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ALRIGHTYY! So I'm dating this guy, and he's pretty cool. It's only been like two weeks that we've started dating. I just have this really iffy questionable feeling about this whole thing. He has a real good personality....buuut i'm really not that physically attracted to him. I know people say "looks aren't everything" but in my opinion that is complete bull shit, because hell they matter to everyone at my age! (16.) We've hung out like four times, we've done like everything "sexual" to do except sex and oral. That doesn't matter. But I don't know,when he left my house last night and my brother told me he looked like a rat, I really quickly thought i'd break up with him. I know, sounds so terrible! He's a real cool guy, a good personality. It's just I have other guys talking to me, and I feel at this age I shouldn't be tied down to someone that I have an iffy feeling about in the first place! But then again, I'm worried If I break up withh him the next day I'll totally be regretting it. I don't know, so confused! Can anyone help me out here? (link)
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well it isnt bullshit, looks really arent everything. if you think that, its fine, just go for some guy who you think is really hot. but just remember one thing, goodlooking people can get whoever they want. So why would they stick with you? get it? really attractive people dont last as long as the decent looking people with bigger and stronger hearts. If this guy is important to you than you should hold onto him. Dont just break up with him for a stupid reason. or else you will remember what a great guy he was.
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I was fingering my girlfriend today, she orgasmed, I took my fingers out (two), and there was some blood on them, just a little. She said it didn't hurt and was actually surprised to see it. I figured it was because I was going a little rougher than usual. Her period isn't for a couple weeks.
Anyway, just wondering if that was normal/common/whatever. (link)
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thats weird. but i guess its normal for a girl. They have more complications with their bodies then we do hahaha. But ur lucky, it was only blood. At least it wasnt like chicken wings, or crackers, or grass juice ,or like....mustard and cream sauce or anything weird shit like that.
good luck.
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I went out with this dude, last year. Stoner
I loved him, we broke up for the dumbest reason,
but we were mates after that. We hung out, shit
loads.
More than we ever did when we were going out, so
I thought it was a good decision to stay friends.
But every time I go out with someone else, I
always find myself wanting Stoner back. Even when
I'm not with someone I want to be with him.
I don't like that I have these feelings because
I'm constantly thinking about him. I can't get
him off my mind...
I love him.
But I don't want to.
I want to just fucking let go.
It's been too long to still want him.
How can I get over him?
xx (link)
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well the question is...do you want to get over him? or do you want to forget him? you can find that out by talking to him in a nice calm manner. if you think it is right for you, then it probably is. but if not, youre young. there are plenty of guys out there who might offer you 10x better than this guy. and just remember that everything happens for a reason. If you guys broke up, then thats probably good for the both of u.
goodluck.
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I have been texting and chatting it up with this guy for a pretty long time and we were getting really into eachother. We both admitted that we liked eachother. For the last six days he has not text me back or anything, but I got my friend to text him and he text her right back. Now his relationship status in In a Relationship.
what should i do? (link)
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obviously there is a reason why he wouldnt text you back and talk to ur friend rather than talking to you. if you have had simliar problems with this type of guy then it is best to forget about him. Especially when you are young and vulnerable you cant say that you like someone so much that you would take it way too far and eventually get hurt. Watever the reason he is ignoring your texts, you dont need to know the reason. Why waste your time figuring out the reason when it would all just turn out bad right? Forget him and dont get too serious with any guy at this age. Because it will turn out bad unless you are lucky.
goodluck.
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What is pre cum exactly? My boyfriend and I had sex and he said he just had pre cum. Is that bad? When does it happpen? And I think he did with the condom on, the condom didn't break so i just wanted to make sure. (link)
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pre-cum is when a man released a clear liquid fro his penis. Its like, natural lubrication. It's completely normal, and natural :D
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How does he eat all of that food and not have problems with his digestive system and stay at a pretty small size? Does he do some exercises and cleansers to stay small and healthy? I just don't see how he can eat all of those large greasy burgers and lbs of fries and extreemly large amounts of steak and such and his stomach doesn't explode and he is not constantly constipated and he is not large and fat like some of his opponents...could someone explain this to me. Thank you...oppinions are welcome. (link)
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maybe its because peoples bodies work a different way? I know someone who's rather slim, but regularly eats 8burgers, 8 portions fries, spicy wings, 3 cokes, JUST for lunch!
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There is the creepiest bug in my house. it is black & yellow. i think it may be a beetle, but i really know nothing about bugs so i don't know. on its back is the yellow & it looks similar to a W. but it also has other little lines, but when i looked at it, i thought it looked like a W. does anybody know what this is????? i'm scared to kill it, because it has yellow.. and isn't yellow a warning sign its dangerous or something??? i heard that somewhere... what should i do? anybody know what it is?? (link)
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why dont you just kill it? or is that out of the question?
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19/female.
i want to get a cross tattoo on like the side of my stomach. but i also want it to say "everything happens for a reason"
it's more of a feminine looking cross.
i just don't know if that would make sense? a cross and everything happens for a reason?
i love the saying "everything happens for a reason" because it's the quote i live by every day. it's what i turn to when things go bad.
i just don't know how i'd even have it placed?
any suggestions? (link)
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i was thinking of a cross, the design being your choice, and then a banner thats below, or going across it saying "everything happens for a reason".
