I'm confused about my sexuality: pretending to be a girl
Question Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 5:43 pm
Hello, I'm a male, 17 years old, and from Lebanon (Middle East). I'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a girlfriend and I appear straight to all my friends. But when I masturbate, I imagine that I'm a girl getting violated, or having sex with two guys etc. And when I watch a porn movie, I see myself as the girl in the movie, not as the guy, and imagining that I'm a girl having sex with a guy turns me on more than anything. I always like to be a girl who is having sex with guys not a guy having sex with a guy, nor a girl having sex with a girl, only a girl having sex with a guy. and I have a fake email ID and when I'm using it I pretend to be a girl, I steal girl's photos from the Internet and show them to guys in Chatting Rooms, and tell them that it's me. they believe that it's me and start chatting dirt to me... and I masturbate. I've never had sex by the way. But I was once harrased 2 months ago in a Cab by the driver... at first he started turning me on with a sex talk, then he gave me a handjob.. I don't consider it as a sexual harrasment because I didn't defend myself.. I let him do it. But i didn't let him touch my penis. But I also have a girl friend.. and when we make out I get turned on.. but I never reached orgasim with her.. she once tried to give me ahandjob but it didn't work.. I don't wana be Gay or Bisexual, I want to be straight. I watch porn a lot and i'm addicted to masturbation. HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? ScottyT answered Saturday March 21 2009, 12:04 am: Hello sir, ummmm to be very honest your not, gay, bi-sexual, or straight, your transgender. Gay guys are not men who want to be a female, Gay males are Men who like being men, but are only attracted to the same sex, therefore your not gay because you think about being a girl. your not Bi-sexual because Bi-sexuals (male Bisexuals) don't hook up with guys and pretend they are girls. Bisexual males hook up with both male and females because they are men who like both sexes. Transgender people are completly different...! Transgender males are men, with female minds. There are males who actually were supposed to be born females, but certain membranes get mixed up causing the sex of the child to change before birth. So again there is a possibility you are transgender, but believe me you are not gay, bi, or straight. -scott- [ ScottyT's advice column | Ask ScottyT A Question ]
heybbylovee answered Thursday August 21 2008, 7:34 pm: hey
it's NOT a bad thing to be bisexual. perhaps you're just going through a phase right now. i'd also like to add that just because you're turned on by other guys doesn't mean you're bisexual or gay. you can simply be turned on by other males. that's the case with many teenage girls.
don't break up with your girlfriend until you're positive of your sexuality. and if, in a couple months, you realize that you're just not into her and you DO, in fact, like men, then dump her and explain that to her.
Mizz-AdviceGurl answered Tuesday August 19 2008, 11:06 pm: ok.....your confusing
me so im pretty sure
your confused yourself
if you really wanna be
straight && you think
your straight stick to
your girl friend...
but maybe if you have
sex with your girlfriend
*no rush of course* and
you stop having those
things about you being
a girl having sex with
a guy....than youll know
your straight [ Mizz-AdviceGurl's advice column | Ask Mizz-AdviceGurl A Question ]
HEALER answered Monday August 11 2008, 6:46 am: You do not make sense, you are confused, stick to you're girlfriend, belive me that's with whom you belong.
CaitlinCan answered Sunday August 10 2008, 10:20 pm: Well you sound like a teen male. No but seriously, thats normal. Masturbation is healthy and makes you happier in general. Watching porn isnt terrible. Alot of people do it. [ CaitlinCan's advice column | Ask CaitlinCan A Question ]
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