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friends/boyfriends/family/divorce..
i know this is long, i'm sorry.i just really need some help here.
okay well my boyfriend told me that his best friend's mom was hitting on his dad all the time and it was really ticking his mom off so she decided she wanted a divorce. i promised i wouldn't tell anyone because he said that he would get in trouble if he did tell someone. i diddn't tell anyone.but then i had my two best friends sleepover and i only told my two best friends, (i'm gonna make up names for them so its easier to understand),amanda and ericka. but they already knew before i told them becuase my bofyriends little brother told them awhile ago. there was just the one detail about my boyfriend's bestfriend, john, who also happens to be amanda's boyfriend. but you see, everyone already knew about the divorce before i knew. and the night when amanda and ericka slept over amanda asked me if my boyfriend's parents were still getting divorced and i said i'm not sure, and even if i was sure, i prolly shouldn't say. and she said well we already know what happened and stuff.and i said oh, you know about john's mom and my boyfriend's dad and the divorce?she said mostly but alll i know is that johns mom keeps texting my boyfriends dad.and i said oh well thats kinda the reason of the divorce.and we were all talking and they felt bad for making me tell them.but it was only them that knew. and everyone else found out from his little brother and they are all blaming it on amanda for telling them and i know she wouldn't tell anyone and she didn't because she was with me ever since i told her and she didn't want to tell anyone because she didn't want to be the one to have to break the news to her boyfriend about his mom.and now its all these kids nicole, nathan, cody, and michelle against me, ericka, and amanda. but the "funny" thing about all this is is that my boyfriend doesn't even know what were doing to keep everyone from finding out and he doesn't even know that anything is going on, the last he knew everyone was golly happy and bestfriends with everyone. now were enimies basicly. and the other funny thing is that nate, nicole,cody and michelle think its okay to go and blame everything on me and amanda for telling everyone when we never told anyone. i just don't know what to do. i want to tell my boyfriend everything i just said but a couple times before he broke up with me for little stupid things like we never saw eachother and i guess he said one was a missunderstanding and he regretted it and blah blah blah but i don't want him to break up wiht me because hes the best thing that has ever happened to me and i don't want to those that. i want to do something about this because i think all of this is my fault and amanda said that she would go with me when i tell him and she wants to take the blame for all of this but like i want her to because then he wouldn't be mad at me but i cna't let her do that because shes my best friend and i just wouldn't let her do that for me because it would be really awkward, ya know? please, give me some advice on what to do
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Wow thats really long & confusing but i get what your saying! Lol. Okay well first of all it`s really nto you`re fault because alot of people already knew about it! But I think you should go and tell you`re boyfriend the truth & don`t let you`re best friend take the blame , because thats just not right , you`re boyfriend needs to know the truth with what happend & i don`t think he will brake up with you over this because you didn`t do anything bad , but if he does brake up with you over this than maybe he`s just not worth it. Hope i helped && Goood Luck you`re gonna need it! ♥
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