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More Intense
Okay I dont know if this is my problem and Im just gonna have to deal with it, but to start off I will say I am somewhat very experienced in sex for my age. My problem is the guy im currently having sex with, well it seems like he just cant keep up. I like to do fun and sometimes crazy things when Im having sex. until now everyguy I slept with did everything I wanted without me having to say it and most the times they tought me new things. But the guy im with now he just doesnt make me want him at all, with him its simply lets make out and have sex nothing else. I guess this is bad but sex is very important to me in a relationship and I dont want to tell him he's doing anything wrong because I know how important it is for a guy to feel like he knows what he's doing in bed. But I need him to do something more intense once in a while or it simply isnt gonna work. What should I do
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I understand its not going to be an easy subject to bring up with him. So you shouldnt handle it directly.
I suggest adding some things to the mix. Be your wild crazy self in bed :)
Give it some time. Maybe he'll catch on.
Do you know if hes had much experience himself? He might be a little shy in the bedroom if he hasnt.
You could also suggest little things. Tell him you read something in a magazine and you want to try it out.
Or the next time you two are making out, you could get really excited, like hes really starting to turn you on and say something like "take charge. You can do whatever you want to me. Im all yours"
Make it sort of a game. You two can go back and forth, coming up with new ideas and ways to spice things up. See if he adds something new to keep you interested.
If he still doesnt catch on, you could be a little more forward about it, ask him how he feels about your guys' sex life. If he thinks its amazing and doesnt want to change a thing you might want to think about that and if you still want to be with him. Either that or talk it out and tell him how you really feel.
Good luck. Hope everything works out! :)
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