i've had sex like 7 times now and i dont feel any orgasms is that normal? when i hump something i feel really strong orgasms but when he goes up my you know i feel nothing but i want to feel it bad i want to moan for him and get into it like he does. because he feels it but i dont so its not enjoyable to me and i dont want to keep faking it.
orphans answered Thursday June 25 2009, 4:00 am: Spend some time discovering yourself. Masturbate.
I used to be a lot like you, sex didn't do anything for me, until I started to masturbate.
Try fantasizing. (EVERYONE does it)
I would also have him get you 'wet' before sex, and horny. Also consider that you just might not be ready for sex.
For some people it takes them a little longer to get into it.
Make sure you're comfortable with having sex, before you do it.
So, play with your hood/clit, before hand.
Stay in one consistant position until you can find your spot. (Missionary is the best for the first few times.)
When you find what works for you, stick with it till you realize what makes you tick, then think about switching positions. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
LadyDragon answered Thursday June 25 2009, 3:17 am: Rub your clit, sometimes you just have to please yourself. And Don't worry he probably won't mind at all, most guys love to see a girl touch themself.
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