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This is way to confusing for me!


Question Posted Wednesday July 29 2009, 1:20 am

So there's this guy I was introduced to by one of my best friends,we had a thing for a while and then I brought him into my "group" of friends and after that he told me that he just wanted to be friends.
Me and my group of friends hangout with him all the time now,but they wouldn't know him if it weren't for me.
Lately,when we are together (me and the guy) he acts totally normal and like my good friend but then later on he will talk to all my friends via text,myspace,facebook,etc. and NOT ME anymore!
He used to like me as more than a friend but I find it weird how he's talking to everyone but me now!
We had a talk about how we were together all the time so maybe that had something to do with him stopping liking me,so is he just not talking to me to maybe kind of get space ? Or what's the deal here?


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pseudophun answered Wednesday July 29 2009, 5:09 pm:
This happens a lot. Usually it's because they had a thing going on with you. You now fall into the "almost ex" category, whether you're his friend or not... It sucks and it's stupid, but that's just how it tends to work.

If it really super bugs you, you can talk to him about it, but I recommend just letting it go. That's what just tends to happen. It sucks, I know... trust me, I know... This happens to me so often it's just stupid...

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iiLOvEyOux3 answered Wednesday July 29 2009, 12:45 pm:
I'm thinking it's because of that talk that he's not talking to you as much. Maybe you made it seem like you guys needed some space. You should try talking to him more via text, myspace, or facebook. Let him know that you are not bothered by him. If he still feels distant, then I would leave it alone, maybe he just connects more with your other friends. Remember now you don't want to be annoying or seem obsessive. Good luck though, I hope everything works out.

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