how do you french kiss?
Put your tongue in the other person`s mouth.. go along with what they do for the first time then you`ll get the hang of it.. ♥ Dez
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I live in a really small apartment with my mom and sister. Its not even a nice one either. The floors are a different color in each room, the walls are different, the tiles are coming off in the bathroom. Its a really clean apartment but just very ugly and i get embarressed to bring people over. I havnt had a boyfriend in a really long time becasue im afraid he will have to come over sometime and see what i live in.. a dumpster! I dont know what to do im reallu nervous about having one and then letting them see this place.
If he really likes or loves you hun he isn`t going to care.. I understand what you mean but if he`s a good guy and everything he won`t care and if he does you didn`t need him anyways.. ♥ Dez
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i wanna earn some money.. problem is, im only 13 is there ANYTHING i can do to get some money?
Babysitting,walking dogs,washing cars.. ♥ Dez
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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
Hey..
Shavin your vagina is completely a choice of your own.. its not something that you have to do.. also if your not sexually active then i wouldn`t see why you`d need to shave anymore then just your bikini line.. If you need tips on shavin there leave it in my inbox and i`d be happy to help you.. ♥ Dez
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I guess you could say that i am prude...but I have made out with a guy and he has felt me up, but I am really scared to be in a situation where he wants to finger me or he wants me to give him a handjob,or do anything else for that matter.(he is my boyfriend) I just think it would be awkward and i dont know what im doing when it comes to sexual stuff. can u jus give me advice on what to do if the times comes? Sorry so long...i rate high
Being scared and not ready or not knowin what to do hun is very normal for a girl.. its not somethin your born knowing..*you learn it like anything else in this damn world*
Well if he ever wants to finger you make sure your comfortable with it.. don`t let him do it unless you want him to..ANd make sure its something you don`t regret.. well when he fingers you..You don`t do much of anything but lay or sit there while he does it..
When you give a guy a handjob it really isn`t that hard i mean if he doesn`t like what your doing he`ll either tell you to stop or help you out.. *thats what my boyfriend did to me* Well all you do is put your hand around his penis and kinda grip it a little bit but not too hard cuz you don`t want to hurt him lol.. and just move your hand up and down make sure you still are grippin a little bit and also you choose the speed of how fast you want to jack him off.. you also can rub on his testicles he`d most likely like this very much atleast from my experience.. also if your comfortable with this maybe spit on his stuff a little bit.. ♥ Dez
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About two weeks ago my boy friend and i were fooling around and he starting fingering me..before that he had fingered me he had been handeling his dick very briefly, is it possible that there was enough cum on his hand to get me pregnant? Thanks. *i'm almost positive that he didn't have any on his hands though, but just in case*
i highly doubt that you could get pregnant.. i`d freak ut when you miss a period.. ♥ DEz
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Im really confused about whats going on with me and Im sorry if I put this in a confusing order. I have a boyfriend (Chuck) but I dont really love him. I love someone else, K. But he has a girlfriend just as I have a boyfriend. I really enjoy being with K, and think about him non-stop. My mom says K shows clearly that he likes me when he comes over. Im not sure if its cheating though, I mean, he's slapped my ass playfully, held me close, rubbed my legs and back and neck, layed with me (my back to his stumach) with his hand on my stumach), and we hug all the time, but weve never kissed. Is that considered cheating still?
Well i`m just going to put it this way hun.. think about it what if this guy K was going with you and did that behind your back wouldn`t you consider it cheatin.. you wouldn`t want him to do that to you.. So if i was you befroe things get out of hand and hurt you..You might want to find out why he doing this to you and this girl that he goes with.. ask him how he looks at you and stuff cuz i think he likes you more then friends none my guy friends try an hold me and stuff.. Your also cheatin on your current boyfriend i know ya don`t love him and stuff but that still isn`t something you should do to this guy.. You don`t have to tell him what you`ve done i suppose but you might want to dump him or something before he finds out and he might find out in a bad way and you don`t want that.. and i hope you don`t want to hurt this guys feelings.. so i`d find out whats goin on with this guy K and i hope you do whats right and follow your heart.. ♥ Dez
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My dog is a mixed breed. He's rather tiny.. I'm just wondering how long do those kind of dogs last? He's healthy but I'm kind of worried that I'll lose him. He's 7 years old and apparently is having some hearing problems?
