When I'm making out with my boyfriend, he always gets a boner. I'm like right on top of him so it really turns me on. Is this happening to him because I'm turning him on? I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know alot about this.
Thanks,
~*~Amy~*~
YES, you are turning him on/ getting him sexually excited. At this age, he really can't control them, but it does mean that he is super attracted to you. Hope I've Helped! ♥
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im 13 and i weigh 170 pounds i want to lose 38 pounds on my upper arms calves thighs stomach and but haw can i do this by summer?
Hey ♥ First off, thanks for messaging me- if you ever need anything just message me again! I don't think it's possible to lose 38 pounds by summer, and 170 isn't alot if you are tall, but I know what you mean. Tennis and Taebo work amazing. They tone your legs, tummy, and arms especially. Weighlifting, which is required in my school, works great for your upper arms also. We only lift with 2-4 lb weights, and we get somewhat of results. Cruches work great for your tummy too. Don't forget to try to eat healthy, not after 7:30 [food takes longer to process], and stay away from junk and unneeded snacks! Hope I've Helped! ♥
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can sum1 please tell me when a disposable razor needs to be disposed of? i've 13/f and i've never used a disposable razor before.. whats a way to check if its dull or how do you know when you should throw it out? thanks
Disposable razors need to be disposed when the razor is dull, as you've guessed. The razor is dull when its hard to shave the hair underneath your arms or your legs, or you have to constantly keep going over a spot to shave it completely and evenly. A disposable razor usually goes dull in a few uses, but it depends on how much hair is on your body, how thick it is, how hard you press on the razor, etc et, so I'd say three or four times, at the most. If you are on vacation, I'd reccomend bringing a disposable razor, and if it seems like its getting dull, check the gift shop out- they usually charge a dollar for one! If you have any more questions, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥
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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx!
Aloe Vera Gel - sold at like any local drugstore or supermarket - works amazing. It'll take away some of the redness and if there's any dryness, all of the dryness! It works amazing! It's not that much money either. Hope I've Helped- just message me if you need anything else ♥
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx
If you have any doubts whatsoever, don't do it. You are only 14 years old, and I'm a teenager too, but I'm older than you and I know that mentally at 14 I was not ready for it. Even if you think you love him, he might break up with you after he "has his fun". TRUE LOVE WAITS, so don't force yourself into this if you aren't totally 100% happy. And, if you're gonna do it anyway, I'd recommend protection. If you need anything, just message me. Hope I've Helped ♥
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I'm not FAT but i definitely need some help. I'm 5'4, i just gained like 15 lbs over spring break because of yummy food (130lbs), I wear size 3short jeans, I have d cups, my tummy is the biggest problem area (lower tummy) but also my legs, butt, and arms need work.. so basically everything! I need to loose 20lbs as quick as possible and I need to learn how to keep it off. I'm a sweet freak sometimes... which i know is bad. Do you know any work out I could do? Do you know a plan? like run 50000 miles every other day and on the off days go to the gym and use (you say which machines here) about 5 times. or SOMETHING! I need help and I cant afford a trainer. I also have dance team tryouts on the 20th. so I have to keep flexible but i hate yoga and pilates sooo dont suggest that please. THANK YOU (i'll rate!)
First off, you are NOT fat. That is a normal weight for someone your height, and loosing 20 lbs will not happen overnight and it's not very healthy for your height as well. BUT, I read in a magazine once that some celebrities LOVE sweets, so instead of having a big dinner, they have a slice of chocolate cake and they don't gain anything! A good idea is not eating after 7:30 because your body processes the foods way slower. Taebo [you can get a video of it for like $15-$20] is a great way to loose weight, accentuate your build, and have fun. Tennis is amazing for arms, tummy, and legs! If you need anything else, just message me, I know ALOT about health and stuff! Hope I've Helped ♥
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Hey!
I don't know where else to get some advice for this but I was just wondering what color of eyeshadow/eyeliner would look good with a light turquoise blue dress?
I have red hair, blue eyes & I'm somewhat fair-skinned.
Thanks so much!
I personally think that light blue eyeshadow with a dark blue or black eyeliner would look PERFECT with your dress and skintone! Hope I've Helped! ♥
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know...
Don't be embarrassed to ask ANYTHING! You really shouldn't feel a tampon at all, but if you do, I've heard that it does feel a bit like a guy doing that. A tampon can pop your cherry, but most everyday things can- from running, horseback riding, sitting, etc etc! Hope I've Helped-and if you need any more advice just message me! ♥
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I'm trying to log into myspace, but when i put in my Email and password the next page is an error.Is anyone else having this trouble?Trust me, I put the right information in and that's not the problem.How can I get myself logged in.I'm tired of waiting.
It's been doing that to me today too! I think they are working on the site, but it might help if you restarted your computer- it sometimes helps me when I can't login on there. Hope I've Helped! ♥
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I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down?
I think that an updo would look goregous! But if you want it styled down, loose curles would also look very pretty, so either way you can't go wrong, you'll look great! Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything else, just message me! ♥
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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?
