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Abstinance..will I be pressured into sex?
I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?
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well, if your not sure you better not chance it.. and if he did pressure you into doing it and you didn't use protection then you could get preagnant. and a teenage pregnancey isn't the best thing on your agenda... so i would not chance it... because sex at 16 is not a good idea..
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If hes a good friend and really cares about who you are as a person and not that he's going to get laid the no he shouldnt pressure you. That is your choice and you shouldnt let anyone tell you other wise. Your virginity should be saved for someone who is very special and not just becuase you like someone it should mean more than that. If he really cares about you and your wishes then you have nothing to worry about, but dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do.
~Christina~
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If he's a very good friend then he shouldn't pressure you. He should understand that everybody is different and so feel ready to have sex at different times. If you feel you can, try and explain your anxieties with him, i'm sure he will understand and feel bad that he's made you feel like this in the first place.
However if he doesn't take into account waht you say and does pressure you to have sex, purely because he already had and he and his ex used to have sex then thats wrong. You're a different person to her and he should understand that. He's not worth it if he doesnt. No one sohuld feel pressured into having sex, it's supposed to be an act of mutual love and openess between people not just because one of you wants it.
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give him a chance. if he tries to pressure you into having sex then dump him. he's not worth it. stand your ground & don't give in. you'll be fine. [:
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if he really likes you than her probably wouldnt expect you to and would respect that you dont want to. but if he really tries presuring you he probably just in using you.
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If he truely loves you he will not pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. Thats all i have to say
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if he truely loves you, he will respect all of your decisions. if you dont want to have sex with him and he pessures you, dump him. but trust is escential in a relationship and he says he wont, so he might not.
i was a virgin when i started dating my boyfriend and he told me that he would not pressure me into sex. he didnt. i made the decision.
you just be yourself and stick up for your beliefs. dont let anyone force you into something you dont want to do.
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If you let him know what your itensions are at the get go, which is not having sex, and make sure that you aren't leading him on by making him think he can get it whenever he wants like he might have with other girls, I don't think he will. Set boundries of what he can and can't do. Not all girls are alike, if he can't respect it, find a new boyfriend!
=] Evy
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