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making love the first time
i was trying to explain to my boyfriend how the first time we "make love" or have sex i would like it to be special.. and i couldnt explain it in the right words.. tell me if you can relate and help me find better wording/explanation.. the first time i have sex i want it to feel more sensual then just the norm sex like i want to be on the bottum so i feel the man over me taking control then me just getting on top and doing my thing.. ( becuase it is said it feels better when the girl is on top and controls) but i really dont care what feels better i just want him to love me and control me i want to feel like the girl instead of holding myself over him feeling manly.. i cant explain that to him how can i word that its so hard to get a guy to understand how a girl feels about this.. what do you guys think??
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i think you did just fine explaining, however your right guys dont always understand these things like girls do. to help him better understand if i were you, i would just flat out say there is a difference to having sex and making love and for our first time i would like us to make love rather than just have sex and then maybe go about explaining your deffenition of this differences, just as you did when explaining them to us.
and if he really is worth it, he will take the time to listen and hopefully take your feelings twords the situation into consideration and for your sake go about it your way. and if all goes well with that, maybe you'll go for 'norm sex' in the near future for him. compromises are always key to a good reletionship.
hope this helped, goodluck with everything!
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I think you explained it just fine.
Tell him you want him on top, so you can feel him around you and be closer than you can be if you're on top.
(: I hope it's just as special as you want it to be.
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Im not really sure, but please use protection!
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