about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ohkay, i have this huge problem.. last night i bought a bathing suit for the pool party im having tonight and i just realized there is some huge thing that says "WARNING tampering will break glass and cause ink to leak out" I paid for it nd everything but the lady didnt take it off! taking it back to the store cant be done so what do i do!!!!!

this has happened to me before except it was with a purse i bought. if you have the reciept theys shouldnt say anything about. al do is go and tell them athat they 4got to take that thing off and most likely they will apologize for what they did. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so me and my ex jonathan went out for 8 months. he cheated on me once and i found out and i broke up with him. the thing is i cheated on him once waay long ago but he doesnt know. well hes seriously the only guy ive ever felt comfortable with, who hasnt used me or pressured me or anything. i compare every guy i meet to him. i just cant let him go. its been 5 months since we broke up and we still talk. and were still friends. well summers here [his school gets out this thursday] i miss him alot but he has a gf now. and shes a whore shes the one who like was all over him and who he cheated on me with. well i know once we hangout hell miss me cause we were so close and he still has feelings for me. i dont know what to do. i miss him alot :(

that is sad. the thing you should do is move on and find someone new. yea it might be hard but if you go back to him it will back the memories and when you guys break up again it will hurt worse. forget about him 4 a while go hang out with the friends let lose and just have fun. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what are some ways to meet boys??!

the mall, school, store. they are all around you you just have to look harder. even around you nieghborhood. i mean all you got to do is go up to the and say hey whats up. it really isnt that hard. you can also get some help from your friends that you know cute guys. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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well ther is this cute guy and he really likes me, and i kind of felt for it and i kind of like him to now, even though i shouldnt like him, i just feel like i shouldnt like him for some reason
PS: please help me, to try and get over him.

Thank you,
shorty

i dont understand why you want to get over him. but if you both like each other then you guys should hook up.but if that isnt what you want then just find another guy to get your attention of the one right now. hope this helps.

*~Stephanie~*

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My friend is having a pool party in a couple of days and my crush is gonna be there! What are some tihngs i could do to make him like me more, question for the guys- whta would u want a girl to do for u too liek thme, anytihng i could wear or do?



THnaks!!

5 for everyone!

be yoursef and not soemthing your not. enjoy yourself dont try to hard. be out going and the life of the party. guys tend to like girls that love to have fun. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her.

if you dont like her break it off your leading her on and she thinks she getting somewhere but it really isnt.would you like it if you really liked a girl but she didnt like you i dont think you would aperciate thinking she liked you 2. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i babysit almost 24/7. my sister has cancer and she just found out sh eis pregnant, she has to give the baby up.well she's going home to her family in texas and she's leaving her kids that i watch all the time anyways with me. my frinds tell em i should tell her to watch her own kids because i never have time to be a kid, wat do ya'll think?

well your friends arent being the best right now. your sister is going through a lot right now and i think you should help her out that is the least you can do 4 her right now. cancer isnt the easiest thing to live with when you dont know when your going to die. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im14, and recently my brothers friends have been calling me and asking my brother stuff like how old is ur sis and whats she like and stuff. and i like some of them like i think that they are cute. and my brother has been threatening them and he doesnt have many friends...should i talk to him? or pretend like i dont notice his friends> or what??
thanks.

talk to your brother about it. if you want to hook up with one of them then do it. but if i where i wouldnt do ti. you could ruin your brother friendship with his friends. plus since they are friend the guy you hook up with could tell your brother everything you guys do. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

dont do anything your not ready 4. talk to your boyfriend and tell him you dont want to do "more" then hat your already doing if he doesnt understand then he isnt worth it. he should respect the way you feel towards different things. hope this helps
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i don't know why i feel so angry my x b f who was very rich had a party! Something my friend called a health party i personally think he had it to show off. I am really angry because he never invited me i really don't know why i am angry!! I think its because he once told me i was his bestfriend.He invited my friend because he goes to her school and i heard he invited 4 boys who are also rich and my friend said the 4 boys don't like him.Am i correct to feel angry i now think i hate him because i was always there for him and he was never there for me.What shall i do now?

i personally wont because i try stayin away fom my x's.they tend to bring back memorys that i dont want to bring back. but if you guys are friends then i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Where can I find some advicenator layouts? Do you have to make them yourself or is there somewhere you can actually go to get them made?

http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php


you can only get backgrounds but like you can add stuff to it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what do guys like better: a hard to get kind of girl... or like one that leads them on? thanks..

well it all depends on the guy. some like it when a girl plays hard to get and others dont. my boyfriends ikes it when a girl plays hard to get but i dont remember doing that so it just all depends. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?

if i where i wouldnt go back to her. i wouldnt be apperciated lyed to by my partner. it just isnt right. she should be able to tell you the truth no matter how ad it is. trust is one of the big things in a realtionship.but if you really love her then go back to her and tell her how you feel about her lying to you. hope this helps you.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi i was wondering whats the age that u should be giving gys blow jobs like im 13 so am i ready?
~Jess~

the age doesnt really matter. the thing that does is can you handle it and can you do it?
*~Stephanie~*

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I need acne medication, but not a topical one, i need something to take; like a pill. Because i have acne on my face (but i can rid that with cream), mostly on my back, chest, and some on my butt (gross i know) =\. I want to take a pi.. because it will take alot of cream to get to all those spots and i cant reach it all. Im 15/f if that helps. I am not going to go to the derm because i cannot afford it, and i seen one packafe at the store in particular. It was really expensive, about 22.99, and it was in a little orange-ish box and it was pills for acne. Has anyone tried these and do they help? I need something that works, that they sell at a local drugstore, and that isnt very expensive. Thank you to anyone that helps!!
-trishh

this isnt really going to help you out but larned the hard way the pills arent the best thing to use. and going to a derm wont either. the pills are supposed to clear up your acene but they kinda of do soemtimes but they also affact other parts of your body insde. sorry that doesnt help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times.

have you tryed telling your boyfriend about them? you should maybe then they can leave you alone. maybe his brother misses being only arond his brother without you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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idk if tey ahve summer quotes but i know the have quotes sry f this doesnt help you out.

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Do you all think that youare to young to have sex if you are 14? How Old were you when you did it your first time? Me and my boyfriend were talkin about it and I was just curious on your opinions....

i dotn think there is an age it is just if you can handle it. every girl matures at a different age and her hermone are different so it all depends. and if you decide to do it be careful it will hurt the first time. (that is what my friend said) good luck. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanei~*

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For a guy's parts, whats big and whats small? Do girls really care about size? Whats the advantages of being big rather than small and vice virsa?

5 1/2 in average. it all really deends on the girl. i mean i have gone out with guys that have small penis but i didnt touch. it doesnt matter about size it matter on how it is used. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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My guy friend is mad at me. I called him a couple days ago to apologize and he didn't listen to me...I didn't even do anything!! I just said something after he pissed me off! But I've known him sooo long and I don't wanna ruin our friendship over something as stupid as this! Should I apologize again??? Help!

i was in the same sistuation with one of my guy friends before. i all i said was are you done yet. what i did is i left him alone 4 a week or soo and then i apologized to him.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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