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Im sixteen years old. Im in high school. I love helping others so ask me anything and I'll give you my true thoughts. :)

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16/female

Hey, I started using the Bio-Oil product at the beginning of December. Its a nicely scented scar and stretch mark remover and its also said to even out skin tone.

Anyways, I was just wondering how long it would take until I expect to see results? If anyone has used Bio-Oil before I'd really appreciate knowing! I'm using it twice a day just like the instructions call for. I put it on in the morning after I shower and at night before I got to bed.

One of my reasons for using this is because I am in a serious relationship that is physically escalating and I'm a bit self conscious about some mild scaring on my breasts. These were caused because I used to have a picking fetish, and I would squeeze and pop the little pores on the skin like a pimple so it would scab over. I just want the marks to go away now! I don't pick anymore.

I used bio oil before, and like you for a while i would use it twice a day, but i never really did see much of a result.
My face did clear after a while, but i don't think Bio oil did anything to make it go faster.

But everyone has different skin types, so it might work for you more than it worked for me. :/
-Good luck & i hope it works for you

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does anyone know of any place to get a good strapless bra for bigger chested women. im skinnier and athletic, but i have big boobs. i like to wear strapless shirts, but its hard to find a good strapless bra for big boobs. thanks in advance!

Jc Penney has a good bra section. They have strapless bras, regular, backless & plenty of sizes. If not there then Victoria's Secret. Their whole store is based on lingerie.
I hope that helped.

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I am a 14-year-old female who really love writing. I write whatever I think(Mostly things that are deep) but I don't want to show them to my family(It's just a different side of me). I wanna share it with others and I'm wondering if there's any websites for people to write and share essays with others(like a hobby). I googled "essay share" and all the websites they have are for people to do homework(so it needs $). I don't need any help in writing essay but I wanna share and read essays to improve my skill.
PLEASE, ANY websites that might fit me is fine.

Quizilla.com has a lot of good ways to enjoy writing, like poems, songs, stories,quizzes. You can also make your own free account & start putting up your own work.

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so im a sophmore in highschool and have never done anything at all risky. i never had a oy friends pr hooked up or got drunk or anything. and im finding out that all of my friends have and it makes me really sad. i hate feeling left out and unexperienced. what do i do?

well here's a thought, do you want to find yourself being called a hoe for doing things with other guys and hooking up all the time? i hope your answer is no. Just give it some time, you will find the right guy, and just because your friends are doing these things doesn't mean it's right for you to be doing these things too. I know how it feels when it seems like everyone is out partying and getting drunk and you seem like your the "goody 2shoes". Yes, it's tough, but in the end you're going to be the one making smarter decisions & being with the better future. You're a sophmore, there's so much time in the future to go clubbing & drinking without having to worry about parents and everything else. But if you really can't wait to grow up, ask your friends when the next party is, and go with them. & for the boyfriend situation, a time will come for that too. The fastest way to get a boyfriend would be to start talking to some guys & show them how fun you are. A lot of guys when they really want to go steady with a girl, have trouble finding one that is actually not a "hoe". Getting drunk and partying is not all there is in life. Remember; better be safe than sorry. Good luck tho. :)

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now 9 on October 14th. He's 18 and I'm 16, we clicked the instant we met, only thing was he was a bit of a flirt. I've know him for about two years now, we'd flirt around and what not but I never took him seriously because of all the other females that were after him. He said he'd give up his flirtatious ways if I agreed to be his girlfriend. So I did, I liked him a great deal.
We "fell in love," or I did atleast. Everything was going well, we ended up having sex 5 months after we started going out, I sortah regret it he was my first.
Anyways, we've been having small problems. Well I think he thinks everything's ok, but he doesn't call me much. I'm always the one to call, usually.
At night, after 9 when he has free minutes. :/
Anyways, sometimes he acts as if I bore him, or he doesn't like me or love me...he gets annoyed and irritated with me for no apparent reason.
I want to know, does anyone think he's with me just 'cause of sex?
I mean he lives in chicago and I live in Aurora, he sees me once a week or so, we talk every night usually.
When we're together he seems to push onto sex fairly quickly.
I don't know what to do most of the time, I want to make him happy so I go through with it most of the time, we use protection of course.
But afterward I sortah feel sad, I feel kindda upset with myself, not sure why. Has this happened to anyone else?
I kinda get the feeling that's all he wants, but I do think he loves me, or did atleast at one point, but lately I been feeling as if he only likes the sex.
What should I do?
Am I wasting my time?
I love him alot, but (is this wrong?) love me more, and I've been hurt many times before and don't want to get hurt in the end.
He began to change since he recently started college...I don't know, could he be stressed?
Any help would be useful thanks. :T