I don't think there's a specific age. Some people find the one there supposed to be with at 16, and do it.. others find their special someone at age 30. It's more when you find the person that you truly LOVE and would do anything for, and when they feel the same about you. You shouldn't plan it, and you shouldn't feel that you have to loose it before a certain age, because that is not the case. Personally, I'm waiting until I'm married. Just make sure to yourself that before you do have sex, that if the relationship didn't work out you would be comfortable with knowing you gave him everything. Don't plan- let love happen on it's own! Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything just message me! ♥
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i want to act as a career but everyone doupts me my confidence is low what should i do
Don't listen to what everyone else says and you need to start believing that you can be a star. Tell yourself that you are the most beautiful person in the room, and believe it! Don't be shy- just focus on your dream of acting. Don't underestimate the talent and beauty inside of yourself, and seriously ignore the people who don't believe in you- the only person that you need to believe in you is YOURSELF, you CAN do it! If you need anything, just message me, I know some stuff about acting =]. Hope I've Helped! ♥
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?!
If your sister says no, and her friends say yes.. I'd believe your sister. Her friends might be jealous on her looks or if she's very skinny and doesn't eat alot. She might have a fast metabolism. Talk to your sister and observe her habits. If you see her not eating alot, throwing up, gagging herself, etc.. then tell someone like a parent, or try talking to her about her problem first, because it's not healthy and she could die from it. But before assuming, don't listen to her friends, find out the truth for yourself. If you need anything, just message me. Hope I've Helped ♥
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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate
Believe it or not, anti-dandruff shampoo so helps [Nexxus works the best!], or you might be putting too much conditioner on, like I once did. Try shampooing very throughly and rinsing it out completely, and try a LITTLE conditioner, not that much on the top of your head- it helped me! If you realize it and don't have a chance to shower, put a little baby powder in your hair- it absorbs the oils in your hair, or you can put a little in your brush- but make sure you shake it through your hair and don't put too much so people can see white, make sure you kinda rub it in a bit! If you need anything else, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥
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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/
Tell her that the only thing worse than taking a pregnancy test is waiting and not knowing. Tell her to go to the nearest Planned Parenthood- it is all confidential- they will talk to her about this and about the birth control topic, and she can take her pregnancy test there. Planned Parenthood will lead her in the right direction and should help her very much. As for the boyfriend, she really shouldn't let him know until she finds out - either way. She should let him know if she really isn't because it was still a pregnancy scare and that is a signal to be more careful. If she is pregnant, like I said, Planned Parenthood will help her in that direction too. Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything just message me! ♥
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OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens?
I'd first become his friend - see more what he's like and stuff. Then, I'd let time take it's course and see what happens! All GOOD and TRUE relationships are based on a GOOD friendship, so see what happens- you have nothing to loose! Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything, just message me! ♥
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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U
The discharge sometimes comes before you get your first period. Yes, the color is normal, although usually it is more like clear. Having discharge sometimes makes you feel like you have your period, but trust me, when you get your period, you just KNOW, yeah it sounds silly, but believe me, it's happened to me before. To ease the discomfort of the discharge, try wearing a thin pantyliner [super comfortable, you won't even know you're wearing it, I'd recommend Always Thin and Long with wings, kind of like a light pad or Always long pantiliners], and then if you do get your period one day, it will protect your pants for a bit until you can get to the bathroom. If you need anything else- just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥
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14/f
I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help.
I hate shaving too, but it's something that once it's done, I'm glad I did it. It might seem like alot of effort and stuff, but you get nice silky smooth legs. Try even doing them every 2-3 days, because the hair shouldn't be very very noticeable. Let's put it this way, if you can see little tiny stubs of hair, no one else really should. You could try the spray, I forget the company, it's not Nair though, I've tried it and hated it. Shaving in my book, is really truly the easiest way. Hope I've Helped! ♥
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Can anyone give me any tips on doing french manicrues at home with white nail polish?
Anything would be appreaciated like how to get it straight and stuff and anything else to do with french manicures.
I rate high if the advice is DECENT even if I don't use it if it's decent and not like a one word post then I rate high :)
You COULD try the toothpick method, but it never works.. SOOOO...There's kits out [maybe 5 or 8 dollars] that give you little stickers to help you, like by Sally Hansen, just check your local drugstore. It's really not that easy to do if you aren't patient. Maybe you and a friend can help each other together, it's probably easier! Hope I've Helped, and if you need anything just message me! ♥
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Hey! I got my teacher this awesome gift for the end of the year, and I want to make it from the whole class. I spent $25 on it, and I want everyone in te class to pay $1 to 'chip in'. Our teacher is rarely absent, and she never leaves the room. how can I distract her in order to get the $$$?
Try talking to classmates at lunch, tell them to spread the word to the rest of the class, and to see you after school or something! Or, pass a note around asking who'd like to chip in! If you need anything else, just message me! ♥
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