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how do you move.
when im having sex with my boyfriend im like a dead person i lost my virginity to him but thats the only time i have ever felt pain.. afteer that no pain or pleasure we did it about 10 times and i feel nothing so i just lay there and fake it. so he asked me to go on top and do the work how do i move? everyone says you'll just feel it and you'll move with it but when he does the work when i try the work i feel nothing so how am i suppost to move with the feeling if i feel nothing? i tried the whole up and down but he's so tall and im so short when i try i look stupid and i try to reach his lips while im doing the work and his thing falls out >.< ........... when im with him im comfortable relaxed while we do it and i dont feel anything.. he's never come before but he's felt few orgasms.. sometimes i fake a moan but its not the same i want to feel it and maybe if i do i'll hunger for more and move my body for him.. is there something wrong with me?
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I think you may just not be aroused enough.
You should be honest with your boyfriend and not fake it because neither of you are going to get anything out of that. Your boyfriend will continue to think that what he's doing is exactly right even when it's not, and you'll never get any pleasure out of sex that way.
Try some foreplay before you get to the finale and wait until you start feeling good. Show him what you like and tell him to show you what he likes. It'll be a lot more enjoyable if you're both on the same page.
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! Nothing wrong with you at all!
Your man isn't doing his job in the Bedroom!
I would have him give you face, rub your clit, play with your hood, until you get wet.
Be blunt with him, and tell him that you are either not going to have sex, or you are not going to be on top if you aren't turned on.
(Worked wonders for me!!)
Doesn't sound like this man cares at all for you.
When you are on top, you should be there because you like it there and want to be on top because it feels good.
If you aren't feeling anything, what are you doing having sex?
Try masturbating and figuring out what turns you on, fantasize and find out what your sexual niche is, then it will be easier for him to turn you on, and for you to get pleasure from sex.
Don't get in the habit of being used for sex. That story never turns out well.
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