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ok so my best friend was in love with this guy (she's 14 so it didn't mean a whole whole lot) but anyways he liked her in the way beginning of the year but it didn't work out. then he like my other friend but she didn't like him. next he liked me and i liked this guy a lot too. my best friend was supportive and got us to go out. now we're happily together and have been for awhile. but my best friend has been depressed and everytime we get into a fight she'll bring this up (that i stole him from her). she still wants to be my friend but how do i eventually solve this situation. i know i caused it but how do i fix it without breaking up with him?
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you need to talk to your friend and be like your the one who hooked us up why r u being so jealous know.. if you didnt want us being together all you had to do is tell me in the beginning but know it is too late.. maybe you cando her a favor by trying to find a boyfried for her. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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well tell your friend that there is someone out there for her!! and he must not be the person. i mean i'm sure you didn't go out with him to make her mad and you still want to be her friend. just tel her that! hope i helped!
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Just tell your friend that your sorry but you really like this guy and that if she can't be happy for you then mabye you shouldn't be friends. Or something along those lines. Hope i helped!
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Complicated love triangles are never fun, but are even worse when it involves friends. You guys aren't twelve anymore; to prevent this from becoming more of an issue confront the probelm. Clearly she did not mean it when she said she was fine with you going out with him. Explain to her that you did not mean to hurt her, and ask her to always be honest with you in the future. If you liked this guy you may also have missed subtle signs that may have said that she was not really overjoyed about you guys going out. Avoid haning out with your boyfriend and other friend for now, but in the future try to avoid crushes/boyfriends/flings of your friends, or risk ruining a friendship.
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that's cool that she was supportive at first. talk to her, but not when shes mad at you, really talk to her and ask her if she's okay with the two of you dating. then if shes says its okay, but she still tries to use it when shes mad at you, tell her that she WAS supportive of you when she wasnt mad at you...
hope that wasnt too confusing :)
good luck-
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