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Boyfriend, best friend dilemma!
Ok.
I started going out with my current boyfriend last december.
I like him a lot, but have lots of doubts (that's probably me and not him though).
I kissed my best friend, just the once when i was sleeping over hers.
Then again, when i slept over again.
Then we made out on a pile of kayaks. On the same night we made out on her floor while all our other friends were in the next room.
Needless to say I am lacking a backbone right now in terms of telling my boyfriend anything.
What the hell do I do? I let myself get into this situation. On a couple of the times I kissed my friend we'd had a LITTLE to drink, but nothing that would affect my rational thinking, I knew what I was doing, and I know I'm in the wrong.
We only live once. What he doesn't know can't hurt him. Right?
Or not?
Any viewpoints or advise or whatever would be lovely. I just think I needed to get a little off my chest.
So yeah, thanks and whatever (:
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Actually, it's no better than doing it with a guy. I mean, would you want your boyfriend making out with another guy? Probably not.
You're right; you only live once, so you should feel free to experiment. But tell your boyfriend and see what he feels about it. He has every right to know.
Best wishes,
Little Miss Sunshine(:
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I think u should just explain to him that you DO only live once and (im guessing) your young and your just experimenting. I mean I'm assuming your not looking to leave your boyfriend for her and I don't really think he has anything to worry about because from what I think your saying its a girl. Just be honest with him and hope that he'll understand. I mean it's better then you doing it with a guy, it's just stuff people do sometimes (not all, but some) If your really truly happy with him then I would just suggest telling him just to communicate and be honest. If you try to not make a big deal out of it to him and if you comfort him and say things to make him feel better he prob won't take it so bad either? I don't know very many guys that mind when girls make out... Haha maybe the only reason he'd be upset is he couldn't watch (just kidding, just kidding. =]) But seriously just talk to him. =) Everything'll be cool I'm sure. =) Good luck! And I hope he understands if you do decide to talk to him. =)
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