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I have recently found a cat and her three kittens living under my neighbors shed. Me and my friends have been feeding them cheese and tuna, but we are running low on that. So I was wondering what other things cats likes to eat other than tuna and meat, is there any type of bread they'll like or vegetable. Anything would work..Also the kittens do approach me but everytime I try to pet them they run away but the mother isnt afraid how do I get them to allow me to pet them?

Aww i love kittys! I had a kitty a while back and whenever I would eat olives she would always try to get them, so you could try cutting up some of those for em. Or depending how old they are, just plain milk would be fine if you can spare it.

When you try to pet them, hold your hand out to where your palm is facing upwards, that way they don't think you're trying to hurt them or anything. It works with dogs so I don't see why it wouldn't with kittys.

=] Evy

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My hair is really really frizzy It would be pretty straight if you minus all the frizz but magazines always have ideas for diffrent kinds of hair but not frizzy hair. Have any ideas on how i can style it without using an iron. or websites where i could get ideas. that would be great! thanks!

For a shampoo- Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine..

It's for "frizzy, dry, or unmanagable hair."

Or you could try blow drying your hair before bed. When you wake up try putting Terax Gloss (about $16) on your hair from roots to tips.


=] Evy

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Where can I get rubber flip flops that are cheap but really cute!

Target & Payless!

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OK so currently I have brown hair to my lower back (I'm east indian) with caramel streaks that I got two months ago so they're growing out. I just got my hair layered and got side bangs.
Now I want to change my hair colour and make it look very -in- without cutting my hair or making a -huge- change (i.e. dying the entire length one colour). I have a limited budget but I'm going to a salon.
But can someone give me some ideas on some very edgy long hair? What colour can I put on it and how do I style it after to make it look cool. I want it to look hip but not totally crazy.

I'm not really sure how your layers look, but you could get the top of it blonde, and let it go down to where the section of your first layers stop or where ever you want, then underneath get it a darker shade of brown or even black.

Or get all blonde and add black streaks but don't start them from the roots, make it where they kinda fade from the top and get darker at the bottom, or pink would look pretty hot too.

If you don't wanna go that far just keep the colors you have now, and maybe add a few blonde highlights or another shade of brown.


As far as style, i love straight hair but it does get a little boring. Try scrunching some of it and straightening your bangs and a few strands here n there. Just mix it up a little and experiment. Make up your own style!

=] Evy

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Hey iam 17 years old and iam a female and for some reason i've been really embarrased about my weight i've been telling myself that I eat to much and that iam fat.my friends and family keep telling me that my weight is fine,but I don't belive them I tell them they just say that becouse they are my friends and family and they have to say that to be nice.Iam 5 foot and 1 inch tall and I weight 149 lbs and I've also been skipping breakfast,lunch,and I eat supper,but I just eat a very small salad in order to lose weight my friends and family seem very worried about me and keep telling me that i'll make myself sick if I keep doing this to my body.I also walk for about a mile everyday after school and it's true i've been exsperincing headaches alot and my stomach has been feeling funny lately and i know this isn't normal could I be heading for anorexia if iam what should I do and who can i talk to to get medical help?

please help me.

Yeah, you should try talking to someone to help you get your self esteem back up. Talk to a counselour at school, or a therapist.

Did you know that it really doesn't help you to lose weight by skipping breakfast? Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It gets your metabolism going, and that's what you need to be healthy and to actually lose weight if that's what you're going for. Don't just skip meals, eat food that's high in protein and work out. Not eating that way for a long time can put your body in starvation mode and you can get very sick.

If you learn to love your body, then so will everyone else. Stop telling yourself you're fat and do something about it. Drink alot of water and eat alot of protein. Even if you don't eat alot at lunch and dinner that's fine. Eat half of what you normally would and maybe eat a couple snacks during the day, like fruit or something. Set a goal for yourself. Don't do it the hard way and hurt yourself.

=] Evy

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ok so school is starting, and im going shopping. and i was just wondering what you guy mmight suggest for the best makeup to buy, i am lookign for a very good mascara, foundation or a good blemish concealer, i am a bretty fair skin tone, and very little if any blemishes, so i would like to keep my skin that way by using make up that doenst damge my skin. any suggestions?

I've always used MAC, Almay, and Maybelline and they've always worked wonders for me. MAC's a little more expnsive, but you def get what you pay for.

=] Evy

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I babysit a 3 year old and she makes a lot of messes! After we complete one thing she is already on to another mess before I'm even done cleaning up the first one. Any ideas? Also if you have any fun games to do that wouldnt take long or wouldnt make a mess! that would be great! thanks!

Well if you get tired of cleaning up things in the house, try taking her outside for a while and let her play there.

I don't really remember any of them but try teaching her those little hand games, like patty cakes, etc. She probaby won't get it but it would entertain her for a few minutes.

Whenever you go to clean up, tell her you're gonna play follow the leader and she has to help do what you do. Then reward her and tell her she did a good job.

Just experiment with her and try new things. What works with one child might not work with another.

Good luck!

=] Evy

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I like this guy and he likes me back but we never have anything to talk about online. I'm sick of the usual how are u, wuts up, and hows ur summer going. There is nothing really we have in commom we dont like the same movies, music, he doesnt play sports and i do and we go to diffrent schools any ideas?

Find out things that he likes, then talk about them. Even if you don't like some of those things, it'll help you guys feel more comfortable and maybe it can give you more things to talk about.

Or try talking about cars if that's his thing, your families, tell stories about things in the past, talk about places you like to go.

