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HELP I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok i have liked this guy since maybe second grade. i still like him a lot. the thing is there's a dance and i asked him to it. and i was so happy when he said he would go with me if he goes to the dance! yeah for me right? wrong. my friends were like forcing him to him to actually say yes. well i felt really bad so i was planning to talk to him alone about it but i don't have the guts to go ask him to go talk with me for a minute or 2 because he's always around his best friend who i absoulutly hate. then i got the feeling he really doesnt want to go with me to the dance and wants go with someone else and not me. i am fine with that but i don't know how to tell him that. then just yesterday my friends from a different class went to his house and made him feel horrible. the thing is i dont know who it was and he wouldn't tell me who it was so i am totally lost right now. so i guess my questions are: how do i ask him if he doesnt want to go with me or not? dont say aim cause he only signs on past 9 oclock and thats when i have to shut my computer down. next is: should i ask him if he is really mad at my friends for making him say yes? also: how do i talk to him in person without his best friend? finally: how do i actually talk to him daily and normally? help me please!
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i think writing hima note would work.. tell him how you feel and all those questions you asked him you can ask him..maybe you should try getting his number and talking to him one on one that way... try being friends with him and getting to know him.. you have known this guy since 2nd grade and your still scared to talk to him.. well i hope this helps..
*~Stephanie~*
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do you have his phone #? it would deffidentily help. if you dont i would write him a note saying that you are verry sorry about how your friends are acting and that you would like to make shure he really wants to go to the dance with you or if he just said yes because of your friends. and i would give a little talk to your friends about how you know they are trying to help but its really just making things harder for you. they should understand. hope i helped!
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ok. Well it seems like you would be a little to shy to go to his house alone to tlak to him, and I dont think you should go with your frineds because they don't seem to be helping much. So if you think tlaking to him in person will be too hard for you then call him. Just be like, I'm really sorry about what my friends did and I did really want to go to the dance with you but I don't want you to ferl like you have to go with me. Let him kno that you're okay wiht him going with some one else, apoligize for what your friends did, and if you want to, let him kno that you do really like him tho. If you really want to talk to him in person you're either going to have to get used to his best friend, try to become friends with his friends, or be able to tell him that you want to talk to him alone. I hope it works out for you!
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Well, I personally think you should call him. If that is not possible for whatever reason, you just need to confront him --- even if his friend is there. Tell him that you had no idea that your friends forced him, and that you don't want him to feel obligated to go with you. If he doesn't want to go with you just say, "I'd like to talk with you again sometime" and leave it at that.
Best of luck!
~*Tiffany*~
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Go to his house, if one of his friends is there, ask him to talk alone..then ask if he really wants to go with you or not. It seems like you really want to talk him and aren't shy about it, so just do it. It's best to do it in person anyway, AIM is not the way. If you really care if hes mad at your friends, then go ahead and ask. Take a few deep breaths before you talk to him, and go for it. Good luck.
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well first it sounds like you need 2 git better friends that wont fill srry for you and it sounds like they do and about him well just build up the guts 2 ask him it will be ok the worst thing he can do is say no... i hope i helped
*$*kasey*$*
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I totally agree with xMisplaced_heartX. Just ask to speak with him alone. I know it's gonna be very hard to do, and you might have butterflies but I know you feel strongly about knowing the truth. Then when you do ask him, just say "I know that my friends pressured you into saying yes to me. If you don't want to go with me I need to know now and it's ok if you don't want to, it was wrong of my friends to do that." Then smile and walk away. It's gonna be hard to get the courage but you just need to be brave, think, he might really want to go with you! And he might think it was really nice of you to give him the option not to. So just do what you heart tells you to and don't worry about his best friend, if you hate him, what does it matter?
Hope this helped you!
~K~
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