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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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Hey . Okay heres the deal, I really like someone and its like he doesnt care. He never calls me i always call him, he deltes all my comments, and is afraid to admit hes going out with me. I dont know what to do . I really like him but i dont know how he feels about me. Im really scared. Im 14 and hes 15 if that helps. Thanks

i would break up with him.. he is a jerk and you dont need him.. i mean what is a point of going otu wit a guy that doesnt care or even like you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you do the heart thingy on like myspace??
thanks dawg

& hearts ; ♥ like that.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =(

i think you should talk to your boyfriend about this. tell him how you feel. tell him how you feel and that this doesnt mean as much as your boyfriend does to you.. i understand where he is coming from i mean what if he told you he was hanging out with some girls that you hate and then like a couple days later he tells you that he likes one of them.you would get mad at him. wouldnt you? but you guys should talk thinks out and if things dont work out take a break and clear your mind. alright. hope this helsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm 15/f. Last year I really liked this guy, but we rarely talked and stuff. In like April I stopped liking him. Well, now I think like him again. It's summer now and I haven't seen him since the end of May. I'm going to see him again in a few weeks. I want to be able to talk with him, but I don't want to freak him out or anything. What should I do?

just relax calm down, be urself dotn try so hard either.. if you want to be in a realtionship with this guy (after ur bf)then i suggest try being friends with him and get to know him better. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay this may sounds dumb, but is it okay to have sex if your in the water.. like a hot tub? i wasnt sure if it was alright because of the water going into your vagina ... sorry if this sounds stupid but i really want to know! thank you. will rate!

you can have sex in water. i dont think it willl ahrm you sicne you are made of 75 precent water anyways. but it might be a lil harder to do.
*~Stephanie~*

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okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision

i would think about why she is mad at you and why she doesnt like the guy. i remember once i was mad at my best friend because i thought she was making a big mistake by going out wit a guy that i knew really didnt care about she didnt listen to me and in the end i was right the guy never liked her he was going out with her because his friend payed him 50 dollars. you need to think about this. think is this guy worth more then your friendship? do you trust this guy more then your friend? i dont know which you should choice beacuase you shoul;d fallow your heart and do whatever you think is right. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a few questions about getting your belly button pierced.
1. About how much does it cost?
2. How long do you have to leave it in before you can take it out?
3. How long can you leave it out before it closes?

thanks and ill rate you!

1. it cost 50 dollars (average)
2. 6 months
3) it depends on how long you have had it made.
*~Stephanie~*

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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher

you sound depressed. he is ur boyfriend call him back.. he might just be busy or has 4gotten to call you back. pick up the phone and call him and tell him how you feel.. dont be scared if he loves you he will understand where your coming from. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I RATE HIGH!!!!


Ok well I'm 13 and now that its summer I havent seen my boyfriend much. Were pretty close but I dont think his parents know were goin out and I would feel weird callin him. I'm kinda shy. And I dont go to his house so dont even tell me that. I really miss him this summer I havent seen him since like June 13 and my softball game a couple of weeks ago. Please help me I really miss him and I really want to see him more.

Yours truley,
missin him

have you tryed talking to someone that is a good friend of his? try talkin to them and finding out what is up with your boyfriend.. you could also ask the person to tell your boyfriend to call you.. if you dont know anybody then you calll. dont be scared. if your going to be scared then it isnt worth callin. hope this helps.
*~Stepahnie~*

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

do yourself a favor stop cutting yourself.. if you cant stop yourself then yes tell someone.. it isnt a good thing that you do this so stop..
*~Stephanie~*

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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?

yes he is a jerk! you did a good thing by ending the relationship with him instead of living a lie wit him pretending that he cared about you. dont worry about him you can do better. he isnt a great guy dont get sad and deppressed. he is the one missing out on you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do guys feel about dating girls younger than them ? i know this guy who seems to like me , but i want to know if i should flirt more . I'm 13 , and he's 15 (: thanks !

all guys are different. some guys like older girls some guys like younger girls. i think you should keep flirting and liking this guy. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, Im 14, turning 15 in March and ive had my period since i was 10. I was supposed to get my period last Tuesday and it hasnt come yet, but I have had discharge since then. Why is it delaying so bad? I havent had sex, but is there another way i couldve gotten pregnant?

you cant get pregnant. there is no way. so calm down and relax your preiod is just late. it might be beacuse you have been stressing out a lot. just relax it will come soon. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does imao stand for?

it is LMAO and it stands for Laugh My Ass Off.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks!

what do you mean by safe? as in how much of a chance you can get pregnant. i think like 60% chance that you wont. but i am not sure.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have this friend thats my neighbor and ive known him all my life pretty much and like we used to be unseparable ((spelling)) and now like since i got a little older and he got more into his baseball and paintball its like were fading apart and i just dont want that to happen because i would die for him if it came down to that and i juss REALLY dont wanna lose him cuz hes like the little brother i never had,,,does anyone have any suggestions on what i could do to help this friendship?!?

I rate HIGH if you can help!

what you should do is try being with him more often. try new playing the games he plays and just hang out with him more often..hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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k.. i really love this kid john, he loves me alot too. but hes going away for 2 nd a half weeks, he said he was gonna ask me out in augest the begniging (sp). should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i just TRY to get over him?

i rate high. =)

x.O.x. c.o.n.f.u.s.e.d x.O.x

if you love him strongly and care about him then yes you should wait 4 him.. other wise you should move on if you dont like him a lot...
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a new boyfriend. He used to be a good friend of my but we started to have feelings for eachother. I know this question may be a bit cliche` but things are awkward. It just so happens he's my first REAL boyfriend & I'm not used to what's going on. Tonight's our first day & I'm started to have second thoughts. I miss how things were when the two of us were friends but I'm afraid that if I end things, they'll never be the same.

~Violet // 13/f

well if you where friends with him at first it might be a lil werid but if you liek him a lot then dont worry about it just let it take time. like a week or too f things dont seem to get any better 4 you then tell him how you feel and maybe you guys can be friends wit benifites =). hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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do guys like it when girls make the first move or do they want to? also...when making out-do u like the girl to be on top or you to be in control?thanks babes...

it all depend i personally like it when the guy makes the first move but some guys like it when girls do. i think the guy should be on top.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm fighting w/ my guy friend from out of town. I'm going to visit in a few weeks to see all my other friends. But i really wanna see him too bc i'm not sure when i'll have the chance to see him again. But right now we aren't talking. Thats how bad this thing is...i totally screwed up, but he did too! he doesnt realize it tho. what should i do? should i talk to him? or write a letter to his house?

first off let the wond hill be4 tryin to do anything give it a couple of days(2-5) then try talking to him about it and tell him how you feel. if you dont give it time then he might nto come back to you.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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