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Okay so I'm 15 & I'm having like an anxiety attack right now....I went on vacation with my sister about 3 weeks ago for 2 weeks... Going out there I knew I wasn't going to want to come home bec I want to live there with her..I came home august 2nd & I was supposed to get my period august 4th & now it's august 11th and I still never got it...my periods are usually always 3-6 days late.. The only reason I am getting worried Is because when I was out there I met a bot & we were like hooking up in the pool & stuff & he would like put his penis on my vag & pretend to be doing me in the water but we didn't have sex we were just playing around & it happened a couple of times but it was only for lke 3 seconds each time & I had my bathing suits bottoms on & he had his bathing suit bottoms on & i don't think he "came" soo . But he was kinda hard.. I don't know if it was from getting turned on or from being in the pool..but I'm just worried because I still didn't get my period .. Ihave been really sad & upset & depreessed a little from being back home becaide I miss being out there and I miss the boy a lot and my parents arenon the verge of splitting up so im just havingbso much Going on..I'm also having anxiety, a lot of anxiety... Any idea what's going on with my period? Thanks!
Most likely you're missing your period due to stress. I had the same abnormalities happen to me a while back from hormone imbalance due to stress. It seems like you have a lot going on to cause this.
The fact that you didn't actually have sex in the pool makes it extremely unlikely you're pregnant as even if he did fully ejaculate, sperm couldn't survive in the pool filled with chemicals for more than a few seconds, much less make it to the inside of your vagina.
Just try to relax. What's out of your control is just that. Focus on you for a while, go with the flow of life, and you could even talk to someone you trust, like a close friend or family member. That will help you work out what's troubling you. Once you're more relaxed, your period should get back to normal.
Good luck :)
Can you get your cherry popped by a guy fingering you?
Yes, you can.
It really depends on how tight you are, how many fingers he uses, and whether or not your hymen is still even intact. But it is possible.
ok this is stupid but whatever. my boyfriend is completely loyal and i trust him completely. but he like calls this girl wifey and theyre acquaintances not best friends or even close or anything. should i feel weird? or am i over-exaggerating? its not like he likes her but is that flirty of him hes all like "you can be my wifey" and im like wut.. k thanks !
You're going to have to reevaluate your trust in your boyfriend. It's hard when you really like someone to think about them betraying your trust, but it is a strange situation. It's something you definitely should not be expected to tolerate if it makes you feel weird.
Better safe than sorry, I think.
are tampons suppose to hurt alot when you take them out? i use tampax pearl and i used a light one and i took it out after like 5 or 6 hours and it hurt to get out. it did have blood on it but how do you know when you're positive its fully absorbed?
Well, if it hurts to take it out, it's hasn't absorbed enough blood yet. When the string starts getting red at the top, it's definitely at its maximum.
I'd say to leave it in longer but definitely not more than 6 or 7 hours. If it has been that long and it still hurts, maybe try a smaller tampon.
Tampax Sport has come highly recommended to me.
If not, just use pads,
Lily
Hey! So...I'm a 19 year old highly sensual female.
I say sensual with all the emphasis it needs.
I love sex,touching,kissing,and pretty much everything else that comes with it.
I had my first and only hookup about three months ago due to the fact that I didn't want to be viewed as a whore and also because I have ALWAYS had a boyfriend.
Well...now i come to my dilemma. I have a crush on this guy that I went to high school with. I'm extremely attracted to him physically and emotionally.
We are close friends and I find myself lusting for him. Bad.
Do you think that it would be bad or whorish to hookup with him?
No, I don't think it would be.
But maybe you should wait to have sex with him. Seeing as you said you were attracted to him mentally too, perhaps it would be in both of your best interests to have a relationship first. That way you could both be on the same page when the time comes, and it would make the sex better and more enjoyable for both of you.
Love is the best ingredient in sex!
~ Lily
So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he would seriously like me as a girlfriend. He explained that obviously he cannot say he liked me back considering I'm only 15, but he would wait and see if I still had these feelings in a year, and he'd keep checking up on me and when I hit 18 or 19 he said that we'd definitely talk. I really like him, and I feel that he likes me back. He's very sweet, kind, a great listener, and fun to be around. I'm just a bit worried, because of the age difference, if it ever did work out, I'd probably lose him and be widowed. If you truly love someone, I've heard these marriages work. Can I get past the age difference if I truly love him?
