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unexperienced.... plz help!!
so im a sophmore in highschool and have never done anything at all risky. i never had a oy friends pr hooked up or got drunk or anything. and im finding out that all of my friends have and it makes me really sad. i hate feeling left out and unexperienced. what do i do?
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It sucks feeling left out, but honestly, you don't want to do things that you'll regret later just because your friends are all doing it. most of them will still respect you anyway if you're cool about it.
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You should be proud that you're like that. There is nothing wrong with any of that.
You shouldn't be drinking anyways until you're 21. And you shouldn't be hooking up with random guys. A boyfriend is okay at your age, but hooking up & drinking are not.
You should be proud of yourself though, not ashamed. Kids like you are a rare breed.
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well here's a thought, do you want to find yourself being called a hoe for doing things with other guys and hooking up all the time? i hope your answer is no. Just give it some time, you will find the right guy, and just because your friends are doing these things doesn't mean it's right for you to be doing these things too. I know how it feels when it seems like everyone is out partying and getting drunk and you seem like your the "goody 2shoes". Yes, it's tough, but in the end you're going to be the one making smarter decisions & being with the better future. You're a sophmore, there's so much time in the future to go clubbing & drinking without having to worry about parents and everything else. But if you really can't wait to grow up, ask your friends when the next party is, and go with them. & for the boyfriend situation, a time will come for that too. The fastest way to get a boyfriend would be to start talking to some guys & show them how fun you are. A lot of guys when they really want to go steady with a girl, have trouble finding one that is actually not a "hoe". Getting drunk and partying is not all there is in life. Remember; better be safe than sorry. Good luck tho. :)
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your on a much higher level than them.thats a good thing you havnt done anything risky.if you make the wrong choice it can ruin your life.i had to learn that the hard way.i hope you dont,so if you want a happy successful life dont risk it.
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