheesy. =/

i think a poem would really win the girls heart. i personally cant write a poem but i love it being read to me or sent to me. it isnt the quality of the poem it is the thougt and meaning of the poem. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks

when i want to do that to my hair i dry some of it with a towel so it wont be soo wet and then i put gel and some hair spray in it and mose. and i let it air dry. hope this helps
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi, we are 13 and we need a job, so we can get money so we can buy our own clothes because our parents make us pay for our clothes because they think that we are mature enough to earn our own money, but in reality, we dont know how to get money. Please give us ideas for jobs. Please dont tell us to talk to our parents because thats dumb and if you havent thought about it yet, we have tried that so dont be stupid. PLEASE HELP!! WE RATE HIGH!!

if i where you i would ask around. my parents the same way they thing that i can pay for my own cloths and stuff that i need but they dotn even give allwance but anyways got like some small stores and ask them if you can work there. i know this summer i am gettin a job to work at so yea. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well sorry if this is to long. well my parents are divorced but its not a big deal they been divorced since i was about 3 so i dont mind that. my dad lives in nj and i live with my mom and sis in ny. me and my dad arent very close but i would usually go down there when ever i had vacation off from skool. summer vacations almost here and i have to deside wheather or not to go, now heres where it gets complicated the only reason why im having trouble desideing is becaouse my dad hasnt payed child support since the begining of the years so about six months, my has tryed everything she even took him to court, he still hasnt payed the money. me my mom and sis depend on that money when it comes, $200 dolars a week, my mom works but doesnt make enough money and where very behind on our bills, so i guess what i need to know is whta would u do in my position?. would you continue to talk to ur father even if he doesnt help support you?
thanx ill give 5s

i think you should do what clownybear41191 said to do. go over and talk to him no matter what the hell he says convince him to pay for child support. hope this helps and good luck
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey All! I was just wondering is there any meaning behind "X3" when people do that? is it supposed to look like some sort of a heart or something? I was just wondering because i have been seeing it alot lately in screen names ect.

thanks!
-KelZzZ-

that is heart and sinve you can use < > on a sn they us an x3
*~Stephanie~*

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okay so when you get your period and you have to count how many days until your next...do you start counting from the last day you got your period or from the first day you got it?

you should start countin on the day you first get it.
*~Stephanie~*

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All right.. I'm 17 and a girl

So there's this boy.. we've been hangin out a lot lately and it's been a lot of fun like he comes over late at night sometimes and we just hang out in my backyard and talk.. I think I might like him..but I just got in trouble and I'm not sure how long I'm gonna be grounded for or anything..but I still wanna see him..and I don't want him to like someone else.. what do I do?

well i think you should talk to him and tell him that your grounded and i am pretty sure he will understand. if you like this guy a lot and he likes you maybe you should ask him out.. so then he wont be able to see another girl. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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How much are you supposed to tip your hair stylist if you're getting your hair highlighted? (The price is around $50-$75)

i personally when i go and get mine highlighted i dont tip her because we are relatives but if i would tip her it would be about $10-$20. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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(im 15/f)ok so im starting a band. and 2 of them are guys, 19. And one of them started comming earlyer last week... and he sang all these love songs.. it kinda creeped me out.. and then when the other guy showed up he was all normal again. But then when he was trying to show my something on the drums he put his hands over mine while holding the sticks. (like they do in movies you know? when a guy likes a girl..) it felt ocward too.. but hes also been like really nice to my parents too.. like trying to impress them. Its really freaking me out and i dont know if i even want to be in the band with them anymore.. and we just go together too.

sorry its so long.. thank you to those who help though :D i really appreciate it

so i kinda dont understand your question. do you or do you not like this guy? you dont like him then try talking to him and tell him you dont appercaite him hittin on you like that.tell him you onyl want to be his friend and nothing else. it seems like this guy really likes you. but anyways hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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How old do you have to be to work at a night club or strip club? (No, i dont want to be a stripper.)

18 or 21 it depends on the club because soem servive alochol and others dotn.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a black silky skirt for graduation and i got a size that is too big for me. i dont have a dryer so i cant shrink it that way.. what are some ways to shrink my skirt because i dont have a dryer.. i tried to put the skirt in hot water for a few minutes and then blow dry the skirt with hot air.. this doesnt work so what are some ways to shrink it?

why wont you go back to the store u got it from and get a SMALLER size if u cant shrink it then get a different one.or just get a new/ different skirt.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, I really like Maroon 5 so I picked out a Maroon 5 buddy icon on AIM. Then a kid named Grant started saying to me that the only reason I liked them was because my crush likes them, and its not true, and I kept telling him that, and he kept calling me a liar. And I put in my profile that Maroon 5 rocks, and he said I put that in just because Matt, the guy I like, has it in his profile, but that isn't true since I didn't know that Matt had done that. What should I do to convince Grant that I'm not lying and to get him off my back?

