Hey . Okay heres the deal, I really like someone and its like he doesnt care. He never calls me i always call him, he deltes all my comments, and is afraid to admit hes going out with me. I dont know what to do . I really like him but i dont know how he feels about me. Im really scared. Im 14 and hes 15 if that helps. Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SilentOne answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:21 am: I'm not quite sure about this question, because the answer can't be that simple.
Why do you like him?
Do you like the way he looks? Or acts?
I can't believe that you'd like him because he makes you feel special... Because how special can you feel when the guy ignores you?
My advice would be ever so slightly evil ^_^...
Wait for HIM to call you, and if he doesn't, ignore him back. It could be hard if you're absolutely crazy about him, but I think it will pay off in the end.
Before you blame me for anything, I'll explain how I expect it will work...
Either this guy likes you, and is just one of those retards who shows girls how much he loves them by pissing them off, or ignoring them... Or he doesn't like you at all, and he puts up with you chasing him because it makes him feel needed.
Either way, you will find out which he is, and then you can make your decisions. If he calls, have a talk to him about stuff, tell him what you think. Something might change, but don't bet on it. If he doesn't phone, and he just goes on like nothing ever happened, then you didn't get hurt, he probably never liked you, and you're not worse off, you really don't want to waste your time on a guy like that. He'll take a piece of your heart, add it to his trophy case, and never give anything back.
Hope things work out, but I wouldn't get your hopes up. Guys are scumbags, I should know I am one... (hmm, well maybe I'm not a scumbag... I try)
SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday July 11 2005, 2:01 am: i would break up with him.. he is a jerk and you dont need him.. i mean what is a point of going otu wit a guy that doesnt care or even like you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
advicekitten4 answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:00 am: Well I think you should be up front with him. Ask him in person how he really feels about you. If he is too scared to admit it than hes definately not worth it. He's 15 and obviously way to immature for you and is not ready to be commited to a relationship. Hope i helped...Beth =) [ advicekitten4's advice column | Ask advicekitten4 A Question ]
qotsa369 answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:53 am: I don't think hes afraid to admit hes going out with you, I think ya'll just aren't going out. And he dosen't like you. [ qotsa369's advice column | Ask qotsa369 A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:46 am: yall are going out, and he deletes your comments, and doesnt call you? thats pretty special. why dont you dump him, because you can do better. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
MFS answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:43 am: How can you possibly still say you like someone who does all those things? Does that seem to make any sense to you?
He won't talk to you, he won't acknowledge you, he simply doesn't care...
Love at any level, as I've said time and time again, is a two-way-street.
You seem to be giving... but getting nothing in return.
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