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Anxiety attacks, parents divorcing and possible pregnancy?
Okay so I'm 15 & I'm having like an anxiety attack right now....I went on vacation with my sister about 3 weeks ago for 2 weeks... Going out there I knew I wasn't going to want to come home bec I want to live there with her..I came home august 2nd & I was supposed to get my period august 4th & now it's august 11th and I still never got it...my periods are usually always 3-6 days late.. The only reason I am getting worried Is because when I was out there I met a bot & we were like hooking up in the pool & stuff & he would like put his penis on my vag & pretend to be doing me in the water but we didn't have sex we were just playing around & it happened a couple of times but it was only for lke 3 seconds each time & I had my bathing suits bottoms on & he had his bathing suit bottoms on & i don't think he "came" soo . But he was kinda hard.. I don't know if it was from getting turned on or from being in the pool..but I'm just worried because I still didn't get my period .. Ihave been really sad & upset & depreessed a little from being back home becaide I miss being out there and I miss the boy a lot and my parents arenon the verge of splitting up so im just havingbso much Going on..I'm also having anxiety, a lot of anxiety... Any idea what's going on with my period? Thanks!
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The human body for all of its strength can also be extremely fragile. It does not take much to upset the bodies natural rhythm. With everything you have written about as to what is going on in your life I would be more surprised if you were to say your period arrives on schedule.
I seriously doubt you are pregnant. His sperm had would have had to survive the chemicals in the pool and penetrate your bathing suit then find your vagina entrance to travel to an egg. A long shot bet at best. If you are that concerned; enough time has passed that you can take any of the home pregnancy tests available at any store that sell health and beauty products.
As for STDs; these are always a possibility. In what you described the fact that both of you had your bathing suits on the possibility is low. But if there was any chance it is better safe than sorry and you should get yourself tested.
I wish I could tell you what is going on with your parents, I cannot since I do not know them. The one thing I can tell you is that whatever is going on between them has nothing to do with you and you did nothing to cause the problem. Your parents I am sure still love you. They may have trouble showing it at this time because of their own problems. Their problems in no way diminish their love fro their children.
The only thing I can suggest you do is go see your family doctor. Tell the doctor how you feel and everything about the anxiety attacks. The doctor may be able to prescribe some medication to help with these attacks.
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First thing: go get yourself tested for pregnancy and STDs because you had unprotected sex. Even if it was just for three seconds or oral or grinding each other there was opportunity for an STD to be passed on. Also, a guy does not have to come to get you pregnant. When a guy starts to get hard he emits a watery fluid called pre-ejaculate which does have semen in it. If that enters you yeah, you can get pregnant.
Second thing: you sound way stressed and that can also affect your period. During times of lots of stress mine can also up & disappear or be super heavy. One of the best ways to combat that is again, see your doctor to go on birth control & also to talk to you about how to combat stress. The sooner you learn proactive techniques to deal with stress the better because it really only gets worse.
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Take care of yourself!!!!
Jaelle
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Most likely you're missing your period due to stress. I had the same abnormalities happen to me a while back from hormone imbalance due to stress. It seems like you have a lot going on to cause this.
The fact that you didn't actually have sex in the pool makes it extremely unlikely you're pregnant as even if he did fully ejaculate, sperm couldn't survive in the pool filled with chemicals for more than a few seconds, much less make it to the inside of your vagina.
Just try to relax. What's out of your control is just that. Focus on you for a while, go with the flow of life, and you could even talk to someone you trust, like a close friend or family member. That will help you work out what's troubling you. Once you're more relaxed, your period should get back to normal.
Good luck :)
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