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Bad Boy
I really like this guy and he likes me back I have liked him for two years. He is into a lot of bad stuff but for some reason it doesnt bother me which is wierd because I am one of those "good never do anything wrong kind of girls" SO my friends are always lecuring me and telling me that if i do anything with him that I will loose some friends. I know that they shouldnt be my "true" friends because of that but what can I say to them ...and him to make them understand.
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if you really do love him it shouldnt really matter what your friends think. but if you dont agree with him doing the stuff he does you could try to get him to change if he really does love you he'll try to change.
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Bad boys are so exciting...well to good girls like us...they are the romantic ideal. Usually good girls have the secret hope that they can tame the bad boy, well just enough to suit us. The problem with the bad boys is that they exceed the tolerance level we have for their wicked ways eventually. Also, they become boring and predictable. By then, our values and reputations have been put at risk. Your friends probably mean well and think that they are saving you from the disaster you might be unwilling to foresee. Only you can decide what to do. If you do hang out with this or any other bad-boy then at least be cautious. Don't lose heart, but don't lose that pretty head, either!
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Actually they do sound like your true friends because they're trying to protect you. Why risk getting in trouble when you know it could happen? There's plenty of other people out there that won't get you into trouble. And normally when someone does alot of bad things it's for a bad reason, and it leads to even more bad things that can't be fixed.
=] Evy
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