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ahh... mixed upp!!
my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her.
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Break it off. People may get mad at you but that is their problem. Oscar Wilde once said, "Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live."
Do Sandy a favor. Let her find someone who wants to be with her.
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Don't worry about what other people think. If you're not happy, you're not going to make Sandy happy. Sit her down and explain that you just want to stay friends. She'll feel bad if you break up with her, but that's normal. Maybe you could hint that Jack likes her. Or tell Jack to ask her out. Knowing that other guys like her will make her feel better.
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if you don't like her and you're not happy with her then you shouldn't be with her no matter what otherpeople think, you deserve to be happy and if jack likes her so much then he should be with her not you
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You need to break up. I think you just tell her that you like her as a friend but you see her as more like a sister than a girlfriend. It will hurt her feelings but there is no way to avoid that. Have Jack ask her out soon and it will help her get over you and all that.
People shouldn't get mad at you if you break up. If they do then they aren't very good friends anyway. You have to do what is best for you not what pleases everyone else. :)
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Hey,
I thought a relationship involed TWO people and TWO people only. Not the couple and everyone that surrounds them. Do what you want. You dont want to break up with her....(thats fine)........if you want to break up with her......(thats fine too)! Dont worry about whos ganna be mad at you and whos ganna stop bein your friend. You went out wit her b/c u wanted to, You want to break up wit her b/c you wanted to. If you want to break up wit her....juss do it. Tell her that you just want to be friend.Dont tell her that Jack likes her and that yoy think that they should go out b/c that wil make it worse. Instead go to Jack and tell him to try to Holla(talk) at/to her. Just do whats best for your life not yours and everyone else's. Well i hope i have helped.......GOOD LUCK!.
*Gorda*
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you should dump sandy. tell her you just want to be friends with her. if she likes you and you dump her and not talk to her again then shes gonna be really sad. jack should give it some time before he asks her out so she can get over you. if you dont like someone then you shouldnt be forced to go out with them. shes going to get over it. good luck!
<3 frenchfries21 <3
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if you dont like her break it off your leading her on and she thinks she getting somewhere but it really isnt.would you like it if you really liked a girl but she didnt like you i dont think you would aperciate thinking she liked you 2. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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i no exactly where your coming from.i dated one of my friends cousins, well they all wanted me to kiss him in stuff well when i did it just didn't feel right and i wanted to break up with him cause we were better off as friends. but i thought my friends would get mad cause i would be breaking up with her cousin, but she wasn't. just talk to sandy she'll understand if she really likes you, and the other poeple don't worry about them. good luck!
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Well, you need to tell her that. You need to sit her down and tell her that you don't feel the same about her that she does about you. It might hurt her but it's better then staying with her and someone else telling her that you don't like her. People might get mad, but it's better then losing a friend. Good luck!
-- alexis nicole x3
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Your leading her on my calling and talking everyday. And thats not good for you or Sandy.
Who the hell cares what other people think. I'm sorry but this doesn't seem like a relationship that you can end being friends.
So just break it off right now and when people ask you say "i have my own reasons and you people really need to get your OWN love life". Hopefully that will keep there mouths shut for awhile.
In Sandy's case tell her why. You kpt going out with her out of peer pressure but you didn't want to keep leading her on, I'm sorry but this just can't work." or something like that .
Oh and don't do it over the phone. face to face no matter how hard it is.
hope i helped and good luck
~kooka
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Well it sounds like a loose/loose situation...no matter what someone's gonna be mad at you. But if you don't like her then why did you even go out w/ her in the first place? I think you should break up w/ her nicely and say you want to be friends. Don't worry so much about what other people think about you. It's between you and Sandy only. And if you're friend likes her, let him have a chance w/ her! Ok well hope i helped! Good luck!
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dont lead her on...and who cares what people think, do what you need to do. the relationship is between you and her, no one else so if you want to break up with her just do it, but do it nicely. try not to hurt her [even though itll prolly hurt no matter wut] just be really nice about it but like i said..dont lead her on
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First of all...why did you ever go out with her if you don't even like her?
Anyway...If you don't like her, break up with her. That's all there is to it. Sure people will be mad at you and Sandy will probably be very hurt. But the longer you wait the worse it's going to get. And the fact is, you will eventually break up with her anyway. Might as well do it as soon as possible.
If your friend Jack likes Sandy, break up with her and give him a chance! I'm sure he'd like that.
If you want to break up with Sandy, don't worry about what other people think. In the end this relationship is between you and Sandy, not them. I don't understand why you say it's hard to break up with her if you keep saying you "really don't like her". Just do it. You don't like her. So break up with her. Be gentle when you sit down with her and break up with her, but don't back out.
Dating is all about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out you move on and live life.
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You most definitely should NOT kiss Sandy if you don't like her. I don't know if this would be your first kiss or not, but if it is, you will most likely regret it afterwards. Your first kiss should be special and shared with someone you truly love. And although it may be hard to hear, you should break up with her if you don't like her. Do it subtly though, and tell your friends that you don't want to lead her on. The longer you stay with her, the more she'll grow on you, and the more she'll like you. It's sweet that you care what she feels, but it's more important that you don't lie to her.
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If you want to break it off, then break it off. What other people might think shouldn't determine your life. Just be really nice about it and tell her that you still want to be friends. I know it's hard to break it off, but you shouldn't avoid it, or it will make things worse. And if you really enjoy her company you can still be great friends afterward. Just because you're not dating doesn't mean you can't be friends. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
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