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My legs are really thin, but I have streach marks at the very top. Nobody can see them but me. But they still really bother me. And I told my mom, and asked her if I could get some cream stuff, and she said no. What should I do?

Stretch marks are a normal part of puberty for most girls and guys. When a person grows or gains weight really quickly (like during puberty), that person may get fine lines on the body called stretch marks. Stretch marks happen when the tissue under the skin is pulled by rapid growth or stretching. Although the skin is usually fairly elastic, when it's overstretched, the normal production of collagen (the major protein that makes up the connective tissue in your skin) is disrupted. As a result, scars called stretch marks may form.

find out more at this website -> http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/stretch_marks.html

& Don`t worry , it`s just a part of puberty , it`ll fade away! Good Luck! ♥

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ok well yu no me and i will tell yu who this is on the internet but anywho, back to the story i was at the movies with this guy that i like and we hooked up pretty much and the next day i went on myspace and told his best friend what had happend and i didnt want him to tell him that i told him and he was like well he told me that he didnt really like yu and thought yu were pretty ugly and after he was on the fone with yu and yu said yu loved him and he loved yu bakk that he was cracking up after it and i was like oh really?? and i promised this guy that i wouldnt tell his friend and i called the guy and we were talking about how we had an amazing night and stuff and i wasent sure if he was lying or not..so can yu give me some advise?
im a female and im 13

Okay , well to me it seems like his bestfriend is lying to you , because usually guys wouldn`t say " Well he told me that you were pretty ugly"< that means his bestfriend is pretty jealous because you and the guy hooked up because ovbiously he liked you too & The guy you hooked up with seems to be in love with you! :) Good Luck! I hope everything works out. & If the guys bestfriend says anything else to you about your "boyfriend" saying bad things about you , just tell his best friend to shut up & don`t listen to him! ♥

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my uncle just passed away a little over a month ago on his motorcycle at the age of 20. i need a really good song or poem about death. songs i already have are ..

carry on by tim mcgraw
time for me to fly by REO speedwagon
the dance by garth brooks
please remember me by tim mcgraw
slipped away by avril lavigne

i would really like some poems though.

thanks in advanced

Awe omg I`m so sorry about your uncle , my uncle died about 40 days ago .. he had cancer , i hope everything will be okay! well anyway you can go to this website http://smiley00.tripod.com/subject_death.html < theres alot of poems about loosing someone you loved I hope i helped! ♥ minela

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I have a real big problem thats interfering with my life. I guess i get attached easily. But its not even attached, its like i see someone and possibly talk to them, and then when i leave i miss them so much. I dont know why. i saw at a show today, and hardly talked to, a boy today and im sitting here and i feel so bad like i just broke up with someone, all just becuase i guess i MISS him?! I dont know whats wrong with me but i feel so sad all the time that i cant even make friends to talk to for a short amount of time without coming home and feeling so sad. What should i do? I dont even know poeple but i feel like i miss them so much!!!

It seems like you just love being around people , & when you meet some one new you miss them because you thought they were nice when you talked to them and maybe you wanted to chill with them or even if you didn`t talk to the person you just think they seem cool and then you start to miss them , i mean its nothing big you can`t make it go away. It will go away by its self! But when you have a boyfriend try not to get really attached to him // fall in love , because if he brakes up with you you`ll be really misserable , because you seem like you care about alot of people! hope i helped! & don`t worry! ♥ minela

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okay so long story short...I love this kid and he loves me but one of my best friends is in love with him too..but he's not in love with her i was just wondering if there was any songs that you guys knew about that reminded you of this but not rap songs or anything
thanks♥

" So sick of Love songs" By Neyo! even though he`s singing it to a girl it dosent matter , it`s a really good song for that! Hope i helped & I hope everything works out! ♥

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Well ok, so me and my bf are almost to our 3rd month anniversary right. He was in a different country for a month. But when he came back. We realized how much we have changed the past almost 2 months. I love him very much but we just changed a lot. He is one of those guys that get very jealous easily. When I'm with my guy friends he's always soo jealous. I told him he had nothing to worry about. I Love him not anyone else. Then right now we've been really into a lot of arguments and its really hard to be with him right now. He has a lot in his life and I do also. Its just really frustrating. My friends have told us that we just needed a break, but I don't think that will resolve anything. I think that way, we'll get farther apart. I don't want that. I don't know what to do right now. Its hard and painful for both of us. Please I know this is very ummm not clear but yeah. I just need some comment about this. Should I keep the relationship or just let him go?

