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14/f

I was watching the Tyra Banks show today and its about Teen Sex. They talked about something called Flyer parties but Ive never heard of that ever..what is it?

yeah basically it's flyers that are handed around for anyone to go to. soo you don't need an invitation & you don't even need to know the person to go. complete strangers can go to them. its so everyone who goes can meet new people & stuff.

-hope that helped!♥

im 13/f and every1 say im kinda skinny but what they dont know is that my stomache is a little pudgy. i wanna know how to get it flatter without like losing weight but if u guys have any idea how to get my stomache flatter tell me

ab exercises!! they'll help you build muscle in your stomach rather than fat. here's a website-

http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/
abexercises.htm
(type that in the search bar
with no spaces)

there's helpful pictures for
each exercise.

-hope that helped!♥

I have curly hair a little below my shoulders and I really want it to be straight. With the straightener I have right now it takes me about two hours to straighten my hair after I shower, so it's starting to prevent my from showering as much. What kinds of good cermanic hair straighteners/products are there? I did some research on an Oblivie Hair Straightening System, does anyone know anything about that?

i'm not quite sure about the oblivie, but my hair is extremely curly & i use the Revlon ceramic straightner. it takes me about 20 mins, sometimes 10. here's a website-

http://www.nextag.com/Helen-of-Troy-2-63997970/prices-html

also, if you have frizz, you can use John Frieda's hair serum. it helps with curls at the ends & it takes a lot less time to straighten your hair.

-hope that helped!♥

any tips on how to get a smaller waist??? thanks in advance :)

i do reverse crunches. they're working pretty good for me. here's how ya do em-

lay flat on any surface. i usually use my bed because the ground is hard but you can try that if ya want. put your legs straight up in the air while you're laying on your back. then do regular crunches & make sure your shoulder blades are off the floor before you do another. if it hurts in any way, then try regular crunches.

-hope that helped!♥

hi do u think its wierd that if call my gf princess? she's the best & i never call her that in a mean way. u think she'll find it cute er no? thanx

definately not weird. very cute =)

-hope that helped!♥

My BFFL and I have been BFFL for almost 2years now. We NEVER fight which is great, so there hasn't been any problems w/ fighting but Now there is. She has another BFFL.First, we hated each other then we liked each other and now he has a g/f that he LOVES & she loves him and now we extrememly dislike each other, again. I'm at my dad's now for two weeks and I try to talk to her but shes always "busy" or with him, so she says she can't call & he's even before me on her myspace! I'm losing her! =[ HELP

you should juss talk to her about it. that's all you can really do. if she doesn't say much, pushes it side, er doesn't pay much attention to it, give her some time. if she appreciates your friendship & wants to be your friend, she'll talk to you about it. juss because she has another friend doesn't mean you're being replaced by him. give it some time & tell her how you feel. you can have more friends too. eventually she'll see that you guys have been friends way longer & maybe she'll decide not to be friends with him.

-hope that helped!♥

which is better an Ipod or an Mp3 player and y?

in my opinion, i think ipods are. they're a bit more expensive, but they're easier to add/delete music, battery lasts longer, holds more songs, etc.

-hope that helped!♥

This past weekend me and my boyfriend had gotten really close to sex or we did.. depending how you look at it. I don't know if he popped my cherry or not. We got to the point of having sex to where he put it in that it hurt me, and Then he just pulled out. I've been getting a few random spots of blood. (3 days after) Its not red red like a period. Plus i just got over my period like 2 days before this all happaned. So I don't think its that. He had fingered me about 8 months before this and I thought he had popped my cherry that way. I also then got a few spots. My question is .. what do you think this is? Is it possible that he didn't completely pop it the first time, and that he just popped it for real this time or even more so?