i've had the same problem but it happens at different times , usually when he had lots of problems with his family and stuff. My guy wants to do sexual things also when we are together but i do too, so i think its more of the hes a guy, he loves sex thing. Your man could be having some problems too, but it seems like he still trys to get to see you each week. I say next time you guys hang out, try going to eat or a movie, and say you arn't feeling well enough to have sex. See if he still pushes you into it. Any guy that pushes you into anything is not being fair. I know how it feels when it seems like you're the only one trying to make an effort. You have to think about your situation and his. He lives in another town and he's in college. A lot of things happen in college & i know its so hard to think that way, but you can never really know what he is exactly doing over there. & since you said he's a big flirt, do you think hes flirting with other girls? I think you should talk to him , see if he's stressed out in college,see if he still wants to be with you since hes seems so busy with his other things. Ask him why he's been acting so different latly. & Ask yourself this, do you think you can handle being with him like this for another year? Sometimes it's better to move on.

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16/male my gf and i are thinking about having sex
we are both virgins im nervous about it my penis is not that big and im worried i wont please her or i wont be any good i dont want to make it bad what can i do? will i be able to satisfy her?

Aw, well im sure your girlfriend would not make a big deal about your size.If she really cared about you, that wouldn't matter. It's both your first time so pleasuring her is going to take some time, since girls usually are in pain the first time they have sex. Since shes a virgin you never want to go to hard on her.Ask her if you are hurting her. Be sure to take it nice and slow, then if you see she isn't in pain, go faster/harder. To make it real special, tell her how beautiful she is and don't rush it, just let it happen. Kiss her neck, her body, her lips. Just be really sweet. I'm sure both of you will be satisfied.

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ive been having these weird thoughts latley that i just want to make out with this one guy.
he wants to hang out with me and id think thatd be a great oppurtunity. lol.
but the problem is... im gunna feel like a slut.
or something like that.. you know?
ive never kissed anyone.
but he just seems like the type to kiss.
should i forget about it or just straight up tell him i wanna make out?
nothing slutty tho.
thanks in advance!
i hope its not confusing.

That's not really slutty at all. It's not like you are going to have sex with him, at least I hope not, I would give it more time for that. First of all you said you've never kissed a guy, so he would be your first then. You've got to make sure that he should be the right one for your first kiss because most people do remember their first kisses. You could mention that you want to kiss him but I would wait for the guy to make the move, then you know he for sure likes you. If you want him to kiss you flirt a little, get close to him, stare into his eyes, things like that. Maybe say he has sexy lips.
I hope you have fun. :)

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My boyfriend and I just started getting into the roleplaying thing. We really enjoy it, but we're bored with the ones we have done. Any suggestions?
Some we've done are; pool boy, nurse, teacher, librarian, work place, and a few others.

have you tried being the female cop? Getting hand cuffs and pretending like someone's been naughty.

the french maid.

Or a naughty little devil type of thing. Where you act rough and mean, dressed in all red with horns.

Photographer and Model

thats all i can think of, sorry! :)

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what is the company that makes mars bars and snickers and starburst???

my friend told me that that company supports animal cruelty. not many companies do is this true?

The company that produces Mars Bars and Snickers is called MARS.
From what i've read, the animal rights group PETA, says MARS uses mice and rats on their experiments.

& when questioned,( Mars spokeswoman Alice Nathanson said last week regarding the University of California experiment: "I can't speak to any information that PETA may or may not have. I can't speak to any experiments.")

Most candy companies do not though.

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Ok 14 and I have 2 girls after me 1 is dull and the other is more of a prep and sporty and great grades I'm dating the dull now wut shud I do

Well from the way you described them, seems like you like the preppy one. If you are dating a girl and feel like you should be dating someone else then brake up with her. It's only fair to the girl. Good luck

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My bf of 4 years told me to take a break about three days ago...i dont understand why he would ask me that bcoz he was the one who messed up..we constanly aruged becoz his girl friends from school kept texting him, and it really bothered me alot..i even cried and told him that i dont appreciate them texting you and he seemed to not do anything about it...so we got into this really deep arugement about the girls texting him....n now he wants a break..i dont understand why he would want to take a break instead of trying to change and work things out for me....He thinks that since we been together for long and wanna get married in the future that its ok for him to take advantage of me and do wat he wants bcoz imma always be with him..idk what to do.....im just really mad that he taking a break with me...

Some times a little break is what both couples need. If you guys were together for four years, I don't think he can just end it like that. He wants a little space probably from all the arguing and fighting and you need it too. He'll start to miss you and you will start to miss him, and then maybe you will get back together, and put all those little arguments away.I do agree though it's pretty stupid if he didn't do anything about the texts when it hurts you so much. Think about this though, if your boyfriend didn't flirt with those girls that texted him then he probably felt attacked when you kept getting mad over it and accusing him of things.But if he was flirting with the girls then you don't need a guy like that anyway.