Don't just TRYY to think of things to talk about because the harder you try, most likely the less you'll come up with. Just try and go with it.

=] Evy

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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?

If you let him know what your itensions are at the get go, which is not having sex, and make sure that you aren't leading him on by making him think he can get it whenever he wants like he might have with other girls, I don't think he will. Set boundries of what he can and can't do. Not all girls are alike, if he can't respect it, find a new boyfriend!

=] Evy

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i herd somewhere that if a guy does you from the back you cant get pregnet.is that true? and if it is does that meen your still a virgin. alot of people on adviceators say having sex is inserting the penis into the vagina so is it not considered sex if he inserts it in the back? thanx to all that answer!

I guess it depends how you look at it, to some people they might consider themselves a virgin and others wouldn't. You can't get pregnant from anal sex.

=] Evy

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iam in high school and iam not passing in history and my mom said if i dont pass in history than i be growded what should i do?

Work harder, do your homework. Talk to your teacher about tutorials or a possible way of getting extra help.

=] Evy

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Well....I come from Puerto rico and in Puerto rico there is a tradition when you turn 15....Well...I want to make a BIG and Huge Sweet 15 Celebration and I need lots of money to save.......So this is my question!!!!!

Umm How can I save money because I cant get a Job...So How Can I get Money and Save it!!!!!!


I dont get Allowance!!!

HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP!!!!!!!

If your parents won't give you money, try babysitting, walking dogs, cleaning other peoples houses, garage sell, bake sell. Save every penny you get, change adds up pretty fast too.

good luck!

=] Evy

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I really like this guy and he likes me back I have liked him for two years. He is into a lot of bad stuff but for some reason it doesnt bother me which is wierd because I am one of those "good never do anything wrong kind of girls" SO my friends are always lecuring me and telling me that if i do anything with him that I will loose some friends. I know that they shouldnt be my "true" friends because of that but what can I say to them ...and him to make them understand.

Actually they do sound like your true friends because they're trying to protect you. Why risk getting in trouble when you know it could happen? There's plenty of other people out there that won't get you into trouble. And normally when someone does alot of bad things it's for a bad reason, and it leads to even more bad things that can't be fixed.

=] Evy

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everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.

I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?

Masturbation is normal, don't feel guilty. Alot of people do it and it's healthy, as long as it doesn't interfere with your daily life. Don't worry about it and do it if you want to.

=] Evy

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For the past 2 years I have gotten really close with this guy who is A LOT older than me. He's 36 and Im 14/f But latley we've gotten really close. Like were dating? I don't know. its not like he's a pervert or anything. But I've i guess fallen in love with me. We're both musicians and we share an amazing passion together. I can stop it whenever I want to , but i can't. I guess you can't help who you fall in love with. The thing is that no one knows about it and hes married! So im really confused. but if i tell my mom or anyone there goes my lessons with him and band and everything ive worked for. and i love him. what should i do and is this okay that were together?

Do you ever watch the news? If you did I think you'd know that it's def not ok. Even if he's nice to you and acts like the best person in the world you never know what he might be capable of doing.

Do you know what a pedophile is? I think you should go to this site http://crime.about.com/od/sex/p/pedophile.htm and read it all. It might help you make up your mind about this guy.

Really, how can you say he's not a pervert when he's married, but shares a passion with a 14 year old? He sounds a little sick in the head, and I think you should stay away from him for your own good.

=] Evy

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what are some websites ex. myspace vainspace and stuff that you can acctually be thirteen to join besides xanga [ i already have one ]

www.mycrib.net (kinda like myspace)
www.myetalk.com
www.facebook.com
www.faceparty.com


=] Evy

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Right now I have long grown hair 3 inches below my shoulders with choppyish side bangs. They grew very long so I can put them behind my ear. I want a new hair cut. I love this girls hair and this is what it looks like.... http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/ashhh.jpg
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/ashh.jpg
http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/ash.jpg

I'm getting my hair just like her but I don't know how to explain it to the hair dresser. I'm deff. bringing in the pictures but how would I describe that girls hair. Like is it layers or bangs, I need details? I can't really tell how she got her hair cut I just think it's really pretty so if you could help me out that would be great.

This probably won't help you much, but if you just take the picture to whoever is doing your hair, they can probably get it almost like you want it without having to explain it. Watch he/she do it as they go and you can tell them anything else you want done. They've seen alot and know what to do.

Or you could try asking the girl that those pictures belong to if she's willing to tell.

=] Evy

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I wasnt really sure what catogory this was but this was closest. Im 15/m and have always gotten my hair cut real short. My sister and her friend say long hair on guys is better. What do most girls like best?

Different girls like different kinds. To me it depends how well the guy can carry the look. But for me, if it's long it can't be curly, if it is it looks kinda gross to me. I think im gonna have to go with short hair. Messy or not it can still look good either way.

=] Evy

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i am usually depressed & never happy ! im always crying & NEVER in a good mood . i think about suicide WAY to much . sometimes i think its my only option . help me please

It sounds kinda weird to say but I think this is almost pretty normal for everyone at somepoint in their life. Whenever you're down, just think about the good times and think about how what you're going through won't last forever. Keeping your mind off of it might be difficult, but you could try doing more things and stay around people alot. The more you're around people the less you'll probably feel like you should cry. If you can't handle it on your own, then go see a counselor or a therapist. They could help you more than anyone here..

=] Evy

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If a gurl is 17 in her boyfriend is in his 30s is it still rape! Dont answer if you are not sure!!

States vary between ages, some are 17 and some are 18. I know TX is 17, so you should type in where you live and look it up to find out for your state!

=] Evy

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