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What day does school end for the summer in Texas (USA). (link)
I don't believe in such things like a "stupid question" therefore i will say you really should have asked a School staff member.


Hello, I'm a male, 17 years old, and from Lebanon (Middle East). I'm really confused about my sexuality. I have a girlfriend and I appear straight to all my friends. But when I masturbate, I imagine that I'm a girl getting violated, or having sex with two guys etc. And when I watch a porn movie, I see myself as the girl in the movie, not as the guy, and imagining that I'm a girl having sex with a guy turns me on more than anything. I always like to be a girl who is having sex with guys not a guy having sex with a guy, nor a girl having sex with a girl, only a girl having sex with a guy. and I have a fake email ID and when I'm using it I pretend to be a girl, I steal girl's photos from the Internet and show them to guys in Chatting Rooms, and tell them that it's me. they believe that it's me and start chatting dirt to me... and I masturbate. I've never had sex by the way. But I was once harrased 2 months ago in a Cab by the driver... at first he started turning me on with a sex talk, then he gave me a handjob.. I don't consider it as a sexual harrasment because I didn't defend myself.. I let him do it. But i didn't let him touch my penis. But I also have a girl friend.. and when we make out I get turned on.. but I never reached orgasim with her.. she once tried to give me ahandjob but it didn't work.. I don't wana be Gay or Bisexual, I want to be straight. I watch porn a lot and i'm addicted to masturbation. HELP (link)
Hello sir, ummmm to be very honest your not, gay, bi-sexual, or straight, your transgender. Gay guys are not men who want to be a female, Gay males are Men who like being men, but are only attracted to the same sex, therefore your not gay because you think about being a girl. your not Bi-sexual because Bi-sexuals (male Bisexuals) don't hook up with guys and pretend they are girls. Bisexual males hook up with both male and females because they are men who like both sexes. Transgender people are completly different...! Transgender males are men, with female minds. There are males who actually were supposed to be born females, but certain membranes get mixed up causing the sex of the child to change before birth. So again there is a possibility you are transgender, but believe me you are not gay, bi, or straight. -scott-


Me and my bf have been dating for almost 9months now and the sex just isnt working out the way we want it and im trying to make it work but i dont know what to do its so hard for me to turn him on he said if i talk dirty to him and other things it might help what are other things i can do and how do you talk dirty haha i wouldnt know the first thing to say id feel stupid what do i do?? help please (link)
Well this is quite interesting. I am not sure why he is unable to get turned on, but most of the time just by a simple touch to the male genitalia the penis becomes erect. Also, it would be a good idea to make sure your partner does not have a problem with his genitals. A man is the most easiest thing to get turned on. I suggest the two of you start kissing pasionatly, then start to move down in a sense, as the next step would be to lick his neck, feel apon his chest and upper torso with your hands under his shirt, already the male is getting excited, and blood should just about start flowing in the penis. then unbutton his pants, and or take them off, pull out his penis and grip it, and if you wouldn't mind lick the penis especially the head, then act as if your going to give him oral and by then he should be fully arroused. You do not even have to say a word. oh and if you want to make him feel good as soon as you take out the penis and grab it say something like "Oh look at this big guy" it ussually increases the excitment. Please let me know how it works out.
-Scott-


Any of you guys from Dallas,TX? Been to the Galleria?..do any gymnastics?..I need to find a gym so I can start my tumbling again..What school do you go to? (link)
I think you came to the qrong site. I think you need to go look for a penpal or look for a friend on Myspace..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I havn't had sex in 5 days is there somthing i can do to make my satified. thanks (link)
Well I think the question is self explanitory. MASTERBATION........!!!!!!!!


when having anal sex does the guy get feces on his penis?
and what happens? like i dont get it. haha (link)
Well Actually I think if an individual released his/her bowels before sex most likely there will be no visible feces. It is different in which when a woman recieves anal sex. Men on the other hand have petuitary glands in the anus which becomes lubricated, therefore the organ switches over and functions differently. Not only gay man have anal sex, straight men are supposed to recieve thier partners finger in thier anus. So No not when it comes to mall anal sex, but yes when it comes to female anal sex.


so me and my best friend started hanging out with my old flame from middle school about 2 months ago. she lives next door to him so thats why we all hung out together. we hung out in january and we didnt have much to say to eachother because we were both (me and the boy) really nervous, but we watched a movie. now, prom is coming up and he didnt know who to ask and my friend suggested me and he said he would like to take me because of like the history we have .. but he wants to hang out first to see if its weird .. soo on friday were hanging out .. me, my best friend, and him. and we wanna do something so we will have a lot to talk about, and so it wont be awkward. does anyone know what we can all do together & some topics we can talk about? i wanna make it as awkward as possible and keep the conversation going! (link)
I have come across this question many times. First, it is important that you acknowledge why you actually like this individual. Secondly, It may be very weird, but if both individuals (you and him) are mature enough, you will get passed all that. Great topics to discuss would be..... What future plans may be, talk about beliefs on sexuality and religion overall, talk about sex, when I say talk about sex I don't mean get freaky with it, but have a sophisticated conversation about sex, base it on personal opinions about sex, etc. When in a situation like this it is important to not act just like friends, both of you should look at it as something higher. Prom is going to be one of your most memorable life experience, therefore remember to HAVE FUN.....!!! Hope I have answered your question, and I would like to know if I was good assistance to you, so please inform me with progress. Thanks. -Scott-




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