ok so me and my ex jonathan went out for 8 months. he cheated on me once and i found out and i broke up with him. the thing is i cheated on him once waay long ago but he doesnt know. well hes seriously the only guy ive ever felt comfortable with, who hasnt used me or pressured me or anything. i compare every guy i meet to him. i just cant let him go. its been 5 months since we broke up and we still talk. and were still friends. well summers here [his school gets out this thursday] i miss him alot but he has a gf now. and shes a whore shes the one who like was all over him and who he cheated on me with. well i know once we hangout hell miss me cause we were so close and he still has feelings for me. i dont know what to do. i miss him alot :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 8:58 am: Aww!! This is sad; I'm soRRie. Well obviously the pRoblem heRe is.. he ALREADY HAS someone; kind of an 'end of stoRy' deal. Bottom line.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR?? I hate to tell you this, but I think you should be faiR to YOURSELF by accepting and Respecting his stance with his cuRRent giRlfRiend. Then I think you should tRy to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and keep tRuckin' on. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? 'Love' is RecipRocal; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Relationships RequiRe a 120% effoRt fRom *BOTH* paRtneRs, and without that.. you've got nothing. I wish you all of the best. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 2:43 am: that is sad. the thing you should do is move on and find someone new. yea it might be hard but if you go back to him it will back the memories and when you guys break up again it will hurt worse. forget about him 4 a while go hang out with the friends let lose and just have fun. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
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