Yes, you can. When you're in love, age -is- just a number.
But.. you're young, and you will change as you get older, especially from 14 to 18. All I can tell you is to keep an open mind and heart. Date other boys your age or maybe a little older/younger. What I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't put all of your eggs in one basket.
And no, it would not be illegal for you to date him. It would be illegal to have any form of sexual contact with him until you reach the age of consent in your state (which is not usually 18, as most will lead you to believe). That does include kissing.
Wishing you the best,
Lily
Okay..well..I realllly like this one boy! He is soo funny and nice! But, my parents would not let me,so I'm never going to ask! They wont even let me go to the movies with boys..or go to their houses by myself!! How do I get over this?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Also, their are some other boys that arent soo bad that actually like me!..
I dont know what to do..HELP!
There's nothing to get over. Your parents are just trying to keep you safe. It really has nothing to do with them trusting you.
I know because my parents are exactly the same way. I was the one who had to learn to trust them and their decisions. Lying to them to do what you want is never the way to go when you still owe your well-being to them.
What helped me finally earn the privilege to go out with guys were two magical words: group dates. Not only is it safer for you but if you have a bad time with the guy you're with, it's easy to go over and talk to your friends instead. haha
Wishing you the best,
Lily
We've been dating for 9 months. I just broke up with him about an hour ago. It was a gut feeling, really, so I didn't have much of a reason. I mean, I didn't want to be with him anymore I guess. He was my first boyfriend. Anyway, now that I've broken up with him I feel kind of bad and sad. How long will this last? I know I couldn't have stayed with him forever, right? Sure, he was wonderful and I was happy but he's just my first boyfriend. It just wasn't realistic to have hopes of "lasting forever" with him, right? :\
-Regretting-The-Break-Up
Trying to be "realistic" all of the time can get in the way of your happiness if you let it; I know because I do it to myself constantly.
But you shouldn't feel bad for breaking up with him if that is what you truly wanted. Think of it this way: if you had stayed with him but didn't feel anything for him anymore, that would not make either of you very happy.
Hoping you can find happiness with someone you really want to be with,
Lily
I just finished the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer and I loved it! I really want to find books that have the same kind of romance that Edward Cullen and Bella Swan do in the Twilight series. I also like Bella and Edward's romance because it is so impossible (if you know what I mean)! Please help me find a book to match these qualities.
If you haven't read the series yet, read Vampire Kisses (if you can find it, there's a big paperback edition with the first three books in it to get you started!)
Not only is it similar to the Twilight series in that it involves vampires, but it also has an impossible, love-at-first-sight human/vampire couple as the main characters.
what are some easy excersises for my stomach and how to get an easier 6 pack?
Hula-hooping. It gives you great abs and thins out your waistline.
Buy a weighted hula-hoop from your local gym (not just any hula-hoop).
Start off by doing it every day for a week for 4-5 minutes and work your way up to doing more time every day.
The best part of this routine is that you can easily work it in to your day by hula-hooping when you're watching TV or drying your hair, and it never takes much time to do it.
Alright so me and this girl are together but not dating and shes a very shy girl which means its hard to start doing stuff with her. Im not all in it for the sex but it would be nice to have and get us a lot closer. What can I invite her to do where I can be alone with her long enough to start doing sexual things with her? and how should start? I know making out leads to other shit but like shes so shy and its hard to even kiss her except when I say bye to her so what do I do? also I just want to know what I can invite her to do with me besides watching a movie where we can be alone together please help!!
This girl doesn't sound like the type of girl who would do anything sexual with someone who isn't her boyfriend. She also doesn't sound like the type of girl who would give herself to someone who hasn't been her boyfriend for very long.
You say you're not all in it for the sex. So get to know her and try to further your relationship with her before you even think of that. Honestly and truly, sex is not something to be taken lightly.
You have a hand; use it.
But to answer your question, you could take her on a walk. It would not only be a way to really talk to each other, but it could warm her up to you.
Okay so me and my boyfriend has anal sex, and he cummed inside. When he pooled it out, it showed he cummed blood. Is this normal. Why did this happen? (We had sex a lot that day so if that helps)
Most likely the blood came from you. If it was only a little bit of blood and you're not still bleeding or feeling any pain, you're probably okay.