I just need to know what happaned. Please

hmm sorry to say, but it could be anything. it could be your cherry, but if you said you bled before that, then i doubt it. it doesn't pop twice. if you had your period before this happened, it could have been left over from before. that's definately common, because you were pretty close to sex so yeah. its either left over er he possibly could've hit something else if that makes sense. i know from exercising i randomly bleed. not saying it's the same thing, but it could've juss been that. i wouldn't worry about it too much. if you get it again & it's heavier, you might want to go to your gyno & see what it is.

-hope that helped!♥

My little sister had a stomach virus.. which was given to me. So I ended up puking about 6 or 7 times last night. My ribs are showing and my stomach hurts. And so I kinda look anorexic. I feel really empty. So if my period stops.. is that bad? I've had it for about 4 years..so it's not irregular and it lasts the whole week. I'm on the 4th day and it's so light.. when I'm usually heavy. Is that bad?

you should get checked out by your doctor. the reason why your period stopped, was because you don't have enough in you, so it's not going to take that blood out. sorry to sound gross. i remember a month ago er so, i was exercising a lot for basketball & i was only eating 2 meals a day & barely any snacks, & i bleed randomly. eating & exercising can really mess up your period. it's not bad though. as soon as you start eating regularly & get nutrition in your system, it'll probably go back to normal. it wouldn't be a bad idea to get it checked out.

-hope that helped!♥

Hey I have chicken legs!!! =P
Well yea and I want to know if there is anyway to make them fatter without making my tummy fatter. I lub the rest of my body except my legs. And I really dont want muscular legs, i want to have a little fat around them before any muscle. =/

hmm..you can't make yourself gain weight in your legs. why?? because you can't decide where the fat goes. the only thing you can do is add muscle. juss because you work out, doesn't mean it will make your legs totally muscular. it will juss make them not look like bone. if you do want to try that, you can google it.

-hope that helped!♥

i've been feeling dizzy, constapted,headache, cramps/stomace ache, and mostly the chills. for about a few days now. i jsut had my period in october and i think im due for my period aby week. Are theese some pms signs or someithng else.
Thanks =)

some of those symptoms are for pms, but some aren't. i think you might have a mix of symptoms & a cold. go to your family doctor. that will be the best thing for you to do.

-hope that helped!♥

Well since it is summer, I want a complete makeover for the next school year. I want to lose some weight in my stomach & legs.. Also I want to get my hair done, my hair is very curly & frissy.. & if i put my hair up its just so frissy & is there any good products out for that? thanks in advance.

there's definately some good products. try either-

frizzease or bed head by john frieda

they are somewhat expensive but they really work. also if you get a ceramic hair straightner it will probably help with frizz.

-hope that helped!♥

13/f
hi! Ok. here's my problem. see there is this guy and he likes me. And like I'll see him in school and we'll hug and then chat for like 10 seconds but that's all we really get to see each other. The summer is here now, and he keeps asking me if I want to hang out with him. But, see, I don't really know what his definition of hanging out is. Like, I don't know if he wants to come over or he wants me to go over his house you know? And I'm sorry, I just don't want to go to his house. And he wants to hang out just with each other but I'd rather have a lot of people. But that's another problem because he isn't really friends with my friends. I keep making up excuses and I feel really bad!! I don't know what to do!

P.S.- The guy is kind of cute, but like only sort of. He is also really REALLY short. :/

if you want to hang out with him, try suggesting things in a group. tell him you're going to the movies/shopping/rest. with your friends & you wondered if he wanted to come along & bring his er something. he'll probably understand that. if he asks you to come over, you can either straight out tell him you aren't totally comfortable with that yet, er say that your parents don't really approve. soo yeah, next time you & your friends do something, invite him. once you guys hang out more, you'll become more comfortable with each other & want to do things alone.

-hope that helped!♥

So one of my friends and I have everynight been exercising and trying to eat healthy.
And its finally starting to show in our abs, that we've been doing crunches and ab workouts.
My other friend whos not exactly in shape, always tells us negative things abotu what were doing, its like she acts like she doesnt want us to lose weight?