Awwe! Well First of all you 2 shouldn`t brake up over this , what I mean is that he`s a guy that Loves you oh so much & he dosen`t like you being around other guys , he just wants you to himself. & It`s pretty normal to kind of change when 2 people who ar ein Love with eachother don`t see eachother for a month or two! I think you guys need to like han gout or call eachother over the phone and talk to eachother because braking up obviously won`t solve a thing but talking it out will! & if you think it seems like he dosen`t like you anymore , don`t brake up with him because it sure seems like he really cares about you & wants to be with you! Good Luck! I hope everything works out with you guys! ♥ ♥

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hey my sister is getting married and she wants me to be the matron of honor. i was wondering what does the matron of honor do and how am i suppost to look? im really nervous because i dont want to do something wrong and mess the wedding up soo please help me!!!

xoxo Lil D

I think you should talk to you`re sister , and ask her what you should do and what you should look like , because certain people want different things for their wedding & stuff like that! I hope i helped! Good luck & hearts;

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i have been chatting a girl for months and she gave indications that she is interested, she also talked me on phone, but i made a mistake that i started talking her everyday on the phone, and that made her a little bit angry. she told me not to call her anymore because of her family. We still chat on the net. But now she is like that if we talk everyday on the net she pretends that if she is not very much interested anymore, but if we dont talk for 3-4 days she starts complaining that why i dont come to the net etc.
the situation is somewhatlike that if i come towards her she runs away and if i dont come towards her she starts complain. That sucks,
NOW what i simply want is either to leave her completely or to make that relationship better.
but this situation is a puzzle for me,
1- what does she want?
2- what should i do, should i leave the situation as it is?
3- is this a natural problem with every woman?

Thanks

1-Yeah , she obviously likes you & she does want you calling her , but her family gets mad that you call all the time so maybe just call once in a while. & it seems like she does want a relationship with you.
2-get online & talk to her almost everyday & if she pretends like she isnt interested trust me she is , its just what girls do Lol.
3- yeah its pretty much just a natural woman thing!
Hope i helped! Good Luck! ♥

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if you are under the age of 14 and you have not had your period would it be bad for your body to use a tampon when you do get your period?

Well , first you should use a pad acouple times before you use a tampoon , so you feel more comftorable! Hope i helped! ♥

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hey !
if i run for about an hour a day for maybe 5 or 6 days [[yes-i do stretch and take precautions and make shure i am fully hydrated]] how long do you think until i will lose 5 pounds?

thank you!

You`ll probably loose it in 3 days but it depends what you eat , don`t eat fat foods after you run because then you`re weight obviously won`t change at all try eating fruits and salads and toher things like that , & don`t think any soda only water! Hope i helped! Good Luck! ♥

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i know this is long, i'm sorry.i just really need some help here.
okay well my boyfriend told me that his best friend's mom was hitting on his dad all the time and it was really ticking his mom off so she decided she wanted a divorce. i promised i wouldn't tell anyone because he said that he would get in trouble if he did tell someone. i diddn't tell anyone.but then i had my two best friends sleepover and i only told my two best friends, (i'm gonna make up names for them so its easier to understand),amanda and ericka. but they already knew before i told them becuase my bofyriends little brother told them awhile ago. there was just the one detail about my boyfriend's bestfriend, john, who also happens to be amanda's boyfriend. but you see, everyone already knew about the divorce before i knew. and the night when amanda and ericka slept over amanda asked me if my boyfriend's parents were still getting divorced and i said i'm not sure, and even if i was sure, i prolly shouldn't say. and she said well we already know what happened and stuff.and i said oh, you know about john's mom and my boyfriend's dad and the divorce?she said mostly but alll i know is that johns mom keeps texting my boyfriends dad.and i said oh well thats kinda the reason of the divorce.and we were all talking and they felt bad for making me tell them.but it was only them that knew. and everyone else found out from his little brother and they are all blaming it on amanda for telling them and i know she wouldn't tell anyone and she didn't because she was with me ever since i told her and she didn't want to tell anyone because she didn't want to be the one to have to break the news to her boyfriend about his mom.and now its all these kids nicole, nathan, cody, and michelle against me, ericka, and amanda. but the "funny" thing about all this is is that my boyfriend doesn't even know what were doing to keep everyone from finding out and he doesn't even know that anything is going on, the last he knew everyone was golly happy and bestfriends with everyone. now were enimies basicly. and the other funny thing is that nate, nicole,cody and michelle think its okay to go and blame everything on me and amanda for telling everyone when we never told anyone. i just don't know what to do. i want to tell my boyfriend everything i just said but a couple times before he broke up with me for little stupid things like we never saw eachother and i guess he said one was a missunderstanding and he regretted it and blah blah blah but i don't want him to break up wiht me because hes the best thing that has ever happened to me and i don't want to those that. i want to do something about this because i think all of this is my fault and amanda said that she would go with me when i tell him and she wants to take the blame for all of this but like i want her to because then he wouldn't be mad at me but i cna't let her do that because shes my best friend and i just wouldn't let her do that for me because it would be really awkward, ya know? please, give me some advice on what to do