But to be on the safe side, I would visit your doctor and make sure because it could also be a health issue.
So remember, doggy style is the best position for anal sex (least amount of pressure on the anus) and always use plenty of lubricant! :)
when im having sex with my boyfriend im like a dead person i lost my virginity to him but thats the only time i have ever felt pain.. afteer that no pain or pleasure we did it about 10 times and i feel nothing so i just lay there and fake it. so he asked me to go on top and do the work how do i move? everyone says you'll just feel it and you'll move with it but when he does the work when i try the work i feel nothing so how am i suppost to move with the feeling if i feel nothing? i tried the whole up and down but he's so tall and im so short when i try i look stupid and i try to reach his lips while im doing the work and his thing falls out >.< ........... when im with him im comfortable relaxed while we do it and i dont feel anything.. he's never come before but he's felt few orgasms.. sometimes i fake a moan but its not the same i want to feel it and maybe if i do i'll hunger for more and move my body for him.. is there something wrong with me?
I think you may just not be aroused enough.
You should be honest with your boyfriend and not fake it because neither of you are going to get anything out of that. Your boyfriend will continue to think that what he's doing is exactly right even when it's not, and you'll never get any pleasure out of sex that way.
Try some foreplay before you get to the finale and wait until you start feeling good. Show him what you like and tell him to show you what he likes. It'll be a lot more enjoyable if you're both on the same page.
14/f
I find it very uncomfortable when people stare at my chest.... it makes me feel annoyed and kind of weirded out....
And this is not only with guys...for some reason I always see one of my friends in particular staring at my chest...it's extremly uncomfortable....I usually say "Hey, my face is up here" but she just laughs and then like awhile later she'll just stare at my chest again....no other girls do that and it's just really weird. And it's not only with low shirts, it's any kind of shirts. And NO, I'm 110% positive she is NOT a lesbian. So i don't know what I'm supposed to do...
What am I supposed to do to make her stop staring??
Thanks!!
I think it's because (assuming your friends are your age) some of them might still be developing, and they're just comparing themselves to you.
Just ask that they stop because it makes you uncomfortable. I'm sure they'll understand. :)
I heard that TLC was going to add Jon Gosselin's mistress girlfriend (Deanna Hummel) to the Jon and Kate Plus 8 television show! Does anybody know when Deanna Hummel is going to be on the TLC Jon and Kate Plus 8 show? I guess it would make since for Deanna to be on the television show with Jon since they're a couple and she's made such an impact in the lives of Kate and the Gosselin children.
Anyway, anybody have some information about it?
No, TLC is not planning on including her in the show. They made a statement about it a while ago.
She would show up occasionally, I would think, seeing as she and Jon are an item. But she wouldn't be a regular.
14/F
Okay, so I don't want to go to my old school anymore. The teachers don't teach me anything, they just yell at me for asking questions. Well, I found this new school my friend is going to. She said they teach you better there and so have several other people I asked. It's a good school in other words. Well, first my old school has to release me. I have an appointment to register at this new school on Monday August 18th. I ALSO have a dentist appointment. Well, the counsler from my old school isn't going to be in until the 18th, so I have to ask to be released on the 18th. All these things happen on the 18th and my mom started yelling at me, telling me I'm a spoiled brat and things, but I don't get it! I'm asking for a better education here, so why am I getting beat on for it?! Well, my mom says I'm smart enough, but I'm a lazy brat and she said she'd get rid of the computer. I live on the computer, yes, but I do to do my homework! I'm so confused now! What do I do?!
Go register on the 18th.
Your mom has little reason to get mad at you. You're right; all you're asking for is a better education. And all it's going to take is that one day to register and then you go to school, just like you did at your old one.
It's going to be a busy day, but it's worth it in the end. Trust me. :)
If your mom still isn't convinced, do your research. Show her how much better it is. Tell her smart enough is not enough. You want to be your best and that it will only happen if you have what you need to succeed.
I hope it turns out well!
LMS:)
I am 16 yrs old. Me and my boyfriend never have had sex with a condom for the past 6 months. Last month my period came on on July 10, 2008. Me and my boyfriend had sex a week later, my period was supposed to come on today which is August 10, 2008. I have not been feeling normal and been more tired than usual and been gaining weight. Could i be pregnant?