If i were to get this tattoo (strictly my opinion), i would get the saying in another language, for example, in latin its(get it confirmed before you do it though!):
"omnia causa fiunt"
hope i helped.
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Hello,
I want to know full list of talent shows.How many talent show we can arrange.pls tell (link)
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i personally dont understand the question, can you add some more info please?
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By the end of this week I will be in a long distance relationship, thanks to college.
I need some ideas for fun things to do over the phone, or to send each other. I'm hoping if we keep ourselves occupied with games or fun stuff then we won't keep thinking about how we can't be with each other.
Any ideas? (link)
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1. You could have phone sex?
2. Get a webcam maybe?
3. Surprise your partner by visiting sometimes
4. Build hobby that you can both share- you will have something to talk about
5.Buy a box of chocolates. Under each chocolate place a short note- maybe make an advent callender type of thing, every day, they take out a chocolate to reveal a special note
6. Go on virtual dates together on the Internet. A few ideas include attending concerts, going to the zoo or museums.( i dont know how this is possible, but i got it from a website)
7. If you have a nintendo wii or something, they have that thing which you can talk over it, and like..play games together
hope i helped
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when i give my guy a hj/bj he cums and it gets on his shirt and like all over the place and im sure it isnt comfortable for him..im not going to lick it off of him or swallow ...are there any other things i can do so it won't get all over his shirt? and any other advice?i just started doing this lol thanks (link)
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1. use a condom thats ribbed inside- it will increase the pleasure for him. Or use an extra thin condom
2. jizz into a tissue
3. thats all i got
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How does ovulation occur? And how can I determine when I am ? (link)
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A few things happen when you ovulate.
First you'll get a little bit of cramping, it might feel similiar to period cramping.
Your discharge will seem kind of snotty, and will be for the most part clear, and sticky.
Your utereus will soften a little, and the opening will move closer to the opening of your vagina.
You might feel a little more horny, and on the opposite end a little more tired.
It generally comes 2 weeks after your period.
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I want to have a baby early. My boyfriend and I are going to start trying to get pregnant as soon as we graduate highschool. I know babies are expensive, but I don't know exactly how expensive. And I know they are hard to deal with, but I don't really know how hard.
Anyone who is a young mother, or was a young mother, can you give me any advice? And please don't tell me to not have one or to wait. Because I know I'll be a good mother. I just need some answers for my questions.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Babies can cost up to 200,000$.
They also need feedings every two hours or so when they get home from the hospital. Some babies don't sleep through the night, up until the first year of their life.
It costs roughly 6-8,000$ to have a baby in a hospital, and that doesn't cover the costs of the Ultra sounds, and doctor visits.
In your baby's first year, You can spend up to $9,000-$11,000 (for diapers, formula, baby furniture, clothing, baby gear, etc.)
Its going to cost roughly 1200-3400$ to get the diapers for the baby, in total.
Don't forget the cost of daycare, and insurance on the baby.
You'll have to deal with the changing, poop, dirty diapers, crying, teething, diarehha, and a babys hard stool.
Here is a list of baby things you'll need for a newborn:
o nasal aspirator
o diaper rash ointment
o 2 packages of disposable diapers or 2 dozen cloth diapers
o gentle baby soap
o no tears shampoo
o 2-4 pacifiers (you will lose them)
o blunt baby nail scissors
o baby brush and comb set
o alcohol wipes (for the cord)
o 4-6 bottles (4 and 8 ounce size)
o bottle brush
o 2 nursing bras (if nursing)
o breast pads (if nursing)
o breast pump (if nursing)
o 6 bibs
o 2-4 hooded bath towels
o 4-6 wash clothes
o 4 bassinet sheets
o 2 waterproof mattress pads
o 2 quilted crib pads
o 3-4 crib sheets
o crib bumper
o 2 comforters (depending on season)
o 2 crib blankets (depending on season)
o 6-8 snap t-shirts or onesies
o 4-6 lightweight sleepers
o 6-8 receiving blankets
o 6-8 baby gowns with pull-ties
o 4 pairs of booties or socks
o 1 sweater
o 1 snowsuit (depending on season)
What happens if you getting pregnant is something your boyfriend decides he doesn't want after you have the baby?
Then you have a baby, and no future to fall back on.
Why not get a career, and then have a baby. It will save you a lot of troubles in the long run, that way you'll have something to fall back on if things don't work out.
GL.
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when im having sex with my boyfriend im like a dead person i lost my virginity to him but thats the only time i have ever felt pain.. afteer that no pain or pleasure we did it about 10 times and i feel nothing so i just lay there and fake it. so he asked me to go on top and do the work how do i move? everyone says you'll just feel it and you'll move with it but when he does the work when i try the work i feel nothing so how am i suppost to move with the feeling if i feel nothing? i tried the whole up and down but he's so tall and im so short when i try i look stupid and i try to reach his lips while im doing the work and his thing falls out >.< ........... when im with him im comfortable relaxed while we do it and i dont feel anything.. he's never come before but he's felt few orgasms.. sometimes i fake a moan but its not the same i want to feel it and maybe if i do i'll hunger for more and move my body for him.. is there something wrong with me? (link)
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! Nothing wrong with you at all!
