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sex or no sex
Hey! So...I'm a 19 year old highly sensual female.
I say sensual with all the emphasis it needs.
I love sex,touching,kissing,and pretty much everything else that comes with it.
I had my first and only hookup about three months ago due to the fact that I didn't want to be viewed as a whore and also because I have ALWAYS had a boyfriend.
Well...now i come to my dilemma. I have a crush on this guy that I went to high school with. I'm extremely attracted to him physically and emotionally.
We are close friends and I find myself lusting for him. Bad.
Do you think that it would be bad or whorish to hookup with him?
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Bad? Not totally but whoreish kind of. I mean if you like him && all you shouldn't hook up with him bcuz then after that all he'll view you as is a sex buddy && won't take you seriously. So if you like him haveing a 1 night stand probably isn't the best idea.
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I think you should wait to get with him try and build a relationship...if a relationship is what you are looking for that is. Its not whorish you arent looking for a million guys to hookup with but if you want a relationship try and hold off.
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No, I don't think it would be.
But maybe you should wait to have sex with him. Seeing as you said you were attracted to him mentally too, perhaps it would be in both of your best interests to have a relationship first. That way you could both be on the same page when the time comes, and it would make the sex better and more enjoyable for both of you.
Love is the best ingredient in sex!
~ Lily
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