It's entirely possible, with or without a condom. Though "with" would have been a better choice, what's done is done.
Don't freak out just yet. It's only been one day. Anyway, a lot of women mistake regular before-period symptoms as pregnancy symptoms like fatigue and bloating.
Wait a week and if it still doesn't come, get an EPT or two and take them. Or go to your doctor and get a blood test.
Ok.
I started going out with my current boyfriend last december.
I like him a lot, but have lots of doubts (that's probably me and not him though).
I kissed my best friend, just the once when i was sleeping over hers.
Then again, when i slept over again.
Then we made out on a pile of kayaks. On the same night we made out on her floor while all our other friends were in the next room.
Needless to say I am lacking a backbone right now in terms of telling my boyfriend anything.
What the hell do I do? I let myself get into this situation. On a couple of the times I kissed my friend we'd had a LITTLE to drink, but nothing that would affect my rational thinking, I knew what I was doing, and I know I'm in the wrong.
We only live once. What he doesn't know can't hurt him. Right?
Or not?
Any viewpoints or advise or whatever would be lovely. I just think I needed to get a little off my chest.
So yeah, thanks and whatever (:
Actually, it's no better than doing it with a guy. I mean, would you want your boyfriend making out with another guy? Probably not.
You're right; you only live once, so you should feel free to experiment. But tell your boyfriend and see what he feels about it. He has every right to know.
Best wishes,
Little Miss Sunshine(:
i was trying to explain to my boyfriend how the first time we "make love" or have sex i would like it to be special.. and i couldnt explain it in the right words.. tell me if you can relate and help me find better wording/explanation.. the first time i have sex i want it to feel more sensual then just the norm sex like i want to be on the bottum so i feel the man over me taking control then me just getting on top and doing my thing.. ( becuase it is said it feels better when the girl is on top and controls) but i really dont care what feels better i just want him to love me and control me i want to feel like the girl instead of holding myself over him feeling manly.. i cant explain that to him how can i word that its so hard to get a guy to understand how a girl feels about this.. what do you guys think??
I think you explained it just fine.
Tell him you want him on top, so you can feel him around you and be closer than you can be if you're on top.
(: I hope it's just as special as you want it to be.
14/F
Everybody in my school and everybody in the world knows what sex is and all the works of art that goes with it, right? I know most of it since I'm only 14 and my family doesn't talk about it. If I say the word sex at home and my dad is near, he'll yell and me and start saying, "Go to your room or wash your mouth out!"
I don't get why, but I ignore it. I actually think sex is like art and that it's normal, so say people I meet and things. Well, I was searching on the computer for something and I got this pop up. For some reason, my computer only blocks pop ups of laptops and things, but not porn pop ups. So I got this porn video as a pop up as I entered a site searching for a certain guy from a TV show. So, anyway, the pop up scared me. I freaked out and started whimpering and trying to turn off the computer screen. I was a dark red color when I looked in the mirror! I wasn't feeling any kind of turn on, either! Just freaked out! I don't get why! I swear I could handle that kind of stuff, but when I saw it, it freaked me out! I didn't know what I saw, but it was kind of scary! Luckily, my speakers are broken and I couldn't hear anything, but it was scary! Why did I suddenly have a change?
Then, today it happened again! A pop up came up when I was going to my friend's profile on a certain site. Well, I got this pop up of a guy and a girl, but mostly the guy's genitals. I was confused at first, but then that thing started up again. I started getting terrified and I snapped the computer off. I keep telling myself that it's nothing, but then I started thinking about it. I can't possibly be immature about it. I mean, at school when someone says penis, I don't laugh. I just listen to the teacher, then ignore it for the rest of the day. Someone says 69, I don't laugh. I mean, if you say it a hundred times, then maybe I'll laugh then, but that's different...
Anyway... My question is: Why do I get so scared and nervous when I see a guy or even a girl's body?! I have things a girl has, duh, because I'm a girl, but I still get scared and panick. Then my next thought was: How the heck am I ever gonna have sex when I'm married if I freak out like that?! I might end up smacking my own boyfriend! Can someone please help me?! I'm so confused and kinda freaked out! >
You might just be embarrassed about that sort of thing. I know I am.
But it doesn't mean you're going to freak out when the real thing is before you.
You seem pretty mature, so I wouldn't be worried if I were you. :)