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Not about pregnancy..
This past weekend me and my boyfriend had gotten really close to sex or we did.. depending how you look at it. I don't know if he popped my cherry or not. We got to the point of having sex to where he put it in that it hurt me, and Then he just pulled out. I've been getting a few random spots of blood. (3 days after) Its not red red like a period. Plus i just got over my period like 2 days before this all happaned. So I don't think its that. He had fingered me about 8 months before this and I thought he had popped my cherry that way. I also then got a few spots. My question is .. what do you think this is? Is it possible that he didn't completely pop it the first time, and that he just popped it for real this time or even more so?
I just need to know what happaned. Please
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well it is possible that he did pop your cherry when he fingered you but that was 8 months ago. your hole usually closes up almost to its orignal size after a while from the first time doing something like that so when yall "had sex" it was back to a small size and he strtched it out more and that causes it to bleed and even if you are sexually active, most girls bleed the first 3 or 4 times they do it. it all depends on your size and the guys size.
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your cherry does not literally pop. Your hymen is a thin bit of skin, that already has a small opening in it. When you are fingered, have sex, insert a tampon, you do not break it for good, it stretches open. It's likely that the spotting you're experiencing is from your hymen being stretched more.
There could also be a chance that this is still from your period. Some girls spot a few days after their actual period, and the blood can be brownish as it is 'older'.
However, if the spotting continues make sure you have it checked out by a doctor, as it shouldn't last very long.
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hmm sorry to say, but it could be anything. it could be your cherry, but if you said you bled before that, then i doubt it. it doesn't pop twice. if you had your period before this happened, it could have been left over from before. that's definately common, because you were pretty close to sex so yeah. its either left over er he possibly could've hit something else if that makes sense. i know from exercising i randomly bleed. not saying it's the same thing, but it could've juss been that. i wouldn't worry about it too much. if you get it again & it's heavier, you might want to go to your gyno & see what it is.
-hope that helped!♥
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