Wow thats really long & confusing but i get what your saying! Lol. Okay well first of all it`s really nto you`re fault because alot of people already knew about it! But I think you should go and tell you`re boyfriend the truth & don`t let you`re best friend take the blame , because thats just not right , you`re boyfriend needs to know the truth with what happend & i don`t think he will brake up with you over this because you didn`t do anything bad , but if he does brake up with you over this than maybe he`s just not worth it. Hope i helped && Goood Luck you`re gonna need it! ♥

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I really dread my grandparents dying. Practically every other night i cry myself to sleep because i am afraid that we will get a call the next morning saying one of my grandparents is gone. (grandparents on my mom's side the most) I see them every week, i have been seeing them a lot recently, and we are very close. I try to think about the happy times, and have fun while i am with them. I still can't keep the thoughts out of my head. Is this ok, just a girl that doesn't want to lose someone she really loves, or should i try and not be so close? i really don't want to pull apart from them. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

That`s really sweet that you love your grandparents so much and you`re scared that their going to die , but look you know everyone dies eventually & it`s just something that happens you cant just make it not happen. I think you shouldn`t pull apart from them , because if you did and they died you would feel bad that you didn`t spend enough time with them.You should just stop thinking about them dying and try to have fun with them because like i said everyone will die one day , and its something that will happen to everyone , so just try not to think about it and try to spend as much time as you can with them! Good Luck! ♥ ♥

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Ok. Well i liked this boy and he was giving of signs that he liked me to the problem is that when i asked him out he had to say no because he felt he wasnt ready to date. I got really depressed and now i feel empty. My friends are telling me that i could do better but i feel like hes the only one. Whats my problem? HELP PLEASE!!!

Wow , well i think he might like you , but he`s just nervouse to have a girlfriend and he feels like he`s not ready for that yet. Maybe you can just wait for a month or 2 and then ask him out again & if he says he`s not ready for a girlfriend yet again then you should just move on and find a new guy (( therez plenty of other guy`s out there , it might not seem like it now but there is trust me )) & then maybe when he`s ready to have a girlfriend he`ll come back and ask you out & then it`s all up to you! Hope i helped! Good Luck!&& don`t worry it`ll all work out! ♥

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Ok I'm a 14/f. I'm getting ready to go to high school with my boyfriend. I'm a cheerleader and hes a football player. Well, at my school cheerleaders and football players aren't allowed to date! What should I do?

Awe , well if you think you 2 have a really close & long lasting relationship going then you should maybe talk to him and think over it and maybe he can quit football & you can quit cheerleading .But if you think the relationship is less important than cheerleading , then i guess you could talk to him and brake up! Or you guys can just not tell anyone that you`re going out! It`s really all just up to you! Good Luck! ♥

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Ok so I've been dating this guy, we'll call him "J", for 2 months now... and I love him a lot. When ever I see him or talk to him on the phone I get alittle happier. And when hes around I get butterflies in my stomache. But he's never calls me and he didn't even remember our 2 month anniversary. I go to a summer day camp monday thur thursday. At camp theres this guy, we'll call him "G", who likes me a lot and I mean a lot. He flirts with me a lot we are really close friends but I think I might like him as more then just a best friend. Every time I think of him I smile. And I see him way more then I do "J".