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So there's this guy I was introduced to by one of my best friends,we had a thing for a while and then I brought him into my "group" of friends and after that he told me that he just wanted to be friends.
Me and my group of friends hangout with him all the time now,but they wouldn't know him if it weren't for me.
Lately,when we are together (me and the guy) he acts totally normal and like my good friend but then later on he will talk to all my friends via text,myspace,facebook,etc. and NOT ME anymore!
He used to like me as more than a friend but I find it weird how he's talking to everyone but me now!
We had a talk about how we were together all the time so maybe that had something to do with him stopping liking me,so is he just not talking to me to maybe kind of get space ? Or what's the deal here?

I'm thinking it's because of that talk that he's not talking to you as much. Maybe you made it seem like you guys needed some space. You should try talking to him more via text, myspace, or facebook. Let him know that you are not bothered by him. If he still feels distant, then I would leave it alone, maybe he just connects more with your other friends. Remember now you don't want to be annoying or seem obsessive. Good luck though, I hope everything works out.

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i am 13 and i am trying to find a job that pays pretty good money. i live in pa. any ideas of places like restaurants that you can think of?

Truth is, not a lot of people would hire a 13 year old, most jobs you have to be at least seventeen, especially restaurants. But you could post fliers on doors around your neighborhood that you could babysit or mow the lawn, rake leaves. Some more ideas:

Walk dogs
Youth Programs
Grocery store
Tourism spots
Parks
Swimming pools
Day camps/summer camps
concession stands
Ice cream parlors
Newspaper delivery
Sorry I don't live in Pa, but these jobs I'm sure can be found there.

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what days do you celebrate with your significant other? besides the anniversary (day you guys met/got together)? why do some people celebrate like the 4th month?

All couples are different. Some celebrate every month and some every year. Some just do it randomly to be with their significant other and show their love. People like different things. Some people don't even celebrate their anniversaries.

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Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good?

I use both. Just depends on what day of my period I'm on and what I'm planning on doing. My pads are never the same, I mostly use the brand Always though. & for tampons, i use Tampax. The lighter days of my period i use tampons but the heavier days i use pads. :)

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Is there a Good quality video of Jordan Crawford dunking on LeBron James?

I don't understand the reason this is the top news story. I watched the videos that are floating around youtube and ebaum's world, and I don't get it. The video is so bad that I can't even figure out what happened? What does it even mean to be "dunked on?"

Can you tell basketball isn't my game? ;)

Can someone explain why all the news about this and Nike confiscating tapes and stuff?

Thank you!

I was just actually watching TMZ on tv & they showed the video. Pretty much Lebron was standing under the hoop and Jordan Crawford dunked the ball right in front of him. & From what TMZ said, seems like Lebron was embarrassed and told all the media to get rid of the tapes. :( haha. All on TMZ. Hope that helped.

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I have just recently aquired a BlackBerry Curve & I don't know how to download myspace mobile as an application. I've searched & searched. Maybe I'm just not looking in the right places? Can someone please give me step by step instructions on doing so?

Thankyou. :)

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=mobile
^Thats the link for the myspace mobile page.


http://www.myspace.com/blackberry
& ^ thats the link for myspace mobile for blackberrys.

I don't have the blackberry so I couldn't tell you step by step instructions. Sorry.

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i have been fingering myself since i was like 10. So recently as i was i noticed that it takes ,e longer to have an orgasm than usual then one night it didnt happen at all!
im a little scared because my first time is coming up next week, and im afraid i wont be...pleasured.
i need quick help please!
D: olie!!!
14/f
(dont tell me im too young please!)

I think you will be fine. It's different when someone else does it to you & the penis will be bigger and longer. Plus you can try different positions.

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i am 13 and i started living with my aunt and uncle around a year ago. i like thi sboy named dj, and he likes me too. we've been kissing and stuff, and it got far enough one time that he had my shirt off. i had on thia gray bra, and he kept looking at it like i was... well, immature. i want to buy thongs and bras that are kinda girlier, but i don't know how to ask my aunt?

I'm sure she'll understand that you need underwear, so tell her your underwear got small, or you need new pairs and new bras. If she doesn't let the thongs, you can always buy underwear like boy shorts that a lot of guys think are sexy. She's a woman, she knows how it's like to be a girl. :)

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Mastabation helps reduce sexual urge in men. Is it likely to affect a man when practicing sex latter, interms of releasing fast hence inability to satisfy the sexual urge of the patner by achieving orgasm before the lady does the same?

Can it have an impact on the quality and quantity of sperms released by the man during sex with a partner?

I am aged 25years

Masturbation does effect sex. If my boyfriend masturbates once during the day it is so hard to get him to stay hard the second time when we want to have sex. So if you do masturbate it will take longer to cum again. I don't know about the quality and the quantity of sperm released though, but It all depends on the man.

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