If you think he`s losing his hearin you might want to take your dog to the vet.. they can give you more information.. Well i had a rather small dog too from when i was a baby til i was 15 then she died she wasn`t very healthy cuz she lived with my dad and he just fed her treats and stuff all the time.. ♥ Dez
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I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do?
Talk to people.. Get in more activites.. ♥ Dez
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I'm not fat but I would feel much better about myself and more confident if I was skinnier, what are some good ways to lose weight, i'm already in soccer and bearly eating anything, but i'm not losing weight.
Well if your gaining muscle from like runnin and whatever else you do for like soccer practice then your muscle weights more then fat.. maybe do some sit ups.. ♥ Dez
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Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out?
Hey..
I have had contact lenses for 3 almost 4 years now.. I havent had any bad experience with em except when i sleep in em *which i`m not suppose to do* so thats on me..
SO thats a tip i have Don`t sleep in your contacts unless the doctor says you can and don`t take a shower with them in either..
AT first i thought i was Never going to get use to them cuz i didn`t like touch my eye either.. but in like two days i was fine with it which i got use to it faster then i thought i actaully would..You will be able to get em out.. you`ll find your own way.. i found my own way to get em out which was different from the doctors way.. ♥ Dez
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What song can I sing to audition for my schools musical? I do not have a very good voice, so I am only looking to be in the chorus (I have been in it the past, so yes, it is possible to be in the chorus even if you don't have an amazing voice). I am a 16 year old female, who cannot sing very high at all. I would like something that is easy & will sound good on my voice. I would like something from a Broadway show, or Disney. (preferably A MUSICAL PLAY). THANK YOU!
i think the person below me has a great song of choice.. or that song from Lion King would be good by Elton John "circle of life" ♥ Dez
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ok 2 questions.. i have guys who stares at me and look away when i look at them... what does that mean.. and i have guys who stare at me and keep on staring when i look at them. what does that one mean.. kthanx ♥
They bot mean they like you.. just the guy who looks away is more shy then the guys who keepin starin after they notice that you notice them.. ♥ Dez
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why do guys think when girls wear sweatpants its hott (at least thats what ive heard)
Well my boyfriend says girls make guys clothes look better and hott so i figure that might have something to do with it.. you know us females make anything look better then guys it also could be because it shows the guy that we can take a day off from lookin cute and sexy.. ♥ Dez
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Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
~*BLONDE*LOVE~
Move on hun.. your young.. ♥ Dez
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well i love changing my hair up and i have 2 ideas... i wanted to know which coloring style you all think is cuter~ the first one is having like a lighter color with lowlights. i have naturally reddish hair, so i'm thinking probably having the top layer a light strawberry blondish color, and having the bottom layer and auburn color. ~ the second idea is to do it kind of like aubrey's from making the band 3 on mtv (for those of you who know what i'm talking about) except with the other colors in the first idea so that it would be mostly auburn with a light strawberry blondish streak or whatever you want to call it in front. i can't decide which idea would be better... please give me any advice you got! thanks!
I like the first idea the best.. But i also think the second one is also cute.. not you mentioned the first one i`m actuallt thinkin bout doin it to my hair so thanks for a cute idea.. ♥ Dez
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There are these girls on my soccer team and their really popular and i'm a lot like them but I only started on this soccer team this year but it seems like they just wanna keep the clique their in and dont wanna let anyone else in although if they got to know me I think we could be really good friends what can I do to make them see that?
I`d just talk to em.. like just maybe start a conversation you know they`d relate too.. ♥ Dez
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Right now i feel depressed for no reason at all. can anyone help me
No i can`t help you.. but if you have a problem you`d like to dicuss leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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hey, how do you get those cool hearts? like what do you type in?
& hearts ; but put it all together.. and make sure its typed just like that.. also don`t put it by a word space it from the word.. ♥ Dez
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The guy I'm seeing now does not use his tongue when kissing or... anything else for that matter. Ever! He finds it disgusting! His mouth is always sealed. I on the other hand, love french kisses! I didn't even know there were people out there like him. Is this normal? It's sort of hard to get passionate with someone like this, lol.
I haven`t really ever met anybody like that but i would think this is normal maybe more noraml then people who french kiss people lol.. now that i`m thinkin about it think what people do with there mouth and stuff kinda sounds nasty lol.. ♥ Dez
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