I need Help

13/f

awwe! that`s cute! well anyway if "J" never calls you and he didn`t remember your 2 month anniversary then id on`t think he truley cares about you. I think "G" is a way better choice because you know he likes you alot! & you like him too , & you get to see him way more then you get to see "J". I think you should give "G" a chance & forget about "J" because he dosen`t seem like he even cares about your guys`s relationship! Good Luck! && I hope I helped! ♥

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I am def. not fat...but i have fat sitting on my stomach that i have tried everything to get rid of. I have friends that have done cardio and have been successful but i have not. I do cardio. The thing i have the most trouble with is eating healthy. I always give in to fattening foods!!! Also, i dont find anything that is healthy to taste good. I was wondering if anyone else has the same problems and has advice about it?? I do really try to eat healthy and i will make it through a day...then give in. I hate looking in the mirror at my belly!!! Any tips wil be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!

Well , you should do curlups & work out daily ( it REALLY will help you alot )) & try to eat salads and atleast 2 fruits a day! hope i helped! Good Luck! ♥

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hey im 15/f so my period is really irregular like it will go a few months without showing up. so is this normal n could it affect me having kids?

It`s really normal , it happens to alot of teenagers , but sooner or later it will start going normal & no it cant affect you with having kids! Good Luck! ♥;

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okay well my friend is going through a rough time right now. her boyfriend just told her that he is gonna kill himself cause he wants to but he wont tell her why. he was starting to but then he just stoped typing ( it was on AIM ) the ages are 12. do you think he seriously could of meant it. cause he said he really wanted to cut himself also. & she is so worried about him because she loves him so much and she doenst want to loose him. any advice that i could tell her to do. that would be helpful thankks
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aww omgshh! that happend to me too but he wasn`t my boyfriend , he said he was going to kill himself too because i guess i was being mean to him ? but then he didn`t kill himself because obviously he didn`t have the guts to and it was over aim too. Well you deff. need to tell your friend he isn`t going to kill himself he`s probably just saying that because he wants more attention from her/you or any other friends, and if he wanted to kill himself there has to be a reason and if there was a reason wouldn`t he tell his gf? i don`t think he is going to seriously kill himself , but tell your friend to call him or go over to his house! i hope i helped , & i hope everything works out! Good Luck! xoxo

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week now. were always on the phone together for about 2 or 3 hours. and we always used to have something to talk about but lately nither of us can think of anything to say so we dont stay on the phone for long and i really love talking to him but i can never think of anything to say. we played 20 questions alot so we know almost everything about eachother. we dont get to see eachotehr much cus we live about 45 mins away from eachotehr but this tuesday hes coming to see me (its the only day he can come) and i have no way to go to see him. but what is something that we could talk about or what are some conversation starters?
i will rate and comment
thanks

aww! well the reason you 2 don`t have anythign to talk about that much anymore is probably because you 2 are always on the phone and you 2 know so much about eachother , and now you don`t know what to talk about ( it`s nothing big ) some conversation starters - well you could ask him about what`s his favorite movie , whats his favorite sports , where he likes to hang out on weekends & stuff like that you guys will probably have tonz of stuff to talk about when you see eachother! Hope i helped! Good Luck! xo!

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i have a question.....im thirteen and im 4'9 and im 115 pounds and im a woman.....but i have streach marks on my legs.does that mean im gettin bigger than what im supposed to be at my age or does that mean im just gettin FAT and nedd to lose some weight????

XoXo...... bloody kisses
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morbid dreams

Many girls get stretch marks on their breasts, and both guys and girls get them on other areas of the body. This is because the skin can't always keep up with the growth happening beneath it. Stretch marks may start out pink or red and raised, but will eventually fade and be much less noticeable. Stretch marks are totally normal and aren't a medical concern.
->if you want to learn more about stretch marks/ or stuff similar like that visit this website
http://www.teenwire.com/ask/2003/as-20030107p495-breasts.php

if you want to loose weight you can do many things like run daily curl ups jumping jacks anything similar to that! Hope i helped! Good Luck! xo =]

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