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what should i do about her
i have been chatting a girl for months and she gave indications that she is interested, she also talked me on phone, but i made a mistake that i started talking her everyday on the phone, and that made her a little bit angry. she told me not to call her anymore because of her family. We still chat on the net. But now she is like that if we talk everyday on the net she pretends that if she is not very much interested anymore, but if we dont talk for 3-4 days she starts complaining that why i dont come to the net etc.
the situation is somewhatlike that if i come towards her she runs away and if i dont come towards her she starts complain. That sucks,
NOW what i simply want is either to leave her completely or to make that relationship better.
but this situation is a puzzle for me,
1- what does she want?
2- what should i do, should i leave the situation as it is?
3- is this a natural problem with every woman?
Thanks
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well... being a women and everything... if i really do like a person then i wouldnt complain about talking to them everyday. but that could just be me... or maybe she has a boyfriend and she just dont want to tell you that because i have been in that kinda situation and they really suck.... then again she could just be scared of a real relationship... try to talk to her like every other day and see what happens then... and if it dont get any better at all then just try to leave her alone about it... dont try to push anything and just hope for the best and expect the worst... but a lil heads up on computer b/f's and g/f's (they dont usually work out the way you'd expect them to).
hope i helped!
Destiny
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1. She wants to leave you dangling. If you met her over the internet, most likely she's not that interested. She just wanted a little fun. And when you started calling her all the time, people started wondering who you are. Usually parents and friends don't want someone they're close to being friends with a potential internet predator. [i'm not saying you are, but are family could think that] You also need to keep in mind that she wanted you to stop calling her because she could have a boyfriend. I'm not saying she does, but still. You haven't even met her in person. At least you haven't said you had. Anyways, i'm pretyt sure she's not looking for a relationship, I think she's just looking for a cyber boyfriend. Which means she only wants to talk to you when it's convenient for her.
2. If you want to keep running back to her everytime she wants a little fun, then sure. Leave the situation as it is. However if you want an actual relationship, I would cut off all communication to this girl.
3. It's normal for girls to want to keep guys dangling, yes. But it's not healthy for the guys. It's not a problem in all girls, but it's not an abnormal thing. Some girls are just like that. There's a word for them also. Bitches.
Personally I would get out of the relationship. Internet relationships never go well, because you have no clue what the other is doing. Anyways, if you truely like this girl, try talking to her one last time. If she says she'll stop doing this, then keep up the relationship. But if you see the slightest bit of her trying to treat you like a dog on a leash [like she is now] then leave and don't go back.
You may take my advice, you may ignore my advice. You may think it sucks, you may think it's great. You may give me a 5, you may give me a 1. But either way around, this is what I think you should do. You asked, I answered.
Good Luck, dear.
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1-Yeah , she obviously likes you & she does want you calling her , but her family gets mad that you call all the time so maybe just call once in a while. & it seems like she does want a relationship with you.
2-get online & talk to her almost everyday & if she pretends like she isnt interested trust me she is , its just what girls do Lol.
3- yeah its pretty much just a natural woman thing!
Hope i helped! Good Luck! ♥
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