For about four months I've been going out with a really nice guy. I do somewhat like him, but he likes me a LOT more than I like him. He's really sweet but, to be honest, I'm bored.
Is this a reason to dump him, or should I stick it out and see what happens?
But, if you really are unhappy, then you should dump him. You need to do what is best for you, and not for anyone else. It sounds quite selfish, but sometimes we need to just think of ourselves.
Cux answered Sunday August 10 2008, 10:12 pm: Boredom is normal. I wouldn't dump him. Try to switch things up and do different things with him. Go places you haven't been. Try new things.
If you don't like him really anymore, it wouldn't be fair to either of you if you kept dating. So if you don't like him, I would say that's a reason, but if you still like him, boredom isn't really a good reason unless neither of you try to solve it.
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