Your man isn't doing his job in the Bedroom!
I would have him give you face, rub your clit, play with your hood, until you get wet.
Be blunt with him, and tell him that you are either not going to have sex, or you are not going to be on top if you aren't turned on.
(Worked wonders for me!!)
Doesn't sound like this man cares at all for you.
When you are on top, you should be there because you like it there and want to be on top because it feels good.
If you aren't feeling anything, what are you doing having sex?
Try masturbating and figuring out what turns you on, fantasize and find out what your sexual niche is, then it will be easier for him to turn you on, and for you to get pleasure from sex.
Don't get in the habit of being used for sex. That story never turns out well.
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Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago and it was my first time. Well i kind of figured that i might be sore afterwards, but when i pee..should it hurt? It kind of hurts my bladder area? Is this all normal? (link)
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Its likely that you have a bladder infection, Bladder infections can feel a couple different ways.
That or you might have a bacterial infection, these are common, Have your man wash his penis before you have sex. A dirty penis can cause you both a bacterial infection and a bladder infection.
If you have a bladder infection, get some uristat, it will turn your pee orange, and you can buy it in the pharmacy section of the grocery store. It will cause your urethera to go numb that way you don't feel the bladder infection.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and we've been sexually active for about six months and, although I'm quite satisfied and he says he is as well, I want to do something for him to blow his mind.
We usually do it just him on me, and if he gets tired, we'll switch and I'll go on top.
But I want to do something where it's purely his pleasure for our 2 year anniversary.
What could I do?
Thank you so much. :) (link)
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I would consider tying him up, and taking advantage of him.
or
Jump him when he gets home, and undress him and set the mood.
or
Dress up for him, and get him a costume, and role play.
Blind fold him
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okay , well me and my boyfriend just got into this whole sex thing. well he's experienced for i am not. i lost my virginity to him like 3 weeks back but we had sex 2 more times and it feels like nothing to me no pain no pleasure.. is that weird? and because i dont feel anything i dont do much either which he doesnt like hes always on top doing the work and we kind of loose the moment because i dont feel anything.. and im such a rookie at it i tried being on top i have no clue what to do he laughs at me >.< and when he's on top i dont think he's enjoying since im not really into it myself. and how do you know if your tight or loose? and we've TRIED to have sex 3 times and i just lay there he does the work but it seems hes not satisfied he;s not getting any pleasure out of it? how can i make him feel pleasure? make him feel good? when we have sex its not a good moment when we get into it you know yeah but since i feel nothing and i think he doesnt either it kinda sucks i wanna pleasure him i just dont know how i suck at sex BLAHH!. (link)
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I would slap that man across the face.
Laughing at you?
I would find a new man that doesn't disrespect you, and is willing to teach you how to be intimate without being rude or condesending.
What an oaf!
Tell him that he isn't doing his job in the bedroom if you aren't horny and being pleasured.
When you're with a man, and he cares about you, he doesn't laugh at you when you are trying to be open with him. And when you are with a man who cares about you, your pleasure is as important as his.
I wouldn't be having sex with this guy if he was the last man on earth.
Find someone who cares about your needs.
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what happens if i finger a girl and she urinates blood (link)
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Its likely that she isn't peeing blood, you might have just broken her hynmen.
Discuss with her if she has had sex, or used tampons.
If she hasn't then you have your answer.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and have not had any kind of sex. I am now getting more and more comfortable every time I hangout with him. We have been talking about having oral sex for awhile but im just soo nervous. How do I get passed my nerves? I need help! I have only done this once and I was drunk. He has had alot of experience and I havent had any. Maybe thats why im scared. I dont know I just need some serious help! (link)
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Try watching a little porn to see how women give blow jobs.
They really do help.
Also, I would play with his penis, until you are comfortable playing with it. From there its a little easier to go further with it.
Instead of giving a full out blow job, start with giving a hand job and occasionally putting your mouth on him. That way you get a 'taste' for Blow jobs,(No pun intended) but you are slowly working yourself into them. Versus, going into them without feeling like you know what you are doing.
I would also explain to him, that you are a little nervous, and then he might not expect a blow job right away when you get down there.
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when you shave your vagina. is it supposed to shave your entire area. or just the sides so theres still a strip of hair going down the center? how do guys prefer a girl to look down there? please dont say like there not gona care once your naked please help me! thankyou in advance (link)
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When you shave, don't go against the growth. Go with it.
Also, the "landing strip" is just a little strip of hair right above the opening of the lips.
When I shave, I shave everything, the inside of the lips, the outside, and a little down the leg to take care of stragglers.
Men do care if its trimmed to look nice there, and want it to appear to be clean. So trim it up if you don't want to shave it.
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