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Hello, My name's Christina I am 17 and a senior in High School. I found this sight doing a search for advice columnists. Thats is what I would like to go to school for after i graduate high school. I love helping people and giving advice. If you have a question about anything just ask and I will be sure to answer and try my best to find the best solution to your crisis...

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Two of my best friends have been hanging out a lot over this summer because I've been away a little bit. However, one of the 2 friends (Holly) told me that the other friend (Jess) got wasted alot, and she has been sneaking out with this girl who is basically just bad news. I was really furious about this because everyone who hangs with this girl gets into big trouble. Me and Holly were really angry that Jess has been acting this way, but today I found out that Jess and Holly both got drunk last night and idk why, but i am really depressed about this. It seems like they are btoh changing, because we had always said we never needed drinks to have fun. Now I don't know what to do or say and I'm just really confused. Please give me some advice!

People change all the time and it sounds to me that they are being normal teenagers and experimenting with new things. I was one of those girls that got into trouble and everyone got mad at me for doing half the things i did. It's a faze and I think the best thing you can do is not to get mad at them or stop being their friend. They could have more then one good reason for this behavior, some people used drinking and rugs as an outlet or to get away from their problem. I think you should talk to them about it and be completly honest with them about your feelings. If they are truely your friends they wont get mad at you for voicing your consern.

~Christina*~

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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?

If hes a good friend and really cares about who you are as a person and not that he's going to get laid the no he shouldnt pressure you. That is your choice and you shouldnt let anyone tell you other wise. Your virginity should be saved for someone who is very special and not just becuase you like someone it should mean more than that. If he really cares about you and your wishes then you have nothing to worry about, but dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do.
~Christina~

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i have bags under my eyes and i would really like to know how to get rid of them because they make me look so tired all the time. is there anything i could do to get rid of them without having to buy anything? if not, what should I buy?

Love, Danielle

the tea bags works, also when you sleep if you put another pillow under your head so its more at an angle that will help and drink lots of water...if possible more sleep as well..

~Christina~

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