I think she might be jealous, but still, she can exercise and stuff too right?

What do you think is going on?

hmm it could be that. don't listen to her though. maybe she juss feels left out because you guys are losing weight together & she's not. try inviting her over so you guys can do exercises together er something. if not, talk to her about it & juss leave it go from there.

-hope that helped!♥

Hi My name Is Beautifulll and im 13 and i lost my virginity to a 17 yr old thats bout to be 18 and i liked it and i wanna do it again wit a different boy I dont wanna it to seem like Im easy wat should I do?

well, i guess that's up to you really, but you're going to seem easy either way. probably because you're only 13 years old. i'm not saying this to insult you, but most people are going to judge you. i think you should seriously wait to have sex again, even if you did it once already. pregnancy is a huge factor you probably don't want to get into & same with stds. it seems like you juss want to have sex, which shouldn't be the situation. before you make your decision, sit down & think about it. i doubt you want to be a mother at age 13 & i doubt you want to end up having stds & giving them to other guys. if you still want to have sex, i suggest going to a gyno first to make sure you didn't get anything from having sex before. use protection!! it's extremely important & if you still want to have sex, you should probably think about going on birth control. i totally disagree with what you want to do, but it's your decision. i'm juss giving you my imput. but anyways, get checked out at your gyno. before you make any other decisions.

if you have any other questions, here's a website-

www.coolnurse.com

-hope that helped!♥

Do you know any stores that sell clothes like american eagle? And also does american eagle sell swimsuits at thier store or do you have to buy them online?
=/ ?

there's a lot of stores like american eagle. here's a few examples-

hollister
abercrombie & fitch
old navy
the gap
aeropostale
pac sun
urban behavior
forever 21
bebe

if you want the stores website, you can google it. they do sell bathing suits at the store & online.

-hope that helped!♥

What kinds of things do you do in Girl Scouts and how old do you need to be to join?

girl scouts is basically community projects & activities. i did it for like 2 years. there's different levels you go through & i think you can be around age 5 to start. here's a website-

http://www.girlscouts.org/

that should explain any questions you might have about it.

-hope that helped!♥

Best first store/place to get a summer job, especially if pay is good?

i'd start off in a place you know well. don't jump for a big job & then decide not to like it. a lot of people start out as cashiers er waitresses. some people work at fast food places, pizza shops, rest., pharmacys, etc. maybe you want to work at a shop in the mall?? the pay for any starting job isn't great. if you start off working at a fast food place, depending where you live, the pay is pretty much not good at all, but if you work at a department store er a clothing store (which you have to be 16 for most jobs) you'll get a higher pay. you could work at your town pool if you have one. maybe work in the snack stand or lifeguard?? babysitting?? i think any of those would be good.

-hope that helped!♥

I got my period on thursday, it was heavy on thursday and friday. and medim on saturday. then, yesterday (sunday) i didn't have it at all except for a little late last night. Then today I had absolutly NONE of it and then at 9:45 pm I got some... and it was like medium. Is that normal? Does it mean I'm still on my period?

definately normal. all periods are different. idk if it's done er not. it kind've depends like you won't be able to tell. if you don't get it at all tomorrow than it probably finished. but yeah if you got it again then you're still on it.

-hope that helped!♥

It has recently come to my attention, that my cousin has been taking 5-10 tylenol a day. He has started acting really weird, and complains of his foot being numb. Is it possible that by taking 5-10 tylenol, he could be overdosing? If he is, what should i do?

yes! you aren't suppose to take that many at all you can have 2 for 4 hours & then after those 4 hours you can have another 2, but that's definately not every day. plus, taking 8 pills is overdosing. you should tell someone. even if he told you not to, because you're helping him. he can get really sick from it. definately tell someone. family? friends? etc etc. you should probably tell like tomorrow er something because it's not healthy for anyone to take that.

-hope that helped!♥

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