ok im 16 and i got pregnant..i kno it sucks and i made a bad choice but see the thing is my bf doesnt know yet and hes the one who got me pregnant too...Im afraid to tell him and stuff because i know he will like just freak out and leave me...but idk what ot do...can you help??
thanks
MummuM answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:20 pm: Hun, you have to tell him that you're pregnant. You can't hide this from him forever; he does have say in this since he did help make this baby, it takes two to tango. I know it's hard because you're at such a young age, but you have to tell him. Make the right choice! I'm sure he's going to be a little scared and mad at first. But seriously, who wouldn't? He is the babies father though and he does have to know. Since he is the father he should help you out and be there for you and the baby. You just need to have a nice long calm talk with him and see what you're going to do about this problem; if you're going to keep the baby, give it up for adoption or have an abortion. So, Good luck and I wish you all the best.
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xOchErrytWistOx answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:15 pm: Sweetie, you cant hide this from him forever. Unless you plan on not keeping the baby. You should just sit him down and tell him. It was both of your decisions not to use birth control, now you both have to deal with the consequences. He helped make that baby, you couldn't have done it on your own. If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
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