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more time to orgasm?!
i have been fingering myself since i was like 10. So recently as i was i noticed that it takes ,e longer to have an orgasm than usual then one night it didnt happen at all!
im a little scared because my first time is coming up next week, and im afraid i wont be...pleasured.
i need quick help please!
D: olie!!!
14/f
(dont tell me im too young please!)
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Intercourse and masturbation are not linked. You will be fine. It's actually not legal in most states for anyone to have sex with anyone until 18. I won't lecture you but please be sure it's exactly what you want and that this boy's sticking around after. Use protection and consider other birth control used with condoms to be ultra safe.
The problem you mention is from doing something the same way night after night for years. Eventually, it won't be as pleasurable, will take longer etc. etc. Try not doing it as often or a different method. It won't affect pleasure for you during sex or otherwise. Too much of the same way leads to that.
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well to tell you the truth you might be too young just somethings you wont know how to handle so be careful. and its true you might take longer to get an orgasm because you do it so much or for so long. your first time it might not feel pleasurble for a while actually when you have sex.
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You started getting a tolerance to yourself, I guess is the best way to put it.
Your body is too used to your finger, if that makes sense, so that's probably why it's not happening as quickly.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I think you will be fine. It's different when someone else does it to you & the penis will be bigger and longer. Plus you can try different positions.
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try anal.
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