ok will just stand up for else tell him to leave you alone and that you can like any band no mattter who likes it.. or u can just ignore him...this guy might just be jealous.. or he can like you...but anyways hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im writeing a paper on second hand smoke and weather or not people should be aloud to smoke in public places ( resterunts, bars, amusment parks, ect. )and i need peoples opinioins..
if you think that they should banned public smoking or if you think that it should be aloud nd why (if you want).. i rate !! so help me if you have the time thank yaa!!

i personally think it should be bannned because 2nd hand smoke is worse then the person smoking it. (or that is what i learned) it is bad for kids and adults especailly for pregenent woman. hope this helps you with your report.
*~Stephanie~*

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I want to find Coo-Coo-Chee by Ric-A-Che but all the Xanga music sites I've looked at either don't have it or the link doesn't work. Does anyone know where I can find it?

what you can do is sign up for angelfire and then click on webshell and download that song to ur computer and then upload it to angelfire and then click view and you got the code that you can put on ur xanga. i dont know if this is a big help but i tryed.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just shaved my pubic area for the first time, and now it itches really bad when I walk!! What can I do about this?

i think you should put lotion on it that is what i do and it stops the burning and i use sensative skin kinds of shaving cream.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i have liked this guy since maybe second grade. i still like him a lot. the thing is there's a dance and i asked him to it. and i was so happy when he said he would go with me if he goes to the dance! yeah for me right? wrong. my friends were like forcing him to him to actually say yes. well i felt really bad so i was planning to talk to him alone about it but i don't have the guts to go ask him to go talk with me for a minute or 2 because he's always around his best friend who i absoulutly hate. then i got the feeling he really doesnt want to go with me to the dance and wants go with someone else and not me. i am fine with that but i don't know how to tell him that. then just yesterday my friends from a different class went to his house and made him feel horrible. the thing is i dont know who it was and he wouldn't tell me who it was so i am totally lost right now. so i guess my questions are: how do i ask him if he doesnt want to go with me or not? dont say aim cause he only signs on past 9 oclock and thats when i have to shut my computer down. next is: should i ask him if he is really mad at my friends for making him say yes? also: how do i talk to him in person without his best friend? finally: how do i actually talk to him daily and normally? help me please!

i think writing hima note would work.. tell him how you feel and all those questions you asked him you can ask him..maybe you should try getting his number and talking to him one on one that way... try being friends with him and getting to know him.. you have known this guy since 2nd grade and your still scared to talk to him.. well i hope this helps..
*~Stephanie~*

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i LOVE this boy he meanseevryhitng to me n he LOVES me alot n we told eachother that when we getolder we will betogether n wetalk allll the time whenever we get the chance n we always say love u 2eachotherthe thingishe livesin indiana n i live n maryland and iahve a boyfirned here!!! but hedoesntknow andi am thinkin bout breaking upwiht my boyfriend cause i love that boy ssooooo much! and es coming here this summer to see me forthe first time!!what do i do? should i dummp my boyfirned everytime i want toits hard becuase i like hm alot but not as much as the boy in indiana should isaty with him or dummp him? and its also hard dumping him becuase he loves me alot!!

fallow your heart and do what you think is right! i mean you should go with the guy that you liek more. but if you havent ever seen this this guy from indiana in person i would be very careful if i where you.. these days you dont know what to believe. there r a lot of rappiest out there but just be carefull.. if you planing to meet up with this guy i WOULDNT advice you to go alone take a friend with you. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well, there's this guy that I like and I know he likes me, his friends have told me.All of his friends think that we should go out, but I can't gop out with him because of my friends.See...I'm into Cheerleading and danceing, and hes into skateboarding...two different worlds, and his not the most popular guy either, and well, I am, and I can't really go out with somebody like him. What should I do?I really like him, should I go out with him or do what my friends want and not even talk to him? HELP!!!

so basically he is a skater boy and your more like a prep that cares what people think of you.. my advice to you follow your heart... your the one who will be going out with him not your friends.. if you really like him then you should go out with him not caring what other people thing.it shouldnt really matter what the guy does it is what is inside that matters. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so my best friend was in love with this guy (she's 14 so it didn't mean a whole whole lot) but anyways he liked her in the way beginning of the year but it didn't work out. then he like my other friend but she didn't like him. next he liked me and i liked this guy a lot too. my best friend was supportive and got us to go out. now we're happily together and have been for awhile. but my best friend has been depressed and everytime we get into a fight she'll bring this up (that i stole him from her). she still wants to be my friend but how do i eventually solve this situation. i know i caused it but how do i fix it without breaking up with him?

you need to talk to your friend and be like your the one who hooked us up why r u being so jealous know.. if you didnt want us being together all you had to do is tell me in the beginning but know it is too late.. maybe you cando her a favor by trying to find a boyfried for her. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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my friend and her boyfriend broke up and decided to be friends. When I seen them they told me and he was like yeah do you wanna go out I think he was joking but I don't know. I do kinda have a crush on him if I give them time to fix whatever they are doing would it be wrong to go out with him?

i wouldnt go out wit my friends ex. she still might have feeling for him and you goign out wit him would cause trouble between you and your friend but that is just my opinon. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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