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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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what is the difference between being christian and catholic?

i can tell you that. i am a cathlic and i had this same question be4 btu i never asked it here. but here it goes. Cathlics honor and pray to Mary and christians dont. they believe that Mary is the mother of Jesus but the dont honor her like like Cathlica do. that is basically the only difference between them. well the only difference i noe. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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If you always say love u to your bf when he is signing off n he says it back its all good. what does it mean when u've said it twice that day and he hasn't said it back. but he was leaving cause he had 20mins to get a shower n eat before a bball game that he said i didnt have to go to (its 45mins away) but he still gave me directions. am i just over reacting cause he didnt say 3 words?

you really shouldnt worry. he might just busy or in a hurry and couldnt say it back. if you feel that he has been acti a lil werid try talkin to him abotu it otherwise just drop it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

a true friend is someone who will back you up no matter what happens in your life. 4 example i was going through a lot in one point in my life and like everyone was turning there backs on me and i had thet ONE friend that i didnt think was the best of my friends stick with me and helped me get through all of it. i dont if i helped you out but i hope i did.
*~Stephanie~*

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Who is mike jones? and why does everyone say their him?

mikes jones is a rapper. out of my opinon i hate him his voice is annoyin as hell. they say because they think it is funny and that what he says in his songs. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

you should tell someone! he doesnt have the right to even touch you anywhere on your body.. tell someone older then you that you trust. as in an adult, teacher, or your parents. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help...

awww..i think if he is flirting with you and tryin to hold your hand and so on then i think you should give another chance. people can change you or maybe he relized that he likes you 2. guys can be werid on how the show there feeling towards girls. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx

well i am kinda in the same problem as you with my parents dont approve of bfs, but i still do it anyways...lol.. i wouldnt tell my parents if they disapprove of it.. if he calls you and your parents ask you about him then i would just tell them that he is a friends that you liek talking too... that is what i do and it works all the time..hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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One of my friends is like best friends with the guy that i like & he said that he liked me &so when i asked him it took him about 2 min. to answers my question and his aswer was "ahhh no mmm i uhh dont know why he ahhh would have mm ahh told you that because i don't like you" so does that mean he likes me or doesnt like me?

well he might like you or he might not. i mean he might have liked you at one point and then maybe now he lost interested you noe? what you should do is try being like good/close friends with him. dotn try rushing things just get to know him more and then he might get interested in you again.. hope this answers your question and helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok..theres this guy i like named anthony and he is goin into 9th grade and im goin to 8 ((hes gonna be in a diff school whichs sucks)) and he says im cute and he likes me alittle but since he got left back hes 15 and im 13 so he said it would be weird and im like ok but can we be friends and hes like yea so the year ended and the last day of school the 8th graders had a bbq so i didnt see him to get his sn or # turns out he didnt have and sn and i got his # from a friend of his but its not the right # anymore!!
i really miss him i mean like i no how gay this sounds but i really love him!! what should i do ? should i get over him?

try gettin the right number and if that doesnt work. then you should just move on i mean if you dont your just going to like soemthing that isnt there, you noe? hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me.

you should tell her how you feel. and that you are striaght(if you are ) and tell her dont want to have a realtionship like that with her. the sooner you tell her the fast she will stop likin you like that( hopefuly). hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im 16 and i got pregnant..i kno it sucks and i made a bad choice but see the thing is my bf doesnt know yet and hes the one who got me pregnant too...Im afraid to tell him and stuff because i know he will like just freak out and leave me...but idk what ot do...can you help??
thanks

you need to tell him about this. it will be hard but you have to. sit him down and tell him striaght up and think of what you guys are going to do with the baby. you need to tell him. do your parents noe? you dont have to tell them if you are plannin to have an abortion but you should tell them if you decide to keep the baby. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do i add a picture to my collumn every time i try to add a pic it says its bigger than 15kb or whatever and all mine are like 200! how do i make my pics smaller so they can go on my collumn

go to tinypic.com and find your picture and then upload it and it will automaticly resize the picture... you dont even have to make an account or anything. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does shaving your legs make your skin rough and make the hair grow darker? I've been using many other products like exfoliators that don't work, and my parents refuse to buy me a hair removal cream because of the excess of chemicals. I want to shave my legs, but I don't want the hair to be coarse and dark. Is this a myth? Should I shave? My hair is already really dark, because I have black hair...

try waxing it. then it wouldnt be so bad and u wont have to do it often just once ever other week. but anyways yes it does grow fatser and thicker and darker.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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This is kind of embarrassing, but I'm concerned that I'm not normal. What is the usual number of bowel movements a person should have per week?
Ag, Thank you!

i think like once a day. but your not alone i have the same problem . so like 7 times.lol..
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, there are alot of gals who wear their shorts with holes in them. And they do not wear grannie pannies. They wear thongs. So it is gross seeing their butt. Do you think I should just go up and say " Hey I can see your butt cheek" or what?

i dont understand y this worries you so much but if i where u i would ignore it. i mean we live in America and we can wear and act the way we want you know.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a big nose how to i make it smaller with out makeup or surgery I RATE HIGH

there isnt a way to do that without surgary. sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does it bother anyone else when the members of this site give smartass answers, like "Well that sucks", "Your dumb", "I have no idea". This website keeps getting more and more of these users and personally it bugs me. Anyone else agree?

it bother the shit out of me.. but like usual we cant really do anything about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online??

well it all depends. i can go if you wamt but you should never go alone. take a friend or someone you trust with you. it doesnt matter how much you talk to the guy because he can still be something he isnt you noe? i would tell you not to do it but if you want to you can just be careful.
*~Stephanei~*

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okay so theres this guy that goes to a different school. hes best friends with a lot of my close girl friends but ive only met him about 4 times. i talk to him online all the time and just recently he started liking me. he asked me to go ice skating with him and i accepted. now i'm scared of rushing things too fast and i always have. i'm scared to hold a guys hand and i dont know what to do if he tries to kiss me. please help! I am a 13 year old female!

you should do whatever you feel comfrontable with. dont do anything you dont want to do. if you like the guy then dont be so worried about it. i mean your going to have to hold a guys and or a kiss a guy sooner or later. right? hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year?

nope, i dont think you can unless you dettermine like you start gettin headaches a couple days be4 or w.e but you cant dettermine it buy like a month be4 it happens. i have had mine 4 2 years now and is still cant figure out when it is supposed